Who are You in the Wider Reality?

Most of humans think, we are that human in that kind of body with that given sex and characteristics, which you experience from birth as your own body, identity and many more. People tend to think that they are that, and indentifying themselves with that body and character eventually. Surprise when they arrive to the “Afterlife” they will stay the same and those few who realised that they are not even human or male/female can easily step forward to the wider reality and develop further, because there are relatively no limits.

The social conditioning is very wise when it breaks down to conditioning types. It can come from our parents, the media, other people who also believe in the same false assumption, religions are the worst (but some of them had the core element about the body and indentity as a false image). Everybody is free to believe in something, don’t misunderstand me, but it leads nowhere.
So we are just constantly brainwashed from birth and the most of us are just stucked forever in hard beliefs about who we are really. Just nothing comes close to the real fact.

Everybody in essence is a free non-physical, timeless, ageless, genderless, raceless energy being

Well all above. You are originally an energy being, who splits into individual units and experiencing life, learning to grow, playing, learning certain values, experiencing duality, the illusion of time and space, physicality and many more.

You just don’t want to stay forever in the non-physical if you really want to gain something. You NEED to experience the physical dumb training ground, which could be hard. And the joke here is, it is said that most of the non-human entities were never even physical. I met many on my journes too: they had no idea what is physical linear time for example. I was amazed that I was teaching them about physical things.

We are planning a game for us to jump in and from initial circumstances and given surroundings and family, we just build up our new personality for the sake of the game and learning curve and experiencing physical life, which is important to make value about what is it like to be non-physical. Interesting huh? You are gaining a better, a more valuable insight what it feels to be physical and non-physical at the same time, because we can experience both while we are in physical life, but not otherwise if you are mainly resident in the NP. We create our personality according to our main tasks here. But duality is very important. Light couldn’t be without dark, right?

Your knowledge is benefit for all in the NP

What we learn, experience, achieve, how we played, I agree on this that we will add that information package to benefit others in the non-physical. Well I like to help people here in the physical also.

Remember, you came from the NP and not the other way. That is why physical life is important. You will appreciate it when you realised the value of your role here. The whys, hows etc. Don’t wait till you die and realise what did you lose.

If you’ve suffered through your life, you gain knowledge how not to do it maybe (not everybody learns) and if you could manage to know yourself better and have fun, you also gain knowledge to how to do it right plus realising your true inner self. Don’t underestimate what your life is all about. And don’t be self-judgemental if you couldn’t change your life on the way what you wanted to, maybe you deeply didn’t need that change! You may never now while you are here… but never give up!

You are not just ONE person

Now this issue is very mind-twisting and I needed some months to digest it while I was gathering evidence and tried to understand the basics. R.M. told this issue in his later vids, which I could find on Youtube from 1994. before his death, but later other people could reinforce this theory as truth. Now I don’t give so much value to channeled stuffs but there are some truth behind the distorted stories, we need to seriously investigate if we need the truth, belief is not truth!

The issue is this. Everybody is composed from different personalities. I will later try to discuss this further because it could be life changing for everybody. But people with more personalities are very normal and everybody using them according to their life situations, emotions and addictions. You are composed from various aspects, which gives your eventual indentity and YOU are deciding which ones do you want to use. You may be sometimes happy, sometimes laughing on movies, sometimes mad at certain people, other times you enjoy playing autosport games and other times enjoy pop music. That is all you, and just don’t realise ever that you are switching over certain personalities which you are made of, according to the given circumstances and situations.
That could be why we all maybe find bad persons relatively good deep inside and we can’t let go them so soon. I have this tendency too and getting lost that bad person is very hard in this case…

This whole personified unit thing which is You or Me is also an illusion for the sake of enjoying the physical game and experiencing loneliness as one unit, detached from the big interconnected net of consciousnesses in Focus 3 and Focus 4, from where we came from. It is for the game to know what is it like you are closed out from the network seemingly but you are still connected in the background!

So who you are? Only you may know. Look deep inside and observe your likes/dislikes, your characteristics, attitudes towards people and life situations, your talents, your life purpose which you feel is “that” purpose here and now. You can investigate through advanced and controlled non-physical travels, OBEs, “Lucid Dreams”. That is all you. But don’t make the false assumption that this character is you in a wider sense. Billions does that and don’t escape from themselves after death, meaning stucked in the Afterlife in Belief System Territories and just didn’t went further out in the Multiverse than an inch! Every dimension, world, Focus level is here right now, but your primary focus is here right now in your waking awareness. Consciousness does not occupy space and time!

What counts in your physical life?

Now there are many many theories and rulesets which people are made and thought out over the years mostly in spiritual forums and also we can hear this and that in personal life, chatting with people.

Your physical life is for a reason. You came here to this reality to play a game on your own. Now I know for many, it is not a good game and they suffer. But it is meant to be a good experience chain, well eventually we leave from here and coming back to the non-physical to do whatever we would like to. Don’t take the game too seriously.

