A better understanding of the brain and mind differences

I think some Readers may have difficulties thinking like those who are proficient to a certain degrees of already understanding how Consciousness works, so I thought it would be better to talk this issue out a little bit more clearly to show some people a better view, how it works. The brain and mind topic is a very misunderstood one widely in our society.

It is not complicated at all of understanding how our mind’s focus works and how the mind and the physical brain is two way different things.

It may help to check out Robert Monroe’s Focus state table through the web for understanding the Focus states.

Focus States = Levels of Attention (well the level is too mundane but here you go). It represents that Consciousness has a continuum on an endless channel scale!

What is the Mind?

A vastly mislabeled thing in this world and society which people still think from limited beliefs, that the physical brain equals the mind. Those are two different things and consciousness has nothing to do with the brain after it only uses to operate the primary focus here and now. Those who are understanding how consciousness and our viewpoint works, know already which science is blindly believing that consciousness is somehow in the brain on various parts, firing up all together when something is happening with that person. Nothing could be further from the truth than this issue. But what those MRI and other researches are showing is that when a certain brain part is active, it is in an unseen way transmitting feelings, thoughts and many more to a multidimensional layer where we are communicating with the non-physical and observing everything else without realizing it.

The physical brain is nothing more than a necessary translating and interpreting device, which is only operating in the physical world, translating constantly those electric signals which are around us. Without brain and body, we can’t exist here as a singular personal construct, experiencing loneliness.

The Mind IS the observer, it IS YOU! Not the brain. It feels so real, and meanwhile if you achieve maximum awareness through non-physical development (if you managed to and want to), it will be obvious soon that this physical world is not just an illusion (a persistent one – Einstein) but the non-physical is much more “real” like the physical on magic. You are attached for a certain amounts of hours to this physical vehicle – called physical body – and after you fell asleep or projecting (on other words without blackout), you are changing CHANNEL or viewpoint to a different focus state. It is like changing channels on the Multiversal scale TV. That is all you need to know. The mind is only a limited physical label, describing what you are in basic nature.
Did you ever notice, that your mind can’t be tired ever, only your physical vehicle? You are using 5 physical senses primarily and there is much more than this. The most are just sleepwalking.

The role of the physical brain

So back to the body. The brain is – from birth – developing in humans and growing but not because you are gaining intelligence and somehow it is growing from it and stores information. It is not storing any memories, only maintaining the transfer capacity so to speak and supplying you with what is basically needed – the energy connection is way beyond the physical world.
I remember when I was deeply in scientific researches and learnt that somehow the memories are stored in those nerve cells – represented visually in an animation – which are there, interconnected and floating. Oh gush now this is just ridiculous. Science is blind as any religions (noticed, how I repeatedly use this world?). It is like quantum physics – they realized how reality works out as the observer notices the changes in patterns of double split experiment but don’t want to realize that because the consciousness itself causing the anomalies. They do of course but they are always going further in the wrong direction, seaching for particles to answer how our Universe works in a smaller scale. Science is slowly changing perspectives to the right direction, if they ever do. They INVENT particles with their consciousness and instruments to see more deeply until they won’t find anything which can be objectively measured like those little strings. But surprise, there are always more and much smaller particles. After some magnifying, the reality of objective observing just disappears.

So the brain in itself is doing some things, right?
So it is responsible for our bodies functions, can have traumas and rewiring, it can do just anything and enough adaptable to rewire again and again to function properly. If a big accident occurs or you lack of half of your brain somehow, it can still function but the parts which are responsible to maintain functions between the two worlds are missing and you can’t function so well. When non-physical travelers and sleepers are “out” by night or whenever, they observe their own experiences by the filter of the physical brain. The physical body is on autopilot and a minimum of your consciousness’s scale is keeping it alive safely but the direction from where we translate information to physical worldy means are coming FROM the NP to the physical and understood through a distorted translator device. The physical brain. When we die and return to the NP as our “home”, it is over, no filter – but your misconceptions about your experienced and observed reality is unchanged until you release those beliefs. Nobody will force you to stop believing what you think who you are and what happened with you, where you are – it is part of the development, self-realization.

So the connection between the two?

All right, so everything comes from the non-physical and we can imagine the physical layer – as our world – like an end result layer. Energy, and this way structures, concepts, objects, any end results, even the human body is coming from the non-physical with various energy transformations. Too sad that people are so uneducated in this and brainwashed, made to believe that there is nothing other than this ego-centric world, that the vast majority thinks the opposite way and denies anything other than this little world. There is much much more, relatively endlessly.

