Why do people suffer? Why they just don’t stop?

Well we always see people doing horrible things to themselves or suffer. They may only suffer in their own misery, blaming themselves or others, being sick, mentally ill, physically ill and having various diseases. Why the hack are they doing this to themselves?

Suffering is coming from an inner mental problem

There are various types of problems and different steps which people can consciously or unconsciously cause problems to themselves in the long run, causing different illnesses and diseases. Cancer and other deadly stuffs are the last steps in this or rather the worst ones.

What mental manifestations are doing is blocking out the energy flow in the body, which mystics call chakras. Our body is supplied with a non-physical energy link unseen, which keeps our body alive. If there are energy blockages, it can cause trouble and degeneration in both the energy body and physical ones. Remember, it takes time, according to the deepness and strongness of thoughts and beliefs with added emotions.

What people do is they have a starting point of mental problem, coming from their own non-physical mind, which is them in a restricted perspective (meaning our human mind is restricted). Now what we are concentrating on or giving enough energy, will become our reality, but with time delay. In the non-physical if we would do this, it would be a serious problem but here in 3D physical world there is a “time” delay to see how our thoughts and beliefs are forming slowly our reality from deep inside, this way creating manifestations in body. It is widely proven, people are causing physical problems to themselves!

Blaming and not accepting any responsibility

What the vast majority does is they are lacking of deeper understanding in just ANYTHING! Yes, the most just don’t know anything at all, about how life works out on another level of multidimensional existence, we are still in the dark ages (and not because the Sun was not shining) and having what other’s were told to us from birth. People are not just having no idea that they are consciously destroying their body, but sucking out other close people’s life energy and life positiveness at the same time. If they are alone, they just never check their thoughts.
People are just not willing to accept what they think and check it, ever!

They are blaming certain safe foods (even sugar lol), people, forces, anything OUTSIDE them, instead of looking inside and see what their thoughts are doing externally.

We could ask, how is this that the most are just not being aware of what they are doing to themselves and their environment? Well it is interesting, we could say that people are not being conscious but the fact is that they are denying their own thoughts and blaming the outside forces . it is much much easier of balming anything outside us. People are relatively NOT accepting the CONSEQUENCES about their own thoughts and actions ever. This is horrible, isn’t it? I noticed this in my life always, looking at people, their behavour, their destroying attitude.

What about the vast majority in self-realization?

So the basic thing is this: we are constantly developing in many worlds simultaneously. Everybody has a much bigger version of self in the Wider Reality, who sends probes like You and Me as individuated characters, learn and grow in any worlds. There is no beginning and no end, only development, growing and being more compatible with love. The most are underdeveloped spirits and that is what I noticed and those who are constantly travelling to the non-physical with various mind-tools to have insights are also saw this fact.

One reason from the many, being here for the most is this: you are placed down in a slowed down environment with the illusion of “time” thing to see how your decisions and thoughts are wroking out. Some are having primary missions but in my opinion the most have to just learn and grow. Do you learn to control your thoughts and emotions, do you accept responsibility after what you are thinking and doing? While here we are in a big eternal “now”, the here and now, in the wider reality people with this destroying attitude could cause trouble instantly because thought equals instant action. All their fears and stray thoughts are becoming real in front of them.

Self-realization is not an issue for the most. We need to accept this, everybody is learning and developing in their own speed and this life is just one of the endless ones – we can’t label others in the end for what they are. Forget reincarnation, everybody has parallel versions of him/herself in other worlds simultaneously right now, so sequential time thinking is the worst thing to accept as there is no time and brainwashing is everywhere about this issue globally.

What misery does to yourself

If people don’t stop their own misery generally, it will maybe in weeks but maybe in decades, slowly destory your health – and maybe other’s – it will hurt your body and mind and will just break down around pension or earlier. You don’t need to feel yourself physically old because other’s are looking like that.

Many times we just can’t help it but it doesn’t say that we can’t change our thinking the opposite way and get out from the crap. It is not about forcing a positive vision, to live it up. No, it is about accepting our thoughts, monitoring them and changing them. But for first understanding WHY are we thinking what we are thinking? Or anybody around us.

Mental problems are causing every illnesses (everything comes from the NP to here in order, inside to outside) and the human physical body should never – in the right circumstances – would be in any diseases or illnesses. But people don’t care. We can’t just help anybody. We can only help ourselves. If we radiate out our true self, who is not thinking always from egoism and try to give helping hands, it’s the best but remember we CAN’T change people, They need to change. If they don’t want to, they won’t stop this after departuring back to the “Afterlife”. They will need “time” to adjust back and shake off beliefs and change the mindset.