I won’t share any mystical and religious concepts, I rather decline all and will. Now what I say in my blogs are coming from personal observations, experiences and from making up the bigger picture of the truth, maybe personal truth mostly about the wider reality and it’s mechanics.
So what I say here is that the most accurate thing here is that you were the one who planned your initial life here and started up. Now many people just can’t figure out why did they select a certain family or life circumstances, body type, etc. To learn and grow from them! Not the learning itself is the most required thing here, but that you are acting and experiencing here and making decisions from your heart.
You are forced to use your creative power and learning to create your reality on your own.

Right or wrong decisions

There is no right or wrong. We only learnt that in this duality world you need to make distinctions between those two, but really, it doesn’t matter. The main issue is that did you learn or gain something about a certain decision or life experience?
Did you make decision based on your fears or from your heart without fear?

Everybody have a certain compass against good and bad, we just developed our sense from birth. The other side is what your Inner non-physical self thinks is right or wrong, but that doesn’t matter. Your non-physical counterpart doesn’t judge or punish you ever, just helping you indirectly mostly – it depends on the individual and how ready to hear the helping “words”.
Your developing personality here and now, which you bring “back” to the NP is the one what counts and you are becoming it by choosing and making decisions.

Your choices are only like you are choosing another path and another one continously, as jumping to the next reality and the next, all the endless possible realities are there and you are just seemingly without any effect, going in and out of those. Now we can call it physical time, but time is really an illusion. It has a function: do you make the wrong decision over and over again for decades? You have plenty time to do it.
When you make a wrong decision, you may feel bad after that and facing it’s effects but, this reality is about one thing for sure: You are in a slowed down environment, concentrating your awareness to one certain life, to make choose and choose and choose until you learn really that you chose well finally. That’s all! Decide from your heart and on what feels good for YOU! Not anybody else!

This is Your life, and you are worthy to live it in full joy!

We can surely get life situations when people are just stepping in our personal area of life and decisions really, like our family or partners. Egoist people are everywhere, who just can’t make correct decisions and suffer from their weakness. They even start to blame you or just telling you how should you live your life. Even comes the next stage what is good or bad for you etc. Now… who the hack cares about what others are thinking about you? We do care but we should stop it.
And the sad thing, they have an effect on you, because you just subconsciously processing what they said and will have negative outcome many times. You can’t help it, you can’t help them! You need to leave them where they are and stop giving them energy. Most of the people are just stucked in a loop of endless suffering, blames and egoism with stupidism. Let them alone fast.
You can be kind to anybody and just do it, that’s ok but eventually you need to keep up a passive barrier to not get caught up on others. Just don’t let yourself influence, your life and choices are yours. You can’t live other’s lives.
You should develop a passive personality, who can maintain a balance in any part of your life, starting with your emotions.

Influence on people and Your life

Here is a personal story from me. I many times had struggle with people who just didn’t stay with their own thoughts and forcing their views and beliefs on me or on others. I guess I saw this from my birth and observed people’s behavour. Most of them are like that – they try to influence you and you can’t escape (and the worst, they don’t care). The other side is true, even in family or just with people in your life, you CAN give advices to people if they need help, need information, your knowledge, your heart BUT you can’t force them do what they should. You can’t ever live other’s life. I got many messages from the non-physical over some nights because I couldn’t understand why people just want to suffer or doesn’t want to be their own help. Like they wasting their life. And got the message that you can’t live other’s life and let them alone. I felt negativism in my feelings because I think mostly from my good heart and seeing people like that is sad. But I had self-judgement that if I don’t help, I will be somebody who is frozen against these people, because I’m good and have a certain configuration deep inside. But that is not the case. From the non-physical perspective, everybody is responsible only for their life. Another case is of course if you are with somebody or going alone is not a good thing. That is right, don’t think this over further.

No respect towards your decisions, your life and your personality?

Just don’t give a damn to those people who can accept who you are, trying to influence you, or laughing at you, not giving even a tiny respect which you deserve. Everybody encounters with these people but it is sometimes really hard to get lost from them. The worst is close relationships like mostly our family members. Your life worths more than idiot people’s influence – let them tell their opinion to themselves and let them alone.
Why should you let people blame you or let them humiliate and influence you? Your self-esteem will lower and you lose your creating power. Just stay yourself, stay strong and remember, what counts is only You, your life experiences, joy and memories, your interactions from your side towards people and nothing else. You may did your best and that’s all. This is what you are bringing further, what makes you, YOU. But eventually you are here and now a limited character so don’t make the false assumption that this is only just you. We are much more than this limited character, but our added experiences from here are what counts really. You are becoming and developing.
Once more, your character here, this body, personality is just a construct from the beginning for various purposes, and you “become” eventually.

The main thing here is that you should always make decisions on your own, even if you need secondary support from your family or friends about what decision could maybe bad, but base your thoughts on what feels good or right for you. The other side of the game’s coin here is that we live with consequences always. Starting with our thoughts which build up in our subconscious as a running program and makes effect in the physical life later. That is manifestation, a so misunderstood aspect of everybody these days. Many people are just in fear to make correct decisions, and they are just stuck. Like regular job work.

So, if you want to suffer, here you go, do it.
If you want to be happy, that’s cool, do it. That’s all, nothing complicated.
The only barrier is the one which you pull up against yourself. Your limits, mental blocks.
It is up to you to live a good life in what you feel yourself good and it is not recommended that you need to swim in money or suffer in mental pain : )