Why do people suffer? Why they just don’t stop?

Well we always see people doing horrible things to themselves or suffer. They may only suffer in their own misery, blaming themselves or others, being sick, mentally ill, physically ill and having various diseases. Why the hack are they doing this to themselves?

Suffering is coming from an inner mental problem

There are various types of problems and different steps which people can consciously or unconsciously cause problems to themselves in the long run, causing different illnesses and diseases. Cancer and other deadly stuffs are the last steps in this or rather the worst ones.

What mental manifestations are doing is blocking out the energy flow in the body, which mystics call chakras. Our body is supplied with a non-physical energy link unseen, which keeps our body alive. If there are energy blockages, it can cause trouble and degeneration in both the energy body and physical ones. Remember, it takes time, according to the deepness and strongness of thoughts and beliefs with added emotions.

What people do is they have a starting point of mental problem, coming from their own non-physical mind, which is them in a restricted perspective (meaning our human mind is restricted). Now what we are concentrating on or giving enough energy, will become our reality, but with time delay. In the non-physical if we would do this, it would be a serious problem but here in 3D physical world there is a “time” delay to see how our thoughts and beliefs are forming slowly our reality from deep inside, this way creating manifestations in body. It is widely proven, people are causing physical problems to themselves!

Blaming and not accepting any responsibility

What the vast majority does is they are lacking of deeper understanding in just ANYTHING! Yes, the most just don’t know anything at all, about how life works out on another level of multidimensional existence, we are still in the dark ages (and not because the Sun was not shining) and having what other’s were told to us from birth. People are not just having no idea that they are consciously destroying their body, but sucking out other close people’s life energy and life positiveness at the same time. If they are alone, they just never check their thoughts.
People are just not willing to accept what they think and check it, ever!

They are blaming certain safe foods (even sugar lol), people, forces, anything OUTSIDE them, instead of looking inside and see what their thoughts are doing externally.

We could ask, how is this that the most are just not being aware of what they are doing to themselves and their environment? Well it is interesting, we could say that people are not being conscious but the fact is that they are denying their own thoughts and blaming the outside forces . it is much much easier of balming anything outside us. People are relatively NOT accepting the CONSEQUENCES about their own thoughts and actions ever. This is horrible, isn’t it? I noticed this in my life always, looking at people, their behavour, their destroying attitude.

What about the vast majority in self-realization?

So the basic thing is this: we are constantly developing in many worlds simultaneously. Everybody has a much bigger version of self in the Wider Reality, who sends probes like You and Me as individuated characters, learn and grow in any worlds. There is no beginning and no end, only development, growing and being more compatible with love. The most are underdeveloped spirits and that is what I noticed and those who are constantly travelling to the non-physical with various mind-tools to have insights are also saw this fact.

One reason from the many, being here for the most is this: you are placed down in a slowed down environment with the illusion of “time” thing to see how your decisions and thoughts are wroking out. Some are having primary missions but in my opinion the most have to just learn and grow. Do you learn to control your thoughts and emotions, do you accept responsibility after what you are thinking and doing? While here we are in a big eternal “now”, the here and now, in the wider reality people with this destroying attitude could cause trouble instantly because thought equals instant action. All their fears and stray thoughts are becoming real in front of them.

Self-realization is not an issue for the most. We need to accept this, everybody is learning and developing in their own speed and this life is just one of the endless ones – we can’t label others in the end for what they are. Forget reincarnation, everybody has parallel versions of him/herself in other worlds simultaneously right now, so sequential time thinking is the worst thing to accept as there is no time and brainwashing is everywhere about this issue globally.

What misery does to yourself

If people don’t stop their own misery generally, it will maybe in weeks but maybe in decades, slowly destory your health – and maybe other’s – it will hurt your body and mind and will just break down around pension or earlier. You don’t need to feel yourself physically old because other’s are looking like that.

Many times we just can’t help it but it doesn’t say that we can’t change our thinking the opposite way and get out from the crap. It is not about forcing a positive vision, to live it up. No, it is about accepting our thoughts, monitoring them and changing them. But for first understanding WHY are we thinking what we are thinking? Or anybody around us.

