Tragedies and problems – dealing and benefiting from them

Tragedies and problems are finding us time to time and people basically have no idea what can somebody benefit from them? Regular people only seeing the personal loss or anything which is casued by some kind of bad event or maybe a car accident, a death of a loved one, or just a really bad grade in school etc. But smaller tragedies can happen too.

Over my researches I found an interesting viewpoint about how to deal with personal tragedies and how can we benefit from those experiences. It seems very very simple from the subjective non-physical side, which includes a basic thing – our personal spiritual development in this aspect. Of course it is harder than said but it worths the try. Keep balance always in your decisions. And remember, our life is only a facade of a bigger play theme – each individual is stepping in their own path with their choices.

Ok, here you go: the only solution is -how you are dealing with tragedies, problems and many negative life experiences. How you deal with it, that’s all, how you make a solution, how you benefit from it, even if it is a huge tragedy, how you make a smart reaction which will benefit your inner growth in a positive way.
Why? Well we are on a training gound where we are learning constantly and developing – I admit it seem like the most are not even developing anywhere as billions are sleepwalking and indoctrinated but everybody does their job in physical life to slowly or faster but gain knowledge and have life experiences.

To get it short, dealing is one thing but dealing on a way that you are crashing yourself down in a personal loop of negativism and tragedy is not a good idea. The problem solving here means that you let go of bad things in your life, let go the negativity, bad people and bad relationships. Let go and close down those episodes in your life. This way you will only live in the famous present moment and don’t give away any energy towards a past which you can’t change (only your thinking) and also stop worrying on the future which is probable and you will only cause trouble of your thinking. Worry doesn’t solve anything, right?

Even if a relative died or somebody had broken up a connection with us, maybe our car crashed, it is sad and could make people broken in spirit. Don’t let it smash you down. Life is going forward even if people tend to cling on a moment which causing them degrade over years and decades for no reason. We need to let go those bad events in our life, acknowledge them as they happened, we can’t change them, look into the present moment and try to be yourself. You are unique and this way nobody can of course tell you how to live and what to like/dislike, which this society also forgot.

Benefiting: we can gain knowledge from anything, it is only a matter of perception on every sides. You may ask, ok how a handicapped somebody could deal with or benefit from his/her position in a wheelchair for example. How can his/her mother/father/any relative who takes care of him/her benefit and grow from this situation. The only thing here is the viewpoint, how we deal with it, how we accept the situation and do our best. The handicapped person is in his/her little Universe and dealing with his/her bad situation as best as he/she can and when his/her life is finished for this physical life time, this knowledge will be added to the non-physical, to share this circumstance with others. Those who were dealing with him/her, they will also grow from their perspective and learn some understanding of these situations which they – in normal life where people have perfect health condition – may not encounter with such a “trap” for their loved ones. It may be for a reason. Look at the non-physical side: entities (ok we can call them “people”) are constantly gaining knowledge from those who were brave enough to jump in a physical life and deal with the consequences of their choices. Most people won’t ever accept the consequences of their stupid behavour and we all know such people.

Tragedy is only existing in a dualistic world like our physical one here and now and we tend to get it very seriously. But on the other hand/side, we are gaining deeper understanding of these events in our life, which we may not really aware right now or it will be obvious after some years/decades. It is like when spiritual people are spreading that there is no right or wrong. I agree on this but because everything is just experience in a continuous chain of events for consciousness (You, Me, everybody) and we are our source consciousness’ focuses, using a human body right now.
Tragedies are always look like that because our society has categories and attached meaning for just everything. We grew up surely knowing what is what but they are unnecessary limits.

Dealing with problems are like keeping balance, mentioned above. We tend to just make decisions on our feelings but that is the worst thing to do. Thoughts are generating feelings, so we need to check our thoughts first and track back their causes. If we tend to practice mindful reactions, we can surely benefit from our bigger life events in any way, not just crashing off in misery.
Always take into consideration: why that event happened to You? How you will solve this problem or loss and get over to look ahead and stay yourself?

I hope I could help.

What happens to Your relative after death?

This topic is just for the sake of understanding what happens to someone who “passes away”. My understanding and some personal explorations comes from a bigger picture of my own and verifications.

Those, who know how the Wider Reality works maybe experienced some kind of non-physical stuffs in their life (OBE, NDE, dreaming, etc). If somebody tries to investigate the simplified Focus model from 1-4 will see on his/her own, that everybody is relatively on his/her own journey and everybody is alone in physical viewpoint and interconnected from non-physical viewpoint. One of the big physical world lessons is changing viewpoint from objective to subjective like a movie camera, maybe from first person to third person. People are experienced any kinds of NP phenomena already while they are sleep. The angle of view is a useful tool to understand non-physical messages really, mainly in dreams.

