The Real meaning of Reincarnation, a partly true conception

Reincarnation is a pretty confusing topic to a limited human mind and indeed there are countless theories and fake assumptions from limited materialistic and objective thinking. Mystics have this favourite notion to grab and sell “past life regressions” to people, which is also a fake thing. It took me a while also to break down, how it is working out in truth (I mean the parallel lives thing) and I admit it still makes my mind wonder when I try to attach the pieces but I will try to explain it, how the big life game works out on both sides. I may be wrong in some aspects and everybody believes what he/she wants to at the end but I will try to serve a pure insight, to show the subjective truth.

Reincarnation – the word and it’s meanings

If we only observe what it means and according to what other people told us about this by mostly religions and mystical false assumptions, it is only boiling down to this: you are reborn again and again and again until you reach a certain “level” in anything. That is dumb. Life on both sides never ends. But I need to admit that we are surely developing always (maybe some people lol), that is maybe the only reality in this concept.

Many advanced NP travelers debunked this theory if not in 100% but almost fully, that this concept is a very very limited false assumption about how in a TIMELESS and ENDLESS Multiverse we use physical Universes to experience life from a limited and dualistic viewpoint to experience something which we can’t normally in the non-physical world. We also call it “non-physical” because that is how we are thinking with a box mind. Almost everything which we learnt in life from our childhood is false or useless. Almost anything – you realize it after gaining more awareness towards your “sleep life”. I know William Buhlman also likes to voice this issue how our world and what we learnt is flawed but it is more like that.

If we try to think on the linear limited thinking, a simple human mind tries to grasp a linear timeframe concept as we tend to think here (ok not everybody fortunatelly) and we think that there is some kind of beginning or ending like birth and death or before and after etc. It is completely not like that. Think about a timeless world. If you don’t have time to experience, nor a body or a race from the starting point, what is the meaning of a before and after concept. It ONLY exists here as a reference, to categorize anything which we experience. You can do anything in the non-physical, eternity is Yours! Physical world if for restrictions and individuation!
Time is the same, we see time as a linear flow but it is rather jumping constantly between realities in and out without realizing it here and now, those are called probable realities and existing right here, all at the same time. There are many concepts about this one or maybe just a few but reincarnation is a highly limited misinterpreted understanding of a process which is very difficult to the most to wrap their minds around.

Why? Because religions, people, science, anything through the centuries told something which is enough ok to accept. Also people are kept in fear because of the “past life” concept, even today by mystics because it says you that you should pay back some kind of non-existent debt (karma lol) and/or you were this and that – totally ignoring and not knowing the parallel life fact – and that you were this person, now you should be hackish aware what you do etc. The list is very curved what is told to people for money and fear.

Don’t hang up on karma, it is a misleading concept, it is about your acts and consequences and dealing with them, accepting your responsibility. Just another fear machine to sell you.

Even if reincarnation is partly true, it is parallel life surely and a fact also

Ok it is a fact but for who? I admit that only those have access to real knowledge who did a deep dig enough in the material and the REAL facts, even mostly in first hand experiences, could be make sure that it is true. But you can experience parallel lives all the time if you wish for it intently by the nights or with various mind traveling methods: meditation, OBE, Phasing, Astral Projection, Lucid Dreams, anything, all the same.

Let me make it clear. If you’ve met somebody in the non-physical by any means and tools, who felt to be like you, furthermore you EXPERIENCED a past life being so real, having those memories and emotions, THAT WAS YOU in a wider sense. That character in THAT world and you as a character here and now in THIS world are NOT the same persons at all but you are both stemming from a bigger being which are the eternal you. This being is mislabeled so badly but I don’t mention it right now. This being is creating probes to experience physical life and yes YOU are doing it on another level of existence. You and that other version of you – the parallel self – are both coming from the same Essence but this Essence likes to play out every scenarios with every probable selves at the SAME time! Consciousness wants to explore, expand and develop from another viewpoint.

The Eternal Now in the vast Multiverse, the non-physical world

Yes, indeed, even here in the physical world we can live in the NOW as many sources and people are teaching it (many don’t have any idea why they are saying it without any real knowledge of the NP) but it takes effort. If we live in a messy life full of stress and tasks, we can’t just calm down and concentrate on being in the now. But I also realized that this now here what we experience linear timeframe (as our brains were washed out from birth), if we take a closer look how it is really working out, it is really just an illusion an as subjective as the non-physical. We only see that our body is aging, food is rotting, Sun revolves around Earth etc… we measure time by devices. It keeps the vast majority in a slave trap as going to work and almost everybody accepts this group construct.