Mental problems are causing every illnesses (everything comes from the NP to here in order, inside to outside) and the human physical body should never – in the right circumstances – would be in any diseases or illnesses. But people don’t care. We can’t just help anybody. We can only help ourselves. If we radiate out our true self, who is not thinking always from egoism and try to give helping hands, it’s the best but remember we CAN’T change people, They need to change. If they don’t want to, they won’t stop this after departuring back to the “Afterlife”. They will need “time” to adjust back and shake off beliefs and change the mindset.

I guess we all met people in our lives with this attitude. Some of them are accepting what they did and they continue to do the exact same thing further. I can only say, they deserve suffering, we can’t help them. But on the other hand it is all about life experiences here and everybody does his/her own job. That is why we can’t tell other’s how to live. They know it only (ok I admit, they don’t lol). If they don’t then it is up to each individual to live however they would like to and the Wider Reality won’t force you to stop, only if your attitude goes against what you planned to accomplish here and now and you are just wasting your own time.

Something I also noticed is that if people are continuing – after they asked ME to help! – their own misery, that is for a reason. Maybe that was what they wanted to experience. Look at those who are stucked in bad relationships, bad life circumstances. “Option A” – they chose it in a wider perspective, or “option B” – they are too weak to change, this way they will continue to hurt themselves until somebody helps.

So this is like watching Television, listening to brainwashing news where people are dieing in bad situations, suffering or just watching horror movies – people enjoy being in fear. That is ridiculous. Nobody decides to do it, only them. Did you ever wonder why fear industry so popular in any category, like XXX? There is a huge demand for it!

One big issue is still there. Self-awareness is pretty low in the most. My type clearly can monitor his thoughts, being aware many things at the same time, being analytical but I’m on a different level. Everybody is on his/her own. But low self-awareness is causing the most trouble. We can’t help it, it is developing over time and over lifetimes. An amoebae certainly won’t develop intelligence suddenly to build a spaceship, but evolving further like simple lifeforms into more complex ones – we are all doing it or were on the same level before already.

Eventually everybody moves on in their own speed and life is just a game, we tend to take it too seriously and many times it hurts but this is human experience in a consensus reality. Do your best to grow and enjoy yourself!

Backdrop, backfill people – what’s wrong with humans on this planet?

This topic is really mind blowing indeed and as many, I encountered with this issue in Dolores Cannon‘s work, in her videos through the web about a year ago. I found it fascinating when she and G.S.N. told people. I guess I needed to dig in deeper recently because this issue is I feel strongly connected to what the vast majority globally are doing and how they are behaving. Mainly this is just one element to better understand the masses. Backdrop people and backfill people MAY be real.

First of all, I need to discuss some aspects of this issue, which leads people to false assumptions. Just make to it clear. That is not “thinking” when we just accept an idea and use it on everything which fits in and do it like a parrot.

Channeling as the source is not coming mostly from real entities!

I researched this phenomena and just all the times it turned out – and some well experienced NP explorers found out too on their own, that how the so called “subconscious” works – just ALL people, who are channeling “somebody” is channeling his/her own mind (mostly)! They are channeling belief constructs and constructs from their own “inner” mind (SC), where actual concepts and beliefs are well implemented throught this human life, whatever you learnt. Some people are capable of doing it, because they are strong believers, also too naive and that is almost always dangerous. So mostly, it turned out that people are talking with their non-physical parts and these materials are always sounding very faithful, nice or maybe rude and arrogant. Maybe you hear truths from channeled materials which are pretty new or maybe (I mean pretty sure from my findings) 4 out of 5 sources will be very similar and 1 will say you an opposite statement from a given subject like 4 times Atlantis WAS there… and the 5th one says it is a human utopistic idea and WILL BE! Partly these people are sceptical too, but they just don’t know from where these infos came from truely.

I would say maybe, just maybe you may speak telepathically to real entities, who may be a complete stranger, maybe a part of your complete self, who knows. You will be never sure until you “died” or you managed to travel to Focus 3 region (see Focus model) and actually make contact with one of them. Only then you can be sure, the source is real and reliable. Don’t ever trust just anybody in both worlds because you are not even an intelligent somebody this way and nothing more than a naive religious believer which won’t bring you anywhere ever. Exploring in the NP is required intelligence and passive observation. And to tell the truth most humans are just incapable of this task. If somebody is capable of receive channeled material, their ego may distort the whole stuff because in the NP, entities are communicating with telepathy, it transfers big data packages mind to mind. Our world, language and concepts are really limited.