So the point is when somebody is experiencing “death”, nothing huge happens, JUST they shred down their physical focus of his/her consciousness and return “back” to Focus 3, where he/she will be just fine. The vast majority needs “time” to adjust back to the non-physical world, where we came from and they will need to shake off every belief systems to plan another game for their experience. The most selects to live a really physical like life there in the belief system territories, others are suffering from their own emotions and beliefs. While you had time to stop your emotions and deal with consequences in the physical slowly, there it is instant and if you don’t stop it, somebody will come over and help you, which is very hard for the most. People are in huge energy bubbles in which they replay their death or emotions infinite times (the worst cases).

So the question is that what happens?
They switch primary focus back there. The dumb and intense physical focus is no longer needed, and the body also dies off because the energetic connection is over through the whole system, no need any further “body”. That is the worst thing when people think they were that body, that person, because they will continue to behave that way there later – they are limiting down to a narrow band their potential. It is an illusion!

The “where” is interesting here. Where is Focus 3? On a different reality level, right here around us, but we are not aware, only some few. Consciousness doesn’t occupy space and time, so everything, every infinite realities are existing at the exact same spot.

Which means YOU are the observer in every realities, you are the point of view so to speak. It is like an energy bubble is your little Universe any time, so it is tricky. Dead people often don’t realize they are “dead” – well nobody dies in this sense – and many continue act like they are dieing, replaying the death scenarios infinite amounts of times etc. But no problem, “people” (ok, entities rather) are dedicated to help many. Our society and history doesn’t give even a true fact about what is life about and what is after death, only lies and distorted infos. We can investigate this from here alone with various non-physical traveling methods. Dreaming is just one!

So here is a given relative, for example: aunt Karl.
Karl is passed away and he is changing back to Focus 3 as his primary focus world or level. He will be soon at his death leaded through a dimensional wormhole as his mind (the concepts which normal people learn over their physical life, a big white portal, the famous white light) interprets it and other’s are helping him go “there”. Those who help, could be other versions of his primary essence which is callled very badly and stupidly “Higher Self”, or maybe some other friends from the NP, it varies personally.

Where is he? He is done here, he has a footprint after physical life, added his knowledge to his Essence in Focus 4 and he continues in the BST regions, where he is mostly resonated after his beliefs and emotions. What happens next is up to every individual (emotional loops, healing centers, nice places, heavens etc). But don’t try to estimate time frames there because it is meaningless. Maybe he is already left Focus 3 and adopted his primary focus back to Focus 4 or maybe he learns many more stuffs already. It is meaningless to think over physical time frame terms. He is just fine.
And don’t try to think anything about heavens and hells. ALL are created by humans, to make them understand that after they literally had enough of those places, they can move further in their journey. They are personal traps of beliefs.

Remember, we are here just acting characters for various purposes which our own Essence chosen. We are not this body, not this person, we are formless energy entities. It is like a movie actor, they can behave like themselves, but in civil life they are not that played character. Or maybe Sims simulation games for another example.

If somebody can communicate with a dead relative, chances are, this “relative” can’t get one step further and attached to a previous dimensional life and can’t get lost F1 members, which is very hard to get lost for some. So he is stuck and can’t realize, he is much more than what he was and what he THOUGHT he was. Physical existence is addictive, look at the vast majority on this planet only… vast scale of addictions.

We came alone seemingly because it is a test to become, we choose whatever we would like to do later. Forget those BS fear based false assumptions that you are forced to come back… Back where? It was just one dimension from the vast scale. In a timeless and spaceless Multiverse, the idea of sequential reincarnation is as dumb as that you had past life (partly true).

Meeting with people from parallel lives

Now this post is about personal experiences and observations but I thought people may be curious how it works when we tend to meet others (humans) in other parallel realities, like Earth or any similar environments. Parallel selves. parallel lives are very real and shows that time in itself is meaningless!

I have encountered with different and countless people (yes, humans) and worlds in many of my other focuses’ lives and will, it is amazing but at the same time shows me how limited humans are in every reality like Earth here. If I say “other focus”, it means there are other selves from my own primary essence from my umbrella focus of Focus 4 (see the focus model).

How you experience other focus lives?