In the other hand in the NP, time is meaningless, you may experience thousands of other lives at the same time. You see, this one physical life is not at all so serious, it IS a game. It is hard because this world is full of greed over money and fear and a few leads the masses… well people are the ones who give their power away but this place is a school for consciousness.

In other worlds, you may be an alien with different body, maybe a slimey lifeform, anything really. Some are living on planets, maybe under water, maybe in outer space, it is limitless, only imagination takes boundaries. They are all forms for consciousness to expand and explore it’s potential. Some civilizations are far more advanced than us – it is not hard to imagine it lol.

My take and big picture on Reincarnation vs. Parallel Lives in the same nutshell

It was really hard for me to think this over months after months, with first hand knowledge from the non-physical, talking with my parallel selves, other NP people in Focus 3 (Afterlife), pretty confusing topic IF you don’t drop the whole linear timeframe to the trashcan and think that all over again. The subjective thinking there is way different and not so restricted.
I met some people with whom I was flying in the air and through ceilings for example (I was the one who showed THEM how to do it but they ARE non-physical and not me, funny isn’t it?), so many of them didn’t even have any knowledge about time, they didn’t have the capability or experience to know what is THAT? Most of the so called “Afterlife” entities never were even physical.

If we imagine a simulation game like the popular and one of my favourites, The Sims games (mostly for example 2. and 3.) you may see that our lives are like that mostly. The player is the Essence (the full version of You) and the characters are doing the roleplay. Maybe we can use up any MMORPG games for this issue if it is easier. When those characters start, they start from a pre-given initial status, direct their life from birth with or without the help of the Essence and later on after death the knowledge is surely added to the fuller yourself. My take on this is that we are constantly jumping in and out these life games. Some are pretty hard and miserable and some are beautiful. Well it won’t take so much experience if you would always take the good side, right? That is for example why physical life is existing. You are experiencing a dualistic viewpoint.

What about memories BEFORE this life? I have still only partial infos but one thing is sure, our memories are directly repressed for the safety of not remembering who you are because many stuffs in your life is a test. How you solve your problems, how many times you choose love instead fear. But it would be really bad if you would remember much more, it won’t serve the purpose of this life at all.
You see, why people are afraid of life and death? They don’t know even a thing, religions yay we love them, right? They don’t do any good rather then keeping the most in false hopes and fear.

I hope I helped to understand this.

What are thought forms non-physically?

Maybe you heard about thought forms in some kind of topics, maybe mostly about non-physical occurences or in the mystical world. What are “thought” forms and how do they work, unseen beyond the physical world?

I should add this: we ARE not existing in this dimension (illusion you know…), we are only using a temporary focus to operate in this world. We are all non-physical consciousness originally and it can be proved through many many tools of non-physical traveling by yourself. Read the Focus Model on the site, it gives you a simple impression of how these Focus states are showing that consciousness is using channels or rather focuses of attention for it’s experiencing purposes.

The physical world looks sooo real, we just can’t debunk the illusion after we were indoctrinated with so much crap from childhood.

Thought equals primary energy, the main creator

We use our thoughts to operate our physical vehicle called “physical body”, we use thoughts to eat, drive a car, dream up a plan about something, think about somebody at somewhere, we use them to experience life as we are pure Consciousness experiencing a temporary limited world and thoughts are our main energy giver. Thoughts are building up physical objects and creating anything by some kind of timelapse. Forget that idiot scientific nonsense that we are our brain and it does everything, it is a translating mechanism between the two worlds and have many functions according to it.

Thoughts equal instant action in the non-physical world, meaning that you will instantly experience your thoughts around you. On the other hand in our limited world we have time and good or bad choices to delay the consequences of our thoughts and actions. NO surprise that the vast majority not just can’t control their thoughts and also check theirs but almost nobody accepts responsibility after their actions. People just stagnating in real development of their own consciousness.