The mind is You. It is a label. There is an eternal being in the non-physical who makes probes or characters, who are entering into different worlds, timelines (as a construct of illusion) and does it’s job. This being is much more complex and thinks subjectively (mislabeled higher self after religious concepts). It splits into smaller versions with limited personality. You didn’t cease to exist on higher level, only there is a mental barrier or rather a distorted self image, to not mess up your experience here and now and have no memories. It would be a huge trouble if you would know your parallel selves, running with your life in parallel mode right now, you couldn’t even  function.

The mind operates WITH the physical vehicle and the brain is only supplying the physical body with it’s full scale of functions. As long as there is the energy connection to the primary  focus as the physical vehicle, the body will function and be alive, until the death illusion, when the energy connection is terminated because this body is no longer needed.
It is like you are pushing your face into a dimensional portal and you are half a way in a different world, seeing different things. It happens when you are in altered states like projecting or sleeping. You automatically or with will, change channels or focuses to a different reality.
We are from our full NP Essence are existing in endless scale of parallel selves.
We can meet them but we are not them according this You here and now. Forget the huge misconception of past lives… what “past” in a timeless Multiverse?

What stays with you after this life is your mind, beliefs, emotions and thoughts – which you became in this world. The mind is immortal and constantly searches for potential ways to experience, develop, enjoy the game.

Tragedies and problems – dealing and benefiting from them

Tragedies and problems are finding us time to time and people basically have no idea what can somebody benefit from them? Regular people only seeing the personal loss or anything which is casued by some kind of bad event or maybe a car accident, a death of a loved one, or just a really bad grade in school etc. But smaller tragedies can happen too.

Over my researches I found an interesting viewpoint about how to deal with personal tragedies and how can we benefit from those experiences. It seems very very simple from the subjective non-physical side, which includes a basic thing – our personal spiritual development in this aspect. Of course it is harder than said but it worths the try. Keep balance always in your decisions. And remember, our life is only a facade of a bigger play theme – each individual is stepping in their own path with their choices.

Ok, here you go: the only solution is -how you are dealing with tragedies, problems and many negative life experiences. How you deal with it, that’s all, how you make a solution, how you benefit from it, even if it is a huge tragedy, how you make a smart reaction which will benefit your inner growth in a positive way.
Why? Well we are on a training gound where we are learning constantly and developing – I admit it seem like the most are not even developing anywhere as billions are sleepwalking and indoctrinated but everybody does their job in physical life to slowly or faster but gain knowledge and have life experiences.

To get it short, dealing is one thing but dealing on a way that you are crashing yourself down in a personal loop of negativism and tragedy is not a good idea. The problem solving here means that you let go of bad things in your life, let go the negativity, bad people and bad relationships. Let go and close down those episodes in your life. This way you will only live in the famous present moment and don’t give away any energy towards a past which you can’t change (only your thinking) and also stop worrying on the future which is probable and you will only cause trouble of your thinking. Worry doesn’t solve anything, right?

Even if a relative died or somebody had broken up a connection with us, maybe our car crashed, it is sad and could make people broken in spirit. Don’t let it smash you down. Life is going forward even if people tend to cling on a moment which causing them degrade over years and decades for no reason. We need to let go those bad events in our life, acknowledge them as they happened, we can’t change them, look into the present moment and try to be yourself. You are unique and this way nobody can of course tell you how to live and what to like/dislike, which this society also forgot.

Benefiting: we can gain knowledge from anything, it is only a matter of perception on every sides. You may ask, ok how a handicapped somebody could deal with or benefit from his/her position in a wheelchair for example. How can his/her mother/father/any relative who takes care of him/her benefit and grow from this situation. The only thing here is the viewpoint, how we deal with it, how we accept the situation and do our best. The handicapped person is in his/her little Universe and dealing with his/her bad situation as best as he/she can and when his/her life is finished for this physical life time, this knowledge will be added to the non-physical, to share this circumstance with others. Those who were dealing with him/her, they will also grow from their perspective and learn some understanding of these situations which they – in normal life where people have perfect health condition – may not encounter with such a “trap” for their loved ones. It may be for a reason. Look at the non-physical side: entities (ok we can call them “people”) are constantly gaining knowledge from those who were brave enough to jump in a physical life and deal with the consequences of their choices. Most people won’t ever accept the consequences of their stupid behavour and we all know such people.

Tragedy is only existing in a dualistic world like our physical one here and now and we tend to get it very seriously. But on the other hand/side, we are gaining deeper understanding of these events in our life, which we may not really aware right now or it will be obvious after some years/decades. It is like when spiritual people are spreading that there is no right or wrong. I agree on this but because everything is just experience in a continuous chain of events for consciousness (You, Me, everybody) and we are our source consciousness’ focuses, using a human body right now.
Tragedies are always look like that because our society has categories and attached meaning for just everything. We grew up surely knowing what is what but they are unnecessary limits.