What Cannon did is this. She spoke with the given subject’s constructs and beliefs, OR she spoke with her own NP self through her clients and she just didn’t realise it. That is why it is dangerous to teach about what she listened back from her tapes and write books, but just everybody does this, that is a new fashion. She was intelligent but had no idea how undreal is what those entities or subconscious sources told her, these theories are many times against the real non-physical laws. She is passed since a while and even if she didn’t know what she said again and again until nose bleed, she had a good intention which I admire. Even if the most could be a made up theory, told as a fact, she gave many many people hope and good feelings, so her intention was very great.

Channeled materials are always too religious, too good to be true and contain too much of the given person’s religion or beliefs – if not, then the actual entity group’s beliefs!

This is a fact. The material is almost always dependent on the actual person’s belief distortions and actual willingness to be open and not twist the whole telepathic package. If he/she spoke to a real entity or group (I won’t call it human because WE ARE NOT HUMAN NEITHER), maybe this side may be too condensed into a nutshell which is also not the same as what is spoken. People try to understand a vastly subjective viewpoint with objectivity.
Channeled materials are never make sense in the long run and even if two given materials are coming from two different persons, they always sound the same way. Also there are various entity groups on the other side with own agendas and understandings about what is happening on the planet and there are as many theories about ET’s, Earth shifts etc. as many groups.

The most amazing thing is people are writing endless books, ebooks about many topics after these, even the greatest ones, who still have reliable words and highly intelligent people like F.DM. But when you read those materials or pay attention of what these people say, finally always get the idea (ok I am, but who knows how long people can believe in a false belief) that many many aspects of what the channeler said is clearly wrong according to my knowledge about the non-physical or according to what the biggest NP explorers could find out over decades. For example, if you see reincarnation or past life, just leave it alone immadiatelly, only our local timeframe is linear!

I don’t say, these people are lieing! No, I say, their information about anything could be wrong or distorted and goes against basic principles of the endless NP world. I need to add up that maybe NP entities are barely have no idea what are they talking about many times, that is why it is too strange that people are actually channeling their own aspects from the “other side” which is here plus a thought. Ok back to the subject, I needed to make this clear.

I need to add an straight thought to this. Channeling is always distorted because human mind is distorting the end result. The source of information may be true but beings who try to give us accurate informations can only rely on the concepts and communication channels which is available in the actual person’s mind.

Backdrop, backfill people – who are they?

Basically, they are those who are just too empty humans. I won’t say the same as people are discussing in big forums and making asusmptions about the worst things like they don’t have soul etc. I will make it clear and try to fit the idea to the wider reality and it’s mechanics.

They ARE here, but as I always felt about humans, something is never right. Like when you feel that you are somehow different than just most of the people who you met over decades in your physical life. Something is always wrong. The most are fooling themselves, being religious, no brains, arguing about politics and fueling them, being slaves on a vast scale globally in jobs instead of being free, copying others, if they have intelligence they always use it the worst way on non-sense stuffs, materialistic, suffering without doing something about it etc… I could make it further. If I try to measure the unmeasurable, maybe 1 out of 10000 or 100000 humans are actually somehow advanced in many aspects to see the difference.

The topic and idea in itself is – in my opinion as a highly intelligent man – seems true but partly. Look at this way: I was many times in the non-physical, talking to people, teaching them (both worlds), just having fun, walking with them in many many different parallel lives (NO PAST life, that is an idiot concept in parallel time frame), or just other human dimensions. While I’m there, it could be minutes, hours, days, even maybe more for actual BD people to exist, but when I phase out to another place or to my actual primary focus world here, now here I am “real” in backdrop terms and where I was there I will be the backdrop, like I left another focus, maybe underdeveloped one there. In my opinion of we see this situation as here on this planet maybe most of the people are NPC’s (non-player characters in MMORPG terms), than they have a primary task, to keep us, well advanced entities learn and grow. But I admit that relatively young souls may look like them. Number doesn’t matter, spirits are just endless in numbers in the NP.