The thought and action mechanism as We humans do

We have thoughts, ok sure thing, who doesn’t? Emotions are coming from thoughts, strong repeated thoughts! Not the other way! That is what people can’t understand because they never check what they are thinking of. They just burst out in anger, hatred and shouting. Thought forms are forming over time in the non-physical and EVERYTHING comes into this world from there, not the other way. Sorry, the Earth and the physical world – EVERY of them – are end results. Everything which the human mind every dreamt up and thought of are already existing in another parellel world.
So what happens is the thought form is like grey smoke over there and it slowly but surely – if the actual transmitter doesn’t stops thinking about certain things – will become reality. Personal reality, group construct, a building, cancer in the body, a traffic accident, all are caused by thought froms which each individual’s consciousness notices and selects a certain probable outcome in physical life and with seemingly “time” delay to create that end result. You see, the non-physical world is our true home and origin, we are coming HERE to learn to control our thoughts, thus emotions and accept the consequences sooner or later. The most are pretty bad in this game. If you test it in the non-physical – maybe while you are asleep by night and pretty aware – you can observe your thoughts as smokey cloulds taking shape.

Let me ask something, and many out-of-body people already know it: with whom would you like to be next to you (you as a highly developed eternal being in the non-physical) if your stranger is underdeveloped in controlling his/her thoughts and thus emotions in a thought responsive world? I guess nobody would be so happy if somebody gets there and just instantly releases his/her own fears and uncontrolled thoughts first.

One of the main reasons why the most are playing physical game!

Not the only one reason but one of the many. Consciousness needs to do something, expand in deeper understanding about itself, experiencing highly restricted life viewpoint as a physical life, dualism, anything which it can’t experience and learn from it in a timeless, endless, vast Multiverse. The problem is, those who can’t get by with their thoughts or create their life according to their likes, won’t allowed to be on a higher level of existence, not because some kind of punishment but rather because there is a teacher-student like hierarchical system to teach each of us to learn and grow and become more, more complex, creative and more from love. And if people are fooling others for money, they won’t develop anywhere, it is like you would fool yourself, because we are interconnected in all levels.

Let’s be straight, look around you, look on this civilization. The most are not even ready to anything, some of us need to help these people only if they ask for it. In the non-physical world it is the same taks, non-physical helpers or guides are doing it from their own decision but with vastly bigger numbers of lost souls. It takes practice there too and you can grow from it too here and there also. Many people who are capable of retrievals or soul rescuing are doing it automatically over night without knowing this, we are needed.
Here on Earth we are like students. This is only one planet and one physical vast Universe from the endless ones, not mentioning the probable worlds at the same time with parallel focuses. A pretty huge game for consciousness.

To sum this up, though forms are real, you are generating them all day long, the most repeated ones will create probable future end results and be careful of “what you wished for”. If you fire them up with emotions, they may create themselves more rapidly.

Tragedies and problems – dealing and benefiting from them

Tragedies and problems are finding us time to time and people basically have no idea what can somebody benefit from them? Regular people only seeing the personal loss or anything which is casued by some kind of bad event or maybe a car accident, a death of a loved one, or just a really bad grade in school etc. But smaller tragedies can happen too.

Over my researches I found an interesting viewpoint about how to deal with personal tragedies and how can we benefit from those experiences. It seems very very simple from the subjective non-physical side, which includes a basic thing – our personal spiritual development in this aspect. Of course it is harder than said but it worths the try. Keep balance always in your decisions. And remember, our life is only a facade of a bigger play theme – each individual is stepping in their own path with their choices.

Ok, here you go: the only solution is -how you are dealing with tragedies, problems and many negative life experiences. How you deal with it, that’s all, how you make a solution, how you benefit from it, even if it is a huge tragedy, how you make a smart reaction which will benefit your inner growth in a positive way.
Why? Well we are on a training gound where we are learning constantly and developing – I admit it seem like the most are not even developing anywhere as billions are sleepwalking and indoctrinated but everybody does their job in physical life to slowly or faster but gain knowledge and have life experiences.

To get it short, dealing is one thing but dealing on a way that you are crashing yourself down in a personal loop of negativism and tragedy is not a good idea. The problem solving here means that you let go of bad things in your life, let go the negativity, bad people and bad relationships. Let go and close down those episodes in your life. This way you will only live in the famous present moment and don’t give away any energy towards a past which you can’t change (only your thinking) and also stop worrying on the future which is probable and you will only cause trouble of your thinking. Worry doesn’t solve anything, right?