Dealing with problems are like keeping balance, mentioned above. We tend to just make decisions on our feelings but that is the worst thing to do. Thoughts are generating feelings, so we need to check our thoughts first and track back their causes. If we tend to practice mindful reactions, we can surely benefit from our bigger life events in any way, not just crashing off in misery.
Always take into consideration: why that event happened to You? How you will solve this problem or loss and get over to look ahead and stay yourself?

I hope I could help.

The role of Affirmations

Affirmations are very useful for those, who tend to speak to themselves in a reinforcing manner or rather make themselves confident. I used them too from my birth. But what significance can they induce? Are they some kinds of aid for us?

Well let’s see how they are helpful in your life through a few examples. If you are more successful in any manner with repeated inner thoughts and making yourself stronger in mind, then that is great! I’m a researcher type too partly so I’m using a few kinds of affirmations for my own confidence too.

The two sides of the same coin

Positive affirmations are existing when we are trying to help ourselves out of negative events and life situations, also to try to influence our outer life and towards those who we like and admire. The positive side can benefit many aspects of our life and can easily help to get by many times. We can surely achieve goals with enough mind work and inner change of thought patterns.

Negative affirmations are sometimes very effective in unwanted circumstances and they can fuel further bad life experiences. These types are not so good on the long run and may impact the individual’s mental health and this way his/her physical body – because thoughts are directly manifesting changes in the physical body.
A quick example here. Your relative or friend is sick or the type who can’t behave, or maybe you are unfamiliar in his/her company – this way you are just rushing your mind with thoughts which ARE reinforcing the outer world and behavour of others. You don’t need to believe that this is true, you can experiment with it any time. That person will be more negative towards you perhaps.

The whole idea comes down to this: our thoughts are influencing our life directly on an ongoing basis, so be careful what you are affirming further. It may be dangerous, not really in a relatively short time but maybe after days, weeks, months or years, some things may happen which you created with your unchecked thoughts. Of course those thoughts are not like affirmations but beliefs. The vast majority is not really aware of this basic principle and here’s planet Earth…

Use them wisely with caution

When we try to reinforce a belief deep inside personally, it may manifest sooner or later, according to the given amounts of thought energy. But the main role is above in a nutshell. Do affirmations if you think you need them or if it is natural to you.  But be careful “what you wished for”. I’ve heard some people wished for car accident… that is too stupid!

Some types of people may use it the worst way to get results in their lives. It is not meaning anything extraordinary if somebody has intelligent thinking if they are so naive that what they try to achieve is not even realistic! Or maybe they are motivated on the worst side of the coin according to their fear, greed, bad behavour.

One type of affirmation is my one natural side. We tend to affirm many things in personal life, like if we don’t know about something which is true or about the mechanics but if we make repeated investigations on various sides of the same problem, we can be sure later that what we thought about something or even somebody is actually right. That is an affirmation type too. It keeps us safe from making decisions or beliefs which were maybe too naive at the first place. Beliefs, affirmations and many more are coming from the same source: thoughts. Where do thoughts are coming from? Consciousness, YOU.

I hope I could help with this.

Backdrop, backfill people – what’s wrong with humans on this planet?

This topic is really mind blowing indeed and as many, I encountered with this issue in Dolores Cannon‘s work, in her videos through the web about a year ago. I found it fascinating when she and G.S.N. told people. I guess I needed to dig in deeper recently because this issue is I feel strongly connected to what the vast majority globally are doing and how they are behaving. Mainly this is just one element to better understand the masses. Backdrop people and backfill people MAY be real.

First of all, I need to discuss some aspects of this issue, which leads people to false assumptions. Just make to it clear. That is not “thinking” when we just accept an idea and use it on everything which fits in and do it like a parrot.

Channeling as the source is not coming mostly from real entities!

I researched this phenomena and just all the times it turned out – and some well experienced NP explorers found out too on their own, that how the so called “subconscious” works – just ALL people, who are channeling “somebody” is channeling his/her own mind (mostly)! They are channeling belief constructs and constructs from their own “inner” mind (SC), where actual concepts and beliefs are well implemented throught this human life, whatever you learnt. Some people are capable of doing it, because they are strong believers, also too naive and that is almost always dangerous. So mostly, it turned out that people are talking with their non-physical parts and these materials are always sounding very faithful, nice or maybe rude and arrogant. Maybe you hear truths from channeled materials which are pretty new or maybe (I mean pretty sure from my findings) 4 out of 5 sources will be very similar and 1 will say you an opposite statement from a given subject like 4 times Atlantis WAS there… and the 5th one says it is a human utopistic idea and WILL BE! Partly these people are sceptical too, but they just don’t know from where these infos came from truely.