They are not soulless or empty, I guess who says this tries to make big boundaries between them and his/her huge ego. They are just for a short time are here for our movie, because this whole world is an illusion, others are calling it hologram. We can call it whatever but the fact is, who is the one who EVER met all the 7,5+ billions of people on Earth? Nobody! You may encounter a very few. This in itself makes a solid foundation on this. You just can’t even imagine where the hack those billions are. Maybe if you go to Asia, you may meet much more people, but the whole game is founded on the fact that if you are willing to meet more people, they will be generated for you with real rules, behavours, life situations and seemingly real personalities.

To get back meeting with “NP” people, you can just any time, any night meet seemingly backdrop people in your own mind in Focus 2 or for real in Focus 3. You talk to them, interact with them but you soon realise that they are somehow empty or they just don’t get the idea. Not the emptiness in itself, but that they look dumb. those are aspects of you and now mostly. Aspects are meaning you are always changing it: argue, love, sad, playfulness, researcher etc. Aspects from your whole personality.

So what is the importance of this concept?

Well this alone tells us that this whole Earth life is more or less a big game, a big movie which needs that famous director as You, and as you go along you meet friends, people – eventually they are disappearing really. Everybody in our life can serve a purpose for us. But this alone doesn’t mean that religious crap that you have karma and contracts with others, that is BS.

Take it from the Focus 3 perspective. You plan a life carefully, make a character (this “you”), wait for an accurate timeline on a given alternative planet and jump in with given starting circumstances. Now you would like to be sure that your task is fulfilled in the end, meanwhile you have no idea about who you are. If you fight with yourself and force everything, you will be sure that you should let your inner NP self do the job. That is what spiritual and manifestation teachings are about mostly. You should enjoy life and don’t give a damn those masses who are seemingly falling into the same traps over and over again. Let them alone, you are not those dumb people who are dragging you down.

In my opinion this concept partly shows the big issue too what is going on on this planet. The planet is fine, humans are underdeveloped to understand basic things about the wider reality, and understand that following somebody or a concept (religion) won’t take you closer to anything. It causes troubles, wars, people starts to argue and defend their ideas which is only a sheep concept. Eventually people stay stupid as a kid. The vast majority falls into the same trap always until they have enough.

Can you tell who are those NPC’s?

I guess we won’t be so sure really, it is just a feeling, an experience when you talk to regular people and after maybe even some months or years you are still not sure about how real that person is – I’ve met just too many of them. I guess this whole game is designed by this way to not cheat and demolishing the whole consensus reality of illusion. I had many friends and pals, people in my life and almost just with everybody I felt they are somehow hollow or not “ready” for anything. As I constantly grew in understanding and gaining back my full inner self, they just got lost from my life and that’s all. In my previous post about friends and losing them, it seems very true that they served a purpose.

I find a little bit funny that humanity makes PC and console games all the time since a while as virtual entertainment and it seems like we are unconsciously copying our true nature through various designs. We are doing also the same with movies in where actors/actresses are taking roles and doing their part to make stories, fake romances and dramas with action. And everybody is attracted to them because I feel mainly that it is our NP nature, to play and understand ourselves from a limited perspective.

Multidimensionally we are doing the same to each other as the human race acts, maybe you realise over your sleep cycles or not. Here maybe you are stopping on a street to check your car and suddenly somebody appears to help you and as soon as you both done, he/she just disappears to nowhere – that is what I’m saying. But I guess this phenomena goes into much more details like various NPC types. Maybe some are existing here for some minutes, maybe some or for decades for various reasons. They are indeed real but as long as we are existing as humans right now, we are all a limited character and this way the backdrop people are also real, but for limited tasks and purposes. From their perspective, we are teaching them maybe.

If you go to vastly populated countries, you may spot out the advanced souls, but the game is maybe more real there because the same kinds are pulling in each other and we know how people are dragging in themselves from vast indoctrinations from birth and national standards. Maybe this theory finally solves the question that what is wrong with people? And because this world seems so real, we can’t be sure for 100% who is like you or me. If we were in the non-physical, we can spot out anybody instantly from telepathy and energies, but here it is covered with illusion.