Even if a relative died or somebody had broken up a connection with us, maybe our car crashed, it is sad and could make people broken in spirit. Don’t let it smash you down. Life is going forward even if people tend to cling on a moment which causing them degrade over years and decades for no reason. We need to let go those bad events in our life, acknowledge them as they happened, we can’t change them, look into the present moment and try to be yourself. You are unique and this way nobody can of course tell you how to live and what to like/dislike, which this society also forgot.

Benefiting: we can gain knowledge from anything, it is only a matter of perception on every sides. You may ask, ok how a handicapped somebody could deal with or benefit from his/her position in a wheelchair for example. How can his/her mother/father/any relative who takes care of him/her benefit and grow from this situation. The only thing here is the viewpoint, how we deal with it, how we accept the situation and do our best. The handicapped person is in his/her little Universe and dealing with his/her bad situation as best as he/she can and when his/her life is finished for this physical life time, this knowledge will be added to the non-physical, to share this circumstance with others. Those who were dealing with him/her, they will also grow from their perspective and learn some understanding of these situations which they – in normal life where people have perfect health condition – may not encounter with such a “trap” for their loved ones. It may be for a reason. Look at the non-physical side: entities (ok we can call them “people”) are constantly gaining knowledge from those who were brave enough to jump in a physical life and deal with the consequences of their choices. Most people won’t ever accept the consequences of their stupid behavour and we all know such people.

Tragedy is only existing in a dualistic world like our physical one here and now and we tend to get it very seriously. But on the other hand/side, we are gaining deeper understanding of these events in our life, which we may not really aware right now or it will be obvious after some years/decades. It is like when spiritual people are spreading that there is no right or wrong. I agree on this but because everything is just experience in a continuous chain of events for consciousness (You, Me, everybody) and we are our source consciousness’ focuses, using a human body right now.
Tragedies are always look like that because our society has categories and attached meaning for just everything. We grew up surely knowing what is what but they are unnecessary limits.

Dealing with problems are like keeping balance, mentioned above. We tend to just make decisions on our feelings but that is the worst thing to do. Thoughts are generating feelings, so we need to check our thoughts first and track back their causes. If we tend to practice mindful reactions, we can surely benefit from our bigger life events in any way, not just crashing off in misery.
Always take into consideration: why that event happened to You? How you will solve this problem or loss and get over to look ahead and stay yourself?

I hope I could help.

Nightly terrors and bad dreams, abductions

This issue is pretty simple and I’ve seen many many self-voted people talking about this subject in many videos and blogs, websites – actually they have no slight idea about what they are talking about, same as “alien abductions”. People are copying each other, it is dumb.

First of all, you need to learn according to your own life experiences over time sooner or later that your thoughts – and eventually this way – your mind is very powerful and you can manifest any kinds of circumstances, “power” to experience and decode your own reality in the physical life how you decide to experience it. There are also limits to abilities but the truth is about the nightly problems are that every individual are causing it to themselves! You are constantly interpreting your reality here and now according to consensus reality agreements and personal decoding.

Thoughts, released uncontrolled

For first you must agree on, that you release hundreds or thousands of thoughts each day, not even realizing it that your thoughts are forming your personal reality from the subjective inner reality but causing probable futuristic outcomes. It takes seemingly physical time in our liner time perspective.
As your thoughts are containing fearful notions and bad habits of thinking, you can experience very bad situations and circumstances both in physical life and in non-physical life. Your experiences are what you are thinking mostly, I mean just mostly.

The non-physical is here right now on a different mind-channel, you just can’t maybe reach it consciously. Forget what every people say about it, you are always there while you are asleep. You can also get influence from there daily but not in that idiotish way which people are spreading to effect you with fear. Look at this the other way: the physical and non-physical are the SAME but the physical has restrictive rulesets like physical body as a buffer towards events. It is NOT you, it is a projection, feeling “real”.

Everybody should check whatever they think daily because this is one of the primary reasons why we are in the physical dimension to live physical life. If you can’t check your thoughts and can’t keep them in control, you may don’t have sudden effects mostly here as your physical body serves as a filter, but in the non-physical – from where we came from – you are experiencing your own thoughts instantly without realizing it. Here you are living physical life to learn to grow up and not just control them but to take responsibility about your thoughts. If you don’t learn it right now, you will later, maybe after hundreds of lifetimes. I won’t waste my time on this lol.