You are somehow experiencing an NP scene chain since a while, you may think you are in your own town or in a known city like your home city and as your own awareness is going higher and higher, you will notice that some objects, streets, buildings are not the same or at the wrong place or buildings are there where there is something else. Maybe you are not in a familiar environment but eventually the reality fluctuations will lead you to familiar places.
You just feel it that it is not ok, as a starter at the beginning, that something is wrong around you. I will be short on this, you simply walk and do anything which you may as your basic behavour maybe in your physical world. You are maybe hanging out with some “friends” and don’t even realise that they are totally strangers. But there you have THAT parallel self’s memories and act on them partly! You are for some hours or days (physical perspective) using his/her body’s focus (you are not in any body ever, your consciousness does the coordination which is you) and you are doing whatever the scenes tells you or whatever you eventually want to when your awareness is at the maximum. It may be a test to be successful also.

It is just a step on your non-physical development if you start it, you can experience much more of course, but it takes time to understand it. You may experience a parallel life in a parallel focus which is very very similar to your actual one here, except some differences in known people, family members or places. But sometimes they are so different that you are actually realising it after when you woke up here. You can’t believe it but you are that character in a higher perspective and you felt that you have those thoughts, your acts etc. But never think that you are that character! You are not. You both have the same primary essence. If you can experience another reality first person, you are already there as a probe. You merged with that person.
Consciousness already occupies countless realities from your own original self.

What I experienced about people (humans) in other physical worlds

Well I won’t say any positive here and it is sad. I knew that humanity is very underdeveloped in self-awareness, emotions and controlling their own mind, but this is so sad that people in other realities just dumb as here. They may simply can’t understand even after an hour of chat that you are temporarily using another parallel focus as your focus and trying to tell them what you know from your dimension or trying to tell them about what is this or that, maybe you try to tell them you are from another world. No forcing here, that is my main characteristic to help with infos.
From their viewpoint you will be looked insane or nuts and they just see you as that physical person THERE. People have no idea according to my observations that there are other countless physical parallel realities like theirs or ours. Non-physical people tend don’t know even linear time because they didn’t experience pyhsical life yet.

I don’t say that every physical being should know that the wider reality is not that one physical only and that the wider reality is vastly multiversal for learning and experiencing purposes, but when these people are faced with informations from seemingly from an entity (like me) from who knows “where”, they just stare at you or amazed. I just can’t count how many realities I experienced already by simply intending it with my method, but it varies.

For example I teached people about various subjects in other worlds and they are acting like they had no idea that it is possible (according to the subject there). And here I need to count in the Focus 3 NP realities too.  You try to show what is healing, superpower, TIME, no money etc and they are shocked or amazed (mostly NP people). It is funny when we take this into consideration that on our physical Earth, people are the same. People after the death illusion not really changing… why should they? People in Focus 3 just building cities and doing the same, not knowing most, that it is illusion again with much more freedom.
Well here religions and brainwashing from other sources does the job but when I see this on other worlds this in itself makes me think that humanity is so simple that they just don’t care, just want to live their actual life and that is all. That is ok of course. Why should I judge a simple entity who just wanted to experience a certain emotion or having kids?

Well my type is an ever observing, learning, helping and teaching type (ok mostly I’m a passive learner) but it is very difficult (to teach) to do if you are looked at like a complete alien in other worlds – you naturally tend to do your job and you get back shocked faces lol. You have only effect on those who needs better understanding in the wider reality and need help, but it is the same as in this world – people are just not ready. We should leave them alone to grow in their own speed.

Help in both worldtypes is always given, I’m doing freely no matter if you are just saving somebody from an accident or from bad people, this method is not required any understanding from the other party, so intelligence and understanding is not a primary part. If you are capable of helping, you will be transported there to do it on your own, that is cool thing to do over night or when you are able to project at will later. You don’t need to understand how atomic parts behave to melt something.

The worst is that when people are experiencing these events they just think they are that person (fake past life regressions yeah…) and they tend to shake off every of these events after they “wake up” here. Well ok, in a very wider sense it is partly you, and not.
Too bad what brainwashing is given from our society and parents after birth. Everything is REAL what you experience, no matter it is physical world type or non-physical, maybe you are just reliving your own mind’s noise from previous days in various scenes but those are equally real! The wider reality doesn’t care that you believe in something, it will reflect your own beliefs and emotions. You can’t fool yourself.
You feel it, touch it, speak there, see it, have emotions, see your clothes, maybe hear your voice if you are using vocal cords (or speaking with telepathy from your “head”), feeling as your muscles are using force etc.
Everything comes down one thing: do you have the proper awareness to see that was very real? I assure you with physical awareness level or above (yes, our physical world is just a dumb illusion and our awareness could make higher) you will be 100% sure that those adventures were real – bad ones, good ones. And that mind or egos noise here and now doesn’t really exists while you are “out” from here because the filter is blocked as your physical body is on autopilot.

Of course we can meet so much nice and kind people, it is bad to say goodbye many times and maybe we can meet again.