One thing is sure here also. People in less evolved countries and where there are too much people like on the far east in Asia (for example) are there for a reason. Everybody is at a certain place for a reason. Limited tasks and much less complicated tasks. The human life is not designed to be like a set-in-stone thing because the future in linear timeline is probable always. The issue here is that there is a given bunch of characters and let’s see how they play out their role or tasks. Who plays? Your bigger non-physical self – you are a portion of that. And because every individuals are what they are inside, this place is what it is, because people are acting from free will mostly (I’m not sure on the vast majority about that) and the most are just didn’t wake up to see that what is wrong with this world. The actual worldwide situation is happening because people are underdeveloped to realise what is going on and/or they are part of a bigger game, which seems cruel and bad.

Finally on the other hand there is nothing wrong with this world! I mean really. This is a dualistic Universe and without bad, you can’t see the good. Without masses of suffer you can’t appreciate well being and deep inner connection. Without seeing that billions are working like a slave since a long while (seemingly, who knows how real they are), you can’t appreciate being self-reliable in anything. If we won’t overcomplicate this issue, it turns out that this is a big game and according to our inner compass and values, we can find our way to get back to our real ourselves. Materialistic things, beliefs/religion and anything earthly is not important. The only importance is what you became here and how you chose, because that is what you bring back to the non-physical. Earth is a school out of many.

One thing is sure again about life. I learnt it already and got the ability to “be” it from childhood: you NEED to learn to be on your own. Every connections, family, friends, even love connections are for the same, to help each of us grow up. And because we are in an illusional separation as individual units here, we are all connected to a degree. BUT! The idea of learning to be alone is to LOVE yourself, to accept your inner self. This way if you are radiating out your kindness and help others from no reason, you can affect people and may help them grow too. This is not egoism or antisocial label BS. This is what you are and TREATING others as you would like to receive kindness and help, a mirror. But it needs some boundaries. Not every people can tolerate kindness and love. Most of humans are uncapable (backdrop?) of doing this and receiving it. You need to leave them alone, they are toxic maybe. If you see resistance in people, leave them alone or you will got burnt.

Life is about balance, treat this as it is also. Be kind, but don’t be stupid. I’m saying these thoughts to not let people jump into some conclusions that I try to say that you should be jealous and closed. Btw I didn’t even say a word about this. Behave with people as how you would like to receive the same the same kindness from others. According to our behavour people may be mirrors of our thoughts because of the nature of our reality. If you fool somebody it is like you fooled yourself, like lies. The most just never learn or are in the beginning of becoming better.
The game always needs people for certain roles. If some pass away or change, others will do the same.

Bonus

Btw I wonder how stupid people are when they everywhere stands up for hypothesises like densities and vibrations if the Multiverse is endless non-physically. I wonder who the hack started this BS load when densities and 3D, 4D, 5D came into “existence” and people are also saying the same as their own beliefs, they just believe in them, those are so true, right??? No wonder how many religions came into place – if it fits into your thinking, you follow it and still think you are intelligent. The next idiotism was the Mandela Effect at this topic, but people are just imagining too much non-sense things, escaping their primary reality. If you can’t explain something you start to form a theory or follow one. Multidimensional existence is not like you are suddenly have modified memories about certain things, you just forgot something or people are lieing – well they are. I saw issues about this one too and was just amazed how people are actually believing what they are saying, how certain issues over the last decades are changed. Comeon this is the human mind, you start to think that something is “there”, but really not.

The worst is this. People think like a real physical being which is a facade. EVERYBODY comes from the non-physical and uses a primary focus as a physical body and life. Why is this so complicated to understand? The Sims simulation game is very real. Actually, bodies are not just going to come to exist, it is well orchestrated mechanism and needs an actual entity to inhabit it. It’s energy source is well beyond Focus 3 and while the energy connection is there, after death everybody just switch their main focus back to where we came from to play here and there.

But people are addicted of human life, they keep jumping in to experience because they still didn’t see or experience certain things. We see it daily what effects those are causing worldwide who are addicted from human life OR they just barely learn a thing over even a dozens of lives. They are vastly concentrating on materialistic nature and can’t be helped. Backdrop people and backfill people concept may show the significance of the game of life, even if those entities are as real as You.

Why we lose our friends over time?

Friends are very useful on both sides of a friendship and we are pleased to meet nice people over our decades here on Earth. Some people have best friends or many many pals, but friends are only guides as those non-physical ones are in the NP.

Why you have so much pals?