I guess we all met people in our lives with this attitude. Some of them are accepting what they did and they continue to do the exact same thing further. I can only say, they deserve suffering, we can’t help them. But on the other hand it is all about life experiences here and everybody does his/her own job. That is why we can’t tell other’s how to live. They know it only (ok I admit, they don’t lol). If they don’t then it is up to each individual to live however they would like to and the Wider Reality won’t force you to stop, only if your attitude goes against what you planned to accomplish here and now and you are just wasting your own time.

Something I also noticed is that if people are continuing – after they asked ME to help! – their own misery, that is for a reason. Maybe that was what they wanted to experience. Look at those who are stucked in bad relationships, bad life circumstances. “Option A” – they chose it in a wider perspective, or “option B” – they are too weak to change, this way they will continue to hurt themselves until somebody helps.

So this is like watching Television, listening to brainwashing news where people are dieing in bad situations, suffering or just watching horror movies – people enjoy being in fear. That is ridiculous. Nobody decides to do it, only them. Did you ever wonder why fear industry so popular in any category, like XXX? There is a huge demand for it!

One big issue is still there. Self-awareness is pretty low in the most. My type clearly can monitor his thoughts, being aware many things at the same time, being analytical but I’m on a different level. Everybody is on his/her own. But low self-awareness is causing the most trouble. We can’t help it, it is developing over time and over lifetimes. An amoebae certainly won’t develop intelligence suddenly to build a spaceship, but evolving further like simple lifeforms into more complex ones – we are all doing it or were on the same level before already.

Eventually everybody moves on in their own speed and life is just a game, we tend to take it too seriously and many times it hurts but this is human experience in a consensus reality. Do your best to grow and enjoy yourself!

When Your parents think you have problems as a kid

In this society we are programmed to label everybody and everything according to the distorted system in which we live in from birth. Labeling people who are a little bit or way different from “normal” people is very common. Children are not so exluded from the subject. Why? Because we don’t understand them fully and this way the so called scientists and doctors are made up nice words to keep these people in a box minded category, keep them on medications and close them out in institutions where they will be much worse in mental conditions. We fear what we don’t understand and accept. Child problems may exist in people’s head only according to social expectations and norms.

The problem with labeling anybody

First of all people have no idea with what purpose a given person as a physical character came here in this age, to this planet, to this dimension to experience whatever he/she unconsciously would like to. We have no idea in reality who is our friend, family member etc in reality non-physically. We can guess after our many years of experience “knowing” this person, but eventually ONLY that person could know from inner knowledge, who is he/she in a wider sense. Labels are not also helping but rather destroying many person’s lives in the end if they just give in their final power and give up. The worst example is the family issue – as family members, people are so confident that a certain person whom they know from a very long time physically, know him/her, this way they attach labels and limit this person as they can. These people many times are trapped later in this artificially lmited thinking and accepting what their dumb parents are thinking about him/her. Family members are relatively destroying the given person’s further life many times, because of limited thinking and zero knowledge about other things than their limited human life.

We label just anything because our physical human world works like this: objectivity. We objectify anything and this way we can arrange our categories after we know what is what. It is a useful tool functioning in this world and society but it makes much more harm, than good for those who had no choice at the beginning to get break free.

For example we label a child – to just stay on the topic – with attention deficit disorder (WTF is that? Is this a problem to be bored, right?) or similars, meanwhile the given child is bored like hell because his/her surroundings and stimulation of senses are so much low that he/she is unhappy every time, or rather moving here and there. And what happens on the other side? Because parents, teachers and observing people are only seeing the opposite from their perspective (the surface), that child has no choices but to accept medications and control. This is our society, we label everybody without understanding the nature of these behavours and we have absolutely no knowledge of the Wider Reality and if we have, we deny it from fear. Such a shame. We forgot from where we came from – but the biggest problem is that the most don’t want to know it, they fear the truth.

Schizophrenic people are the same. I used to mention them, it is not an easy life for them because in my understanding from a somehow specific inner reason, they can’t control what reality frame are they observing or experiencing with their extrasensory tools, so they will get mad sooner or later in medical terms. Meanwhile one of my friends observed the fact – and I added my opinion after he told me the issue – that in these institutions where people are like them, shouting, behaving like insane is highly affected by those useless pills and drugs but on the other hand they are normal people, which is very funny partly. They know what they are doing partly and being aware but they can’t control what they are experiencing and they are mostly in their inner world, without any physical perspective balance to the projected world from our minds which is our physical surrounding. Their limits are mixed with the accepted ideas from our society and later they just can’t differentiate what is what.

Very same principle is valid for those who starts to be mentally ill, manifested in the physical brain (the mind is non-physical and have no constraints, nor we are existing in a body, we only perceiving the world like that, the brain is a translating mechanism only), so later these people who CAUSED themselves these mental illnesses are called Parkinson’s diseased, Alzheimer diseased, I guess there are many for later labels and they are all manifested in different parts of the body and/or brain according to their “functions”.