Uncontrolled thoughts are causing released emotions, not the other way. Emotions are fueling experiences. Bad ones are the worst, they are causing these unpleasant experiences over night too. In the NP, you fear something, you can’t stop it, if you don’t stop your thoughts about that situation it will be magnified very much, because that is how the wider reality works.

So what is happening over night?

It is simple, nothing complicated. You are close to the non-physical and just releasing all your thoughts which are fueled with emotions and they tend to manifest so bad situations that you may not returning back to the physical dimensions completely but actual leftover thought forms are manifesting “around your bed” and you are fueling it. You are creating those fears, not some kind of “evil” entities are hurting you. YOU are doing it! You fear from your own aspects, which are you, personalized! Start laugh towards them or act on love and happiness. It is hard but you are actually fighting with yourself. People need to grow up non-physically.

Why are you experiencing personalized aspects of yourself? Because physical human life is about objective viewpoint and we are objectifying everything, that is how the human part of our mind works. Subjective viewpoint in the NP is very different.

When people are going to sleep, they – from a very bad civilisational habit and programming – tend to black out to just “sleep” towards the morning and they soon realize maybe that they are “elsewhere” in a non-physical training ground (surprise why is that name is the label) and they instantly release all their thoughts from previous days and events which are running in the background always, but never checking them and knowing about them. So you are in a thought responsive environment and you are thinking about somehing is approaching you, omg what is that? And you just instantly interpret that something with your fearful ego, fueling it into some kind of evil entity, now you are in great fear, fueling it further (automatically) and further until you can’t escape and getting up in your bed in great fear, screaming etc. Children basically can experience this because they freshly learnt stupid human concepts from this world. I experienced it too in my childhood for a few times when I haven’t got any idea about the non-physical endless world.

So you had a so called nightly terror, alien abduction (the same, no aliens want your butt), evil entities (evil is only your perception) etc. Even if you THINK you woke up and the entity is still there, you are not awake physically! You are in a parallel world, facing your own fear construct. Stop fooling yourself. Check your thoughts and eliminate fear based beliefs from your life! If you would act towards a thought form with curiousness with some kind of positive attitude, it would be a fairy or some kind of “kind” character.
I repeat it, not the actual character or any thought form causes you to be afraid, you are doing it and this way the thought form changes into what you are thinking.

The worst is as the internet is flooded with shit all over, people are talking out their own theories as facts about these kind of things which they have no idea what they are talking about, no personal objective observations are made and they are believing their TRUTH so well, they are actually speaking self-made facts. Don’t believe anything, questiont them! Many of people are objectifying their own personal belief constructs.

And search for non-physical resources, forums and start learn about the wider reality if you don’t want to fool yourself. There are many billions over there in the so called “Afterlife”, stucking in for an eternity in self-made fear loops and addictions, don’t follow them. We are not here for gather physical resources and act on dramas, to hate each other and suffer! Physical life just a big illusional facade.

The Focus Model from F1 to F4 – part 4 (FOCUS 3 – The Afterlife, Belief System Territories)

After we leave Focus 2, we can experience the entrance structures, which are leading us to various facilities and buildings, maybe a city, which is for one purpose – welcoming those who just recently left their physical focus, on other words they “died” and they switch on to their non-physical perspective.
Here comes the big thing.

The whole place is for various purposes, “people” like doctors, practicioners and specialists are helping others on various way to help heal you from your recent life and shake you back to function fully. You need to – for you own sake – shake off the previous life. There are various places to heal people from big emotional shocks of experiencing death and that place, healing those who only needs some adjusting and people who needs to shake off beliefs etc.

Heavens, Hells, various repeating situations

Now the Afterlife is a trap for most, full of Belief System Territories. It is not a bad thing on the other hand, because in a certain consciousness level, many people tend to choose the path to shake off beliefs and regain their true power, knowledge and realise that they are much more. But after what experienced travelers reported back, billions and billions, maybe quadrillions are just wasting themselves from a “higher self” perspective and the potential is lost, like a probe sent out and hardly returning back to their full potential, instead being addicted to physical life.

People there are enjoying various heavens and hells, other places, which all resonating with their beliefs to a certain degree. So why is this a problem? Well you will surely get bored and you need to realise that this is an illusion but this is another story.
What people can imagine as those places, are already existing. If you believe that there is “Hell” but you don’t believe that you will get there, you won’r.