The answer will be a little bit harsh but because you can’t enjoy yourself alone and don’t want to maybe. You didn’t accept yourself fully ever and can’t give so much love towards others AFTER yourself. People like to defend themselves that they just enjoy being with friends but they are really just pals, maybe you can count on them, but not on their help mostly. And being antisocial is not this one, only a label. Antisocial means, he/she can’t fit in the actual society.

Friends and pals are two categories. We have maybe a few true friends in life, but we could have dozens of pals, who are only for playing with something, going to chat sometimes, do things in crowds, places etc. Pals are like you just can’t stay alone on your butt, like people are running away from themselves. I knew just many many people in my life and never understood this attitude until I realised what this is all about non-physically. You meet people, it is unavoidable here on this planet normally. You make pals and friendships but they are rarely for a lifetime and if it is, it serves a purpose to both parties. Pals are only for having some people in your bubble to feel yourself comfortable. Some people are just highly egoistic and they are shining their egos with the dozens of different pals, so called “friends” and can’t really realise that they are doing this because they just have a huge ego and trying to prove that they are right in just everything – even if they are not. These people are just shaking hands and saying hello to just everybody, which is sucks if you see this first hand. I know and knew many of these too, it was interesting to notice these behavours.

Why you have friends?

Friends are the best connections in life besides of relationships with love. We certainly need them at some point or forever. We need help sometimes, we need to have some fun with somebody, we just need to talk to somebody who will hear our words and may help. Well my friendship were only right on my side after the initial years in many cases, I never understood it in the recent years. Some of them were lasting for 10-15 years, it was good and suddenly they just disappeared, huge blocks came out of nowhere and I just didn’t have any idea what happened to those people that they are acting differently.
So friends are absolutely good, we are guiding each other through life until the connection doesn’t serve the original purpose anymore. That hurts surely but we should leave them alone and vica versa. Don’t forget, we are experiencing here, this is just a seeminly real game.

What causes to lose strong connections?

Well before I started to learn about self-development (before that I did it from birth) in the non-physical and between the two worlds, I had no idea why it is necessary to lose good friends. I mean really really good ones. Some of them are lasted for some weeks for me, but everybody experiences this phenomena. Until later I learnt that friends are only for a certain purpose. If you deeply don’t need them, chances are, you will be very much ok on your own like me. I guess that is a deep spiritual achievement to reach. I was partly always this type and I like it.

So friends and pals are acting here like non-physical guides in the NP. They serve a purpose: learn and grow, plus support. This is given to both sides of course. When you experience an almost sudden block in your relationships, two choices are given. You try to talk that out, or just leave that one alone. No other ways. Don’t try to even force your relationship to heal itself by arguing, you will suffer.
What happened is, you just outgrow that relationship and you are away ahead spiritually/non-physically on your own way. That’s all. You are on another track. The vast majority is just stagnating or slowly moving upwards on their own ladder.

By the way I noticed that the most just can’t really appreciate a friendship. Like no emotions or anything. They don’t even know what it means the verb “friend” means. Very strange, but that is true. People are just deeply in their butt in physical life, trying to work for nothing and chasing materialism.

Love relationships

That is almost the same, but with another strong aspect, love and relying on each other, making compromises/consensus between each other, experiencing the deepest non-physical forces, maybe having kids. We should admit, not every love relationships are lasting until elderly age, just a very very few. True love is not experienced in the vast majority, it is just a fashion to many. But if ture love and your perfect partner is given, you may experience it for only a few years. It was meant only to experience it, enjoy it and don’t try to understand a deeper meaning! One of the best things in life in my opinion to find somebody with whom you will be in the clouds seemingly forever. If it lasts for decades or until death, it’s better for some, but don’t ever try to follow her/him and suffer because the connection is seemingly gone – it is on another level.

Friends like non-physical guides

Some are there for your help, some are there for giving you protection in heavy moments in life indirectly, but they are there for a purpose and moving away on their tasks and interests further when they finished. We are doing the same. In a nutshell. Very similar to physical life friendships.

But keep it in mind, we came alone here to this life simulation, we are going back to the non-physical with a pack of tricks (R.M.) and we need to let other’s go on their own way of course. It was fun and good when those lasted of course, we guard those pretty memories forever and added to our experiences and inner being. Enjoy these connections until they are gone.