Diseases from the mind to the brain

We have so much unnecessary categories like above, much more and just a very few “new age” practicioners would like to treat the cause of them, the MIND! The mind is non-physical, non-local, timeless and we are IT! The mind is a label too, something other worldly in local terms, which science can’t measure, but we are our minds.

Every and each person decides that they would like to be mentally ill, it is up to the individual and their choices in life. But the problem here comes when somebody does that (almost EVERYBODY in this society) unsonsciously. Now how can somebody do this without realizing it?
The answer is, they are doing it without accepting responsible thinking and without knowing that every thought has consequences – slowly desroying themselves inside, and this behavour causes their body’s energy matrix to degrade over long timespans. What are medical people doing? They try to get your money, treating you with symptoms. That is not healing, that is dumbism.
What people are learning on collage years? They are learning what other people are teaching from the same misunderstanding viewpoint – crap goes one mouth to the other as knowledge. People are teaching others the same useless material which causing our society being in darkness and not moving on anywhere, it is all about the money and disinformation.
The sad thing that these people are not even realizing that they are not even doing any useful thing at all in the long run, meanwhile they are treating people successfully with “medicines” because people’s minds are accepting the fact that they can only heal with those craps. Interesting huh? If your mind believes that you can ONLY heal with those, you will. If you think you can heal naturally, you will. Those who learnt unnecessary/useless knowledge can many times heal others because they believe that those medications will work, because somebody teached them, this way how should they question that “knowledge”, right?

The mind is limitless and we are actually limiting ourselves. People can heal instantly with enough willpower, intent and beliefs, others also can heal themselves from anything. If somebody can’t do anything to get better, it is their unsonscious choice to exit this plane and continue elsewhere, we can’t force anybody to change their mind. We don’t even know their spirit plans. Many people are actually directly destroying their bodies with various tools and can’t stop it. It is up to them, mostly after rejected help. This physical life is mostly these people, giving them “time” to grow up.

Those who come with mental illnesses and body deffects

Well they have their experiences and lessons to learn here as everybody else but with a much higher difficulty. I was always interested in children of cancer (the “why”), starting from almost birth. Pretty interesting, isn’t it? How can a little child with a few age have already cancer?
Pretty simple from my viewpoint, they are speding some Earthly years, experiencing physical human objective life from this perspective and later if they passed sooner, this knowledge is added to their Soul Essence to see the experience from a bigger perspective. More limits, tougher time.
It is very similar in notion to those children in the non-physical BST territories where children from various disasters and crashes are playing and healing in playgrounds and kindergartens, which many projectors have seen already. They need to get over the tragedy and life goes on there too without physical limits.
Non-physical people will grab some after they managed to break through their personal energy barrier of illusion and misery and will carry them to their next journey.

What can a body deffected person learn or somebody with already having mental deffects? How to deal with it and being in balance, acceptance and some more. We only tend to think that it is a curse or anything bad if we only seeing that oh that person lives in wheelchair, who cursed him/her? They chose it. Forget these nonsense crap like God did that or Devil’s work or “past life”which are nonsense. We need inner understanding not religion’s dark age.

Remember, if we have higher or lower limits on us from birth, they are for a REASON. We need to find out what is the purpose of that and deal with them as best as we can. We don’t need to treat our children like they need “help” -in a sense they need better understanding. No, YOU need help as a parent if you think that somebody different is mentally problematic. Regular people should educate themselves in real knowledge, not that which is in us from childhood and keeps us in darkness. The real knowledge is deep inside, not in the distorted outer world which is about money, power, control and lies.

Real knowledge is experienced inside and this way in the Wider Reality, grow up and investigate. It is not outside somewhere, it is a subjective inner world partly.

What counts in your physical life?

Now there are many many theories and rulesets which people are made and thought out over the years mostly in spiritual forums and also we can hear this and that in personal life, chatting with people. Your life is only yours.

Your physical life is for a reason. You came here to this reality to play a game on your own. Now I know for many, it is not a good game and they suffer. But it is meant to be a good experience chain, well eventually we leave from here and coming back to the non-physical to do whatever we would like to. Don’t take the game too seriously.

I won’t share any mystical and religious concepts, I rather decline all and will. Now what I say in my blogs are coming from personal observations, experiences and from making up the bigger picture of the truth, maybe personal truth mostly about the wider reality and it’s mechanics.
So what I say here is that the most accurate thing here is that you were the one who planned your initial life here and started up. Now many people just can’t figure out why did they select a certain family or life circumstances, body type, etc. To learn and grow from them! Not the learning itself is the most required thing here, but that you are acting and experiencing here and making decisions from your heart.
You are forced to use your creative power and learning to create your reality on your own.