I would say maybe, just maybe you may speak telepathically to real entities, who may be a complete stranger, maybe a part of your complete self, who knows. You will be never sure until you “died” or you managed to travel to Focus 3 region (see Focus model) and actually make contact with one of them. Only then you can be sure, the source is real and reliable. Don’t ever trust just anybody in both worlds because you are not even an intelligent somebody this way and nothing more than a naive religious believer which won’t bring you anywhere ever. Exploring in the NP is required intelligence and passive observation. And to tell the truth most humans are just incapable of this task. If somebody is capable of receive channeled material, their ego may distort the whole stuff because in the NP, entities are communicating with telepathy, it transfers big data packages mind to mind. Our world, language and concepts are really limited.

What Cannon did is this. She spoke with the given subject’s constructs and beliefs, OR she spoke with her own NP self through her clients and she just didn’t realise it. That is why it is dangerous to teach about what she listened back from her tapes and write books, but just everybody does this, that is a new fashion. She was intelligent but had no idea how undreal is what those entities or subconscious sources told her, these theories are many times against the real non-physical laws. She is passed since a while and even if she didn’t know what she said again and again until nose bleed, she had a good intention which I admire. Even if the most could be a made up theory, told as a fact, she gave many many people hope and good feelings, so her intention was very great.

Channeled materials are always too religious, too good to be true and contain too much of the given person’s religion or beliefs – if not, then the actual entity group’s beliefs!

This is a fact. The material is almost always dependent on the actual person’s belief distortions and actual willingness to be open and not twist the whole telepathic package. If he/she spoke to a real entity or group (I won’t call it human because WE ARE NOT HUMAN NEITHER), maybe this side may be too condensed into a nutshell which is also not the same as what is spoken. People try to understand a vastly subjective viewpoint with objectivity.
Channeled materials are never make sense in the long run and even if two given materials are coming from two different persons, they always sound the same way. Also there are various entity groups on the other side with own agendas and understandings about what is happening on the planet and there are as many theories about ET’s, Earth shifts etc. as many groups.

The most amazing thing is people are writing endless books, ebooks about many topics after these, even the greatest ones, who still have reliable words and highly intelligent people like F.DM. But when you read those materials or pay attention of what these people say, finally always get the idea (ok I am, but who knows how long people can believe in a false belief) that many many aspects of what the channeler said is clearly wrong according to my knowledge about the non-physical or according to what the biggest NP explorers could find out over decades. For example, if you see reincarnation or past life, just leave it alone immadiatelly, only our local timeframe is linear!

I don’t say, these people are lieing! No, I say, their information about anything could be wrong or distorted and goes against basic principles of the endless NP world. I need to add up that maybe NP entities are barely have no idea what are they talking about many times, that is why it is too strange that people are actually channeling their own aspects from the “other side” which is here plus a thought. Ok back to the subject, I needed to make this clear.

I need to add an straight thought to this. Channeling is always distorted because human mind is distorting the end result. The source of information may be true but beings who try to give us accurate informations can only rely on the concepts and communication channels which is available in the actual person’s mind.

Backdrop, backfill people – who are they?

Basically, they are those who are just too empty humans. I won’t say the same as people are discussing in big forums and making asusmptions about the worst things like they don’t have soul etc. I will make it clear and try to fit the idea to the wider reality and it’s mechanics.

They ARE here, but as I always felt about humans, something is never right. Like when you feel that you are somehow different than just most of the people who you met over decades in your physical life. Something is always wrong. The most are fooling themselves, being religious, no brains, arguing about politics and fueling them, being slaves on a vast scale globally in jobs instead of being free, copying others, if they have intelligence they always use it the worst way on non-sense stuffs, materialistic, suffering without doing something about it etc… I could make it further. If I try to measure the unmeasurable, maybe 1 out of 10000 or 100000 humans are actually somehow advanced in many aspects to see the difference.

The topic and idea in itself is – in my opinion as a highly intelligent man – seems true but partly. Look at this way: I was many times in the non-physical, talking to people, teaching them (both worlds), just having fun, walking with them in many many different parallel lives (NO PAST life, that is an idiot concept in parallel time frame), or just other human dimensions. While I’m there, it could be minutes, hours, days, even maybe more for actual BD people to exist, but when I phase out to another place or to my actual primary focus world here, now here I am “real” in backdrop terms and where I was there I will be the backdrop, like I left another focus, maybe underdeveloped one there. In my opinion of we see this situation as here on this planet maybe most of the people are NPC’s (non-player characters in MMORPG terms), than they have a primary task, to keep us, well advanced entities learn and grow. But I admit that relatively young souls may look like them. Number doesn’t matter, spirits are just endless in numbers in the NP.