Countless F3 Cities, Worlds

I was already in countless cities there, which are “located” on the higher or outer edges in theory, but if we understand the phasing model, there is no space, you only travel “there” with your thoughts or rather switch to a different channel, but visually they are may interconnected seemingly from a certain observational point.

People are continuing living their lives there. Building houses, going to work etc, which they only know and can’t help that notion – they are still addicted to human nature. You don’t need sleep for your non-existing body, you don’t need food, money to pay your bills, you do whatever you want to and meanwhile, people are just doing what they were familiar to in Focus 1, completely forgetting that there is much much more in the Wider Reality. You may spend thousands physical like years there, and you didn’t even see a tiny little fraction from this place.

In the closest regions there are addictive people, suffers, self-fooling everywhere. I try to avoid placing these “places” physically like on a map. And don’t misunderstand me but suffer could be many thing according to the actual person. Some people are reliving their painful death a million times, that is a hell too. Helpers are everywhere to help who are dedicated their task to do it from free will, it is a job so to speak and they can’t help everybody, there are just too much people needy for help.

The “outer” regions are for people who adjusted themselves finally to the non-physical and they are living a good life there. They are dead and proud. Maybe they are planning their next journey, but in linear time means maybe 1000 years are passing by for an “individual” while he just stops his/her acts and continue to live a meaningful life. No hurry there, because no time there.

And Afterlife or Focus 3 is just a tiny little fragment, only our local system’s place. Only the human world’s border. There are endless realities, races (ET’s) and they also have their own Afterlife there in the much Wider Reality… nothing is like a closed box place. People are just can’t gain back their true potential – most of them – because there is much more! The only limits are made by you!

Your beliefs will determine your initial life “there”

As I said above, in what you believe, will happen and you will be at a certain place which resonates mostly with you. It is like a vibrational match by your thoughts and beliefs. Nothing is wrong with it of course, eventually after a long “time” we will go further. Learning doesn’t stop after we leave physical realities. A non-physical entity won’t stay in a static state ever.

Now, Focus 3 relatively ends here and comes the so called (R.M.) inter- or transdimensional area which connects worlds. Of course there is no end, I mean physically speaking from an objective persception. But remember here now everything is relatively subjective. If you didn’t learn to behave and control your thoughts and emotions in the physical, you won’t disturb people in the other regions, who are more advanced. You are simply not allowed stand to somebody who is master of it’s thoughts. You may will be kicked out from that place instant.

But! You are relatively free to roam around after adjusting “back” to Focus 3. We all came from there.

Focus 4 is a fully different perspective, that is the umbrella Focus level or channel. People call it Higher Self or Essence what exists there, but there is no higher or lower self, it is a pure mystical crap, not understanding the basics, that YOU already occupy every level of focuses. If you enter this focus stage, you cease to exist as an objective somebody, total disintegration of the previous self and you gain back your true self. We are all starting here from pure energy. This is the death of ego, which keeps you trapped in a character which is only a fragment of you.

What counts in your physical life?

Now there are many many theories and rulesets which people are made and thought out over the years mostly in spiritual forums and also we can hear this and that in personal life, chatting with people.

Your physical life is for a reason. You came here to this reality to play a game on your own. Now I know for many, it is not a good game and they suffer. But it is meant to be a good experience chain, well eventually we leave from here and coming back to the non-physical to do whatever we would like to. Don’t take the game too seriously.

I won’t share any mystical and religious concepts, I rather decline all and will. Now what I say in my blogs are coming from personal observations, experiences and from making up the bigger picture of the truth, maybe personal truth mostly about the wider reality and it’s mechanics.
So what I say here is that the most accurate thing here is that you were the one who planned your initial life here and started up. Now many people just can’t figure out why did they select a certain family or life circumstances, body type, etc. To learn and grow from them! Not the learning itself is the most required thing here, but that you are acting and experiencing here and making decisions from your heart.
You are forced to use your creative power and learning to create your reality on your own.

Right or wrong decisions

There is no right or wrong. We only learnt that in this duality world you need to make distinctions between those two, but really, it doesn’t matter. The main issue is that did you learn or gain something about a certain decision or life experience?
Did you make decision based on your fears or from your heart without fear?

Everybody have a certain compass against good and bad, we just developed our sense from birth. The other side is what your Inner non-physical self thinks is right or wrong, but that doesn’t matter. Your non-physical counterpart doesn’t judge or punish you ever, just helping you indirectly mostly – it depends on the individual and how ready to hear the helping “words”.
Your developing personality here and now, which you bring “back” to the NP is the one what counts and you are becoming it by choosing and making decisions.