Right or wrong decisions

There is no right or wrong. We only learnt that in this duality world you need to make distinctions between those two, but really, it doesn’t matter. The main issue is that did you learn or gain something about a certain decision or life experience?
Did you make decision based on your fears or from your heart without fear?

Everybody have a certain compass against good and bad, we just developed our sense from birth. The other side is what your Inner non-physical self thinks is right or wrong, but that doesn’t matter. Your non-physical counterpart doesn’t judge or punish you ever, just helping you indirectly mostly – it depends on the individual and how ready to hear the helping “words”.
Your developing personality here and now, which you bring “back” to the NP is the one what counts and you are becoming it by choosing and making decisions.

Your choices are only like you are choosing another path and another one continously, as jumping to the next reality and the next, all the endless possible realities are there and you are just seemingly without any effect, going in and out of those. Now we can call it physical time, but time is really an illusion. It has a function: do you make the wrong decision over and over again for decades? You have plenty time to do it.
When you make a wrong decision, you may feel bad after that and facing it’s effects but, this reality is about one thing for sure: You are in a slowed down environment, concentrating your awareness to one certain life, to make choose and choose and choose until you learn really that you chose well finally. That’s all! Decide from your heart and on what feels good for YOU! Not anybody else!

This is Your life, and you are worthy to live it in full joy!

We can surely get life situations when people are just stepping in our personal area of life and decisions really, like our family or partners. Egoist people are everywhere, who just can’t make correct decisions and suffer from their weakness. They even start to blame you or just telling you how should you live your life. Even comes the next stage what is good or bad for you etc. Now… who the hack cares about what others are thinking about you? We do care but we should stop it.
And the sad thing, they have an effect on you, because you just subconsciously processing what they said and will have negative outcome many times. You can’t help it, you can’t help them! You need to leave them where they are and stop giving them energy. Most of the people are just stucked in a loop of endless suffering, blames and egoism with stupidism. Let them alone fast.
You can be kind to anybody and just do it, that’s ok but eventually you need to keep up a passive barrier to not get caught up on others. Just don’t let yourself influence, your life and choices are yours. You can’t live other’s lives.
You should develop a passive personality, who can maintain a balance in any part of your life, starting with your emotions.

Influence on people and Your life

Here is a personal story from me. I many times had struggle with people who just didn’t stay with their own thoughts and forcing their views and beliefs on me or on others. I guess I saw this from my birth and observed people’s behavour. Most of them are like that – they try to influence you and you can’t escape (and the worst, they don’t care). The other side is true, even in family or just with people in your life, you CAN give advices to people if they need help, need information, your knowledge, your heart BUT you can’t force them do what they should. You can’t ever live other’s life. I got many messages from the non-physical over some nights because I couldn’t understand why people just want to suffer or doesn’t want to be their own help. Like they wasting their life. And got the message that you can’t live other’s life and let them alone. I felt negativism in my feelings because I think mostly from my good heart and seeing people like that is sad. But I had self-judgement that if I don’t help, I will be somebody who is frozen against these people, because I’m good and have a certain configuration deep inside. But that is not the case. From the non-physical perspective, everybody is responsible only for their life. Another case is of course if you are with somebody or going alone is not a good thing. That is right, don’t think this over further.

No respect towards your decisions, your life and your personality?

Just don’t give a damn to those people who can accept who you are, trying to influence you, or laughing at you, not giving even a tiny respect which you deserve. Everybody encounters with these people but it is sometimes really hard to get lost from them. The worst is close relationships like mostly our family members. Your life worths more than idiot people’s influence – let them tell their opinion to themselves and let them alone.
Why should you let people blame you or let them humiliate and influence you? Your self-esteem will lower and you lose your creating power. Just stay yourself, stay strong and remember, what counts is only You, your life experiences, joy and memories, your interactions from your side towards people and nothing else. You may did your best and that’s all. This is what you are bringing further, what makes you, YOU. But eventually you are here and now a limited character so don’t make the false assumption that this is only just you. We are much more than this limited character, but our added experiences from here are what counts really. You are becoming and developing.
Once more, your character here, this body, personality is just a construct from the beginning for various purposes, and you “become” eventually.

The main thing here is that you should always make decisions on your own, even if you need secondary support from your family or friends about what decision could maybe bad, but base your thoughts on what feels good or right for you. The other side of the game’s coin here is that we live with consequences always. Starting with our thoughts which build up in our subconscious as a running program and makes effect in the physical life later. That is manifestation, a so misunderstood aspect of everybody these days. Many people are just in fear to make correct decisions, and they are just stuck. Like regular job work.

So, if you want to suffer, here you go, do it.
If you want to be happy, that’s cool, do it. That’s all, nothing complicated.
The only barrier is the one which you pull up against yourself. Your limits, mental blocks.
It is up to you to live a good life in what you feel yourself good and it is not recommended that you need to swim in money or suffer in mental pain : )