They are not soulless or empty, I guess who says this tries to make big boundaries between them and his/her huge ego. They are just for a short time are here for our movie, because this whole world is an illusion, others are calling it hologram. We can call it whatever but the fact is, who is the one who EVER met all the 7,5+ billions of people on Earth? Nobody! You may encounter a very few. This in itself makes a solid foundation on this. You just can’t even imagine where the hack those billions are. Maybe if you go to Asia, you may meet much more people, but the whole game is founded on the fact that if you are willing to meet more people, they will be generated for you with real rules, behavours, life situations and seemingly real personalities.

To get back meeting with “NP” people, you can just any time, any night meet seemingly backdrop people in your own mind in Focus 2 or for real in Focus 3. You talk to them, interact with them but you soon realise that they are somehow empty or they just don’t get the idea. Not the emptiness in itself, but that they look dumb. those are aspects of you and now mostly. Aspects are meaning you are always changing it: argue, love, sad, playfulness, researcher etc. Aspects from your whole personality.

So what is the importance of this concept?

Well this alone tells us that this whole Earth life is more or less a big game, a big movie which needs that famous director as You, and as you go along you meet friends, people – eventually they are disappearing really. Everybody in our life can serve a purpose for us. But this alone doesn’t mean that religious crap that you have karma and contracts with others, that is BS.

Take it from the Focus 3 perspective. You plan a life carefully, make a character (this “you”), wait for an accurate timeline on a given alternative planet and jump in with given starting circumstances. Now you would like to be sure that your task is fulfilled in the end, meanwhile you have no idea about who you are. If you fight with yourself and force everything, you will be sure that you should let your inner NP self do the job. That is what spiritual and manifestation teachings are about mostly. You should enjoy life and don’t give a damn those masses who are seemingly falling into the same traps over and over again. Let them alone, you are not those dumb people who are dragging you down.

In my opinion this concept partly shows the big issue too what is going on on this planet. The planet is fine, humans are underdeveloped to understand basic things about the wider reality, and understand that following somebody or a concept (religion) won’t take you closer to anything. It causes troubles, wars, people starts to argue and defend their ideas which is only a sheep concept. Eventually people stay stupid as a kid. The vast majority falls into the same trap always until they have enough.

Can you tell who are those NPC’s?

I guess we won’t be so sure really, it is just a feeling, an experience when you talk to regular people and after maybe even some months or years you are still not sure about how real that person is – I’ve met just too many of them. I guess this whole game is designed by this way to not cheat and demolishing the whole consensus reality of illusion. I had many friends and pals, people in my life and almost just with everybody I felt they are somehow hollow or not “ready” for anything. As I constantly grew in understanding and gaining back my full inner self, they just got lost from my life and that’s all. In my previous post about friends and losing them, it seems very true that they served a purpose.

I find a little bit funny that humanity makes PC and console games all the time since a while as virtual entertainment and it seems like we are unconsciously copying our true nature through various designs. We are doing also the same with movies in where actors/actresses are taking roles and doing their part to make stories, fake romances and dramas with action. And everybody is attracted to them because I feel mainly that it is our NP nature, to play and understand ourselves from a limited perspective.

Multidimensionally we are doing the same to each other as the human race acts, maybe you realise over your sleep cycles or not. Here maybe you are stopping on a street to check your car and suddenly somebody appears to help you and as soon as you both done, he/she just disappears to nowhere – that is what I’m saying. But I guess this phenomena goes into much more details like various NPC types. Maybe some are existing here for some minutes, maybe some or for decades for various reasons. They are indeed real but as long as we are existing as humans right now, we are all a limited character and this way the backdrop people are also real, but for limited tasks and purposes. From their perspective, we are teaching them maybe.

If you go to vastly populated countries, you may spot out the advanced souls, but the game is maybe more real there because the same kinds are pulling in each other and we know how people are dragging in themselves from vast indoctrinations from birth and national standards. Maybe this theory finally solves the question that what is wrong with people? And because this world seems so real, we can’t be sure for 100% who is like you or me. If we were in the non-physical, we can spot out anybody instantly from telepathy and energies, but here it is covered with illusion.

One thing is sure here also. People in less evolved countries and where there are too much people like on the far east in Asia (for example) are there for a reason. Everybody is at a certain place for a reason. Limited tasks and much less complicated tasks. The human life is not designed to be like a set-in-stone thing because the future in linear timeline is probable always. The issue here is that there is a given bunch of characters and let’s see how they play out their role or tasks. Who plays? Your bigger non-physical self – you are a portion of that. And because every individuals are what they are inside, this place is what it is, because people are acting from free will mostly (I’m not sure on the vast majority about that) and the most are just didn’t wake up to see that what is wrong with this world. The actual worldwide situation is happening because people are underdeveloped to realise what is going on and/or they are part of a bigger game, which seems cruel and bad.