Your choices are only like you are choosing another path and another one continously, as jumping to the next reality and the next, all the endless possible realities are there and you are just seemingly without any effect, going in and out of those. Now we can call it physical time, but time is really an illusion. It has a function: do you make the wrong decision over and over again for decades? You have plenty time to do it.
When you make a wrong decision, you may feel bad after that and facing it’s effects but, this reality is about one thing for sure: You are in a slowed down environment, concentrating your awareness to one certain life, to make choose and choose and choose until you learn really that you chose well finally. That’s all! Decide from your heart and on what feels good for YOU! Not anybody else!

This is Your life, and you are worthy to live it in full joy!

We can surely get life situations when people are just stepping in our personal area of life and decisions really, like our family or partners. Egoist people are everywhere, who just can’t make correct decisions and suffer from their weakness. They even start to blame you or just telling you how should you live your life. Even comes the next stage what is good or bad for you etc. Now… who the hack cares about what others are thinking about you? We do care but we should stop it.
And the sad thing, they have an effect on you, because you just subconsciously processing what they said and will have negative outcome many times. You can’t help it, you can’t help them! You need to leave them where they are and stop giving them energy. Most of the people are just stucked in a loop of endless suffering, blames and egoism with stupidism. Let them alone fast.
You can be kind to anybody and just do it, that’s ok but eventually you need to keep up a passive barrier to not get caught up on others. Just don’t let yourself influence, your life and choices are yours. You can’t live other’s lives.
You should develop a passive personality, who can maintain a balance in any part of your life, starting with your emotions.

Influence on people and Your life

Here is a personal story from me. I many times had struggle with people who just didn’t stay with their own thoughts and forcing their views and beliefs on me or on others. I guess I saw this from my birth and observed people’s behavour. Most of them are like that – they try to influence you and you can’t escape (and the worst, they don’t care). The other side is true, even in family or just with people in your life, you CAN give advices to people if they need help, need information, your knowledge, your heart BUT you can’t force them do what they should. You can’t ever live other’s life. I got many messages from the non-physical over some nights because I couldn’t understand why people just want to suffer or doesn’t want to be their own help. Like they wasting their life. And got the message that you can’t live other’s life and let them alone. I felt negativism in my feelings because I think mostly from my good heart and seeing people like that is sad. But I had self-judgement that if I don’t help, I will be somebody who is frozen against these people, because I’m good and have a certain configuration deep inside. But that is not the case. From the non-physical perspective, everybody is responsible only for their life. Another case is of course if you are with somebody or going alone is not a good thing. That is right, don’t think this over further.

No respect towards your decisions, your life and your personality?

Just don’t give a damn to those people who can accept who you are, trying to influence you, or laughing at you, not giving even a tiny respect which you deserve. Everybody encounters with these people but it is sometimes really hard to get lost from them. The worst is close relationships like mostly our family members. Your life worths more than idiot people’s influence – let them tell their opinion to themselves and let them alone.
Why should you let people blame you or let them humiliate and influence you? Your self-esteem will lower and you lose your creating power. Just stay yourself, stay strong and remember, what counts is only You, your life experiences, joy and memories, your interactions from your side towards people and nothing else. You may did your best and that’s all. This is what you are bringing further, what makes you, YOU. But eventually you are here and now a limited character so don’t make the false assumption that this is only just you. We are much more than this limited character, but our added experiences from here are what counts really. You are becoming and developing.
Once more, your character here, this body, personality is just a construct from the beginning for various purposes, and you “become” eventually.

The main thing here is that you should always make decisions on your own, even if you need secondary support from your family or friends about what decision could maybe bad, but base your thoughts on what feels good or right for you. The other side of the game’s coin here is that we live with consequences always. Starting with our thoughts which build up in our subconscious as a running program and makes effect in the physical life later. That is manifestation, a so misunderstood aspect of everybody these days. Many people are just in fear to make correct decisions, and they are just stuck. Like regular job work.

So, if you want to suffer, here you go, do it.
If you want to be happy, that’s cool, do it. That’s all, nothing complicated.
The only barrier is the one which you pull up against yourself. Your limits, mental blocks.
It is up to you to live a good life in what you feel yourself good and it is not recommended that you need to swim in money or suffer in mental pain : )