Finally on the other hand there is nothing wrong with this world! I mean really. This is a dualistic Universe and without bad, you can’t see the good. Without masses of suffer you can’t appreciate well being and deep inner connection. Without seeing that billions are working like a slave since a long while (seemingly, who knows how real they are), you can’t appreciate being self-reliable in anything. If we won’t overcomplicate this issue, it turns out that this is a big game and according to our inner compass and values, we can find our way to get back to our real ourselves. Materialistic things, beliefs/religion and anything earthly is not important. The only importance is what you became here and how you chose, because that is what you bring back to the non-physical. Earth is a school out of many.

One thing is sure again about life. I learnt it already and got the ability to “be” it from childhood: you NEED to learn to be on your own. Every connections, family, friends, even love connections are for the same, to help each of us grow up. And because we are in an illusional separation as individual units here, we are all connected to a degree. BUT! The idea of learning to be alone is to LOVE yourself, to accept your inner self. This way if you are radiating out your kindness and help others from no reason, you can affect people and may help them grow too. This is not egoism or antisocial label BS. This is what you are and TREATING others as you would like to receive kindness and help, a mirror. But it needs some boundaries. Not every people can tolerate kindness and love. Most of humans are uncapable (backdrop?) of doing this and receiving it. You need to leave them alone, they are toxic maybe. If you see resistance in people, leave them alone or you will got burnt.

Life is about balance, treat this as it is also. Be kind, but don’t be stupid. I’m saying these thoughts to not let people jump into some conclusions that I try to say that you should be jealous and closed. Btw I didn’t even say a word about this. Behave with people as how you would like to receive the same the same kindness from others. According to our behavour people may be mirrors of our thoughts because of the nature of our reality. If you fool somebody it is like you fooled yourself, like lies. The most just never learn or are in the beginning of becoming better.
The game always needs people for certain roles. If some pass away or change, others will do the same.

Bonus

Btw I wonder how stupid people are when they everywhere stands up for hypothesises like densities and vibrations if the Multiverse is endless non-physically. I wonder who the hack started this BS load when densities and 3D, 4D, 5D came into “existence” and people are also saying the same as their own beliefs, they just believe in them, those are so true, right??? No wonder how many religions came into place – if it fits into your thinking, you follow it and still think you are intelligent. The next idiotism was the Mandela Effect at this topic, but people are just imagining too much non-sense things, escaping their primary reality. If you can’t explain something you start to form a theory or follow one. Multidimensional existence is not like you are suddenly have modified memories about certain things, you just forgot something or people are lieing – well they are. I saw issues about this one too and was just amazed how people are actually believing what they are saying, how certain issues over the last decades are changed. Comeon this is the human mind, you start to think that something is “there”, but really not.

The worst is this. People think like a real physical being which is a facade. EVERYBODY comes from the non-physical and uses a primary focus as a physical body and life. Why is this so complicated to understand? The Sims simulation game is very real. Actually, bodies are not just going to come to exist, it is well orchestrated mechanism and needs an actual entity to inhabit it. It’s energy source is well beyond Focus 3 and while the energy connection is there, after death everybody just switch their main focus back to where we came from to play here and there.

But people are addicted of human life, they keep jumping in to experience because they still didn’t see or experience certain things. We see it daily what effects those are causing worldwide who are addicted from human life OR they just barely learn a thing over even a dozens of lives. They are vastly concentrating on materialistic nature and can’t be helped. Backdrop people and backfill people concept may show the significance of the game of life, even if those entities are as real as You.

When it is frequently said in movies – it was “just” a dream!

There are some sentences in our life that it is just opening up the blade in our pockets – especially when some of us know how the wider reality works and how brainwashed the society is. We usually hear back words and repeated sentences in movies like: “it’s just in your head” or “it was just a dream”, maybe “it is not real”.

What is Real?

Everything is real! Why mainstream tries to eat us this crap? Because one thing is that trying to control people is just everywhere in every aspects of human society but the other part comes down from that the vast majority just simply don’t know what dreams are. We labeled them long time ago and that’s all, dreams are treated as non-sense hallucinations, like you are just dwelling in some kind of “subconscious” crap and you need to just forget it and do your everyday mundane life again and again, not realising that this physical world is a tiny little fraction of an endless Multiverse.

It was not JUST a dream! You are reliving your previous daily stuffs in personal or orchestrated simulations while your physical body is asleep on autopilot, you are faced with fear tests, your non-physical self “there” is bombarded constantly with personal development (without realising this), to stay contact with your NP wider self all the time.

Don’t stuck with this contradictory statement even for a second from the movie world, those are for partly entertainment and partly to keep people controlled. The third part is always there in hidden sentences, symbols and any tools – most movies are representing the actual century’s or era’s social world, what is popular, what is well known in the actual society, like actual standards and accepted ideas. Many movies are like that, for example like today’s ET and sci-fi movies. They were way different like 20-30 years ago and was pretty other worldly what directors and actors represented about the future, tech and extraterrestial world.
But hidden false messages are always there, and mostly not really hidden. Actors and actresses are just speaking out those little sentences in which people just chew regularly and those statements are already accepted as truth.

If you deny dreams as real or part of you, you deny yourself at the first place. Everybody have two lives at the same time running in parallel mode. You are living physical and non-physical life at the same time too in your waking consciousness, just you are not aware about the degree how the NP world is affecting you – well talented persons are more aware of the NP’s daily influence. We just tend to shake off everything from birth and social conditioning which is not fitted to our tiny little self–revolving world here and now. We are limiting ourselves with a box mind. Do you want to be a mass puppet and people pleaser or an intelligent individual?

In personal non-physical development people later learn how the NP is related to our daily life. Bad or good dreams, informative or retrieval ones, precognitive ones are all affecting our daily lives always and helping us all along our path AND as real as our daily physical waking life. A certain skill is needed to get by what the most of them are meant to be at the first place but not the dream itself is what is important but the message! Everything is personal interpretation oriented and with symbols everywhere – remember, non-physical communication is not really verbal, rather telepathic and condensed.

What is your physical body? Are you in your brain?

So many misconceptions are out in our society about who we are, what is our physical body and where is our mind. Well I knew this approach too well before I learnt much more after my teen years, how just everybody got brainwashed and of course science is too blind to see beyond the illusion. Science tries to see tiny little particles which are reacting to observation (consciousness) No surprise, how medical approach tries to only “heal” the body, make surgeries which are pointless in the longrun. Hospitals are ok for heal our body, but everything stems forward from the non-physical mind, us. Our body is only a vehicle and our brain is the translator mechanism between the two worlds. Well when I understood this mechanic, it was very funny how just everybody tends to think only in physical world terms and concepts. No surprise because the majority don’t know even a thing other than this limited physical world, they just don’t understand anything else and just don’t want to because handling the wider world is just too much for a limited box mind!

Non-physical Mind vs. Physical Brain

We are using a primary focus state, a waking consciousness, when we are “awake” and aware mostly daytime and living our life. But how should we imagine this concept, or the mechanics? Now if you didn’t read the focus model yet, I recommend it for understand the mind more deeply. Everybody is using their own non-physical mind, a restricted focus from their inner non-physical being who is timeless, spaceless, genderless, raceless and eternal in the non-physical. Your physical brain – when you enter this world – is used up as a developing and translating device, which controls the physical body and you are controlling the whole body from the point of view which is residing just behind the physical eyes. But of course we are not seeing with our eyes, our sight is created by the back of our brain. Our brain is in darkness, an organ which is closed out from the external world in a safe place. What we experience by the 5 physical senses are only electromagnetic effects, which we project out to experience the consensus based human world here and now. Mostly just everybody experiences the same things but with various degrees of differences. It is sooo real, isn’t?

The brain runs the system, which keeps every part of our body functioning, starting from the cells up to organs, nervous system and much more. But direct commands are coming from us.

The mind can not be located objectively, because that is you. If you are dreaming you are still IN your own mind but in a restricted personal area. If you have overlays, you can experience consensus overlays, meaning that you are interacting with non-physical “people” in non-physical cities, places, universes – they are as real as you in this world. Every multiversal level is your own mind if you are already existing in other worlds as parallel focus, here we just hardly understand first that the word “mind” is a label as everything else. Your consciousness is using your mind, to experience your own game. And truly, everybody have their own personal inner universes, that is why everybody’s perception and interpretation of their physical life and situations, also their NP life is maybe highly different from another person’s experiences.

Physical life

What we experience here is added to our knowledge in the non-physical and what we learnt here as concepts and systems, beliefs, they are constantly used up to interpret just everything when we are experiencing NP events, communications, tasks, when the physical body is asleep. In physical waking life, we are manipulating energy, as our body too and we are using our mind’s power. Most people just have no idea how powerful they are. Instead of experimenting with their own mindpower, they are giving it away to belief systems.

Sleep life

When we are sleeping pyhsically – meaning our mind is elsewhere on a different channel – the vast majority from bad habit after birth tend to blackout for a while, so they are not conscious about the events between falling asleep and being aware in the non-physical worlds. Well it could be from various explanations what happens between the two worlds, but the returning to the physical is just an instant moment.

No matter it is regular sleep, projection, phasing, OBE, even other ones like NDE, our physical body is on autopilot and a very tiny little fraction of our consciousness stays with it to keep it functioning (your body turns and moves many times in your bed, right?). That is how consciousness continuum works. Some people, who can achieve the lowest vibrational projection in the so called Real Time Zone or Buffer Zone, they can experience split awareness, as you are observing from your physical body and at the same time you are observing in your non-physical “body”. It is just a natural phenomenon.

Our primary awareness is in this world while we live up our selected life simulation. We can experience various degrees of awareness in the NP while we are asleep, but we can pull that level up to more than the physical one! I proved it for myself long time ago, the NP is like the physical world on steroids. No surprise after somebody experiences full awareness realises that the physical is not just the same as the non-physical, but the worlds are endless and the rulesets here are dumb hard and very illusional.

Consciousness continuum

Your consciousness never cease to exist, so there is no death, it is only a physical body shredding and that’s all. And because we can meet our parallel selves, it proves that we are already on other levels, just our primary essence (false label higher self) is divided it’s spectrum to experience effectively. If our essence is an endless light, our primary focus is a tiny spot light in a concentrated area.

If we are in another body (seemingly) in the NP, we are already occupying that focus level. We are existing everywhere. Like the simple theory, if we are a 3 dimensional object, we can’t only just exist in length or only depth, we are already existing in all level.

As in the practice of OBE’s and projections (all the same), we are switching to various NP channels with various degrees of self-awareness.

So what is IT?

The physical body is partly selected by you, there is a big chance for it. The other part comes down from family genetics. And it is not really necessary to know your physical family before you born, doesn’t matter. If you have body challanges maybe from birth, it is for a reason! But we came alone, we return back alone.

Your body is selected for your life purposes and it can handle the tasks mostly about which you are here and now. No exceptions here in my opinion. If somebody is obese, it is up to the individual to change. The physical body is composed for the entity for it’s previewed purpose to experience physical life and created for a reason for certain tasks. You are NOT your physical body! It is a dumb belief. Why people are trapped after death? Because they still think they are that body, that person… so dumb. You can use any other kinds of bodies, even animals. Thinking that you are that person, stops you developing further on the scale of limitless possibilities when you return back after death. Funny but most of humans are holding a self-image around their golden age of 20-30s years oldness.

Body vs. self-image

This subject is marvelous. I will be clear. If your self-image – how you look at yourself and how you should look like – is a certain one and you keep thinking about being that body, you will stay that one. It is so simple. Because you are stemming out like a hologram from your inner expectations, you can’t change it until you changed your thinking. You want a muscular body? Do workout, do sports, but no matter what you do if you are still observing your outer layer as an opposite one according to your wish. Mind work.

Here comes all types of diseases, muscular or obese type bodies, just everything physical body stuffs. Don’t believe it? Look back on your life and see how true your self-image is. Observe your every-moment-beliefs. Changing our body, healing illnesses and diseases takes time, but mostly inner thinking and willpower.

Subconscious mind

This topic in itself deserves another post later but I can say here that after I understood how the wider reality and our mind works, I had serious doubts that the bigger picture is not ok with this label. The word “subconscious” is in our culture since a long time and I think it is not existing in the way, how people are thinking about it. If we are using our NP mind’s tiny slice as our waking consciousness, than the subconscious as the bigger part is a wrong label and our other thoughts and beliefs are like a running program, going continously on a back space in the NP, which we can always use freely. It is a toolbox for creating our life here, but not some kind of “unconscious” part.
Misconceptions are always stemming from dumb human concepts, labels and when we tend to build theories on them, they fail always in parts.

How should we call it? Call it as your non-physical part. Because it is. That is still you in a wider perspective. You are observing a simulation, which seems real.

How to raise your good vibration with various tools!

Are you in bad mood, or having bad days since a while? Or maybe you were always in a negative loop, wandering how to get out to feel better? The tools are there.

Good mood elevating methods are everywhere, but you need to know what is natural for yourself. If your average vibration is too low, your physical body suffers from a potential negative thinking deep inside on an ongoing basis. Nothing complicated, everything is vibrating in the Universe starting from atoms.

Music, the frequency elevater and natural healer

If you enjoy some kind of music, like pop, rock, classical etc. then you can just plug in your headphones or your speaker and enjoy it. Take time for yourself daily a few times to get rid of negative thoughts and behavour. Music in itself is a natural healer. If you try to experiment with various volume strengths, you may dive into the songs/tracks and melt in the feeling. It is very useful if you are very emphatic and feel the singer’s feelings and the melody’s effects like me and you may start to vibrate slightly.

Music can help in healing from illnesses or mental stress. What it does is, when you are flowing with your most beautiful tracks, your body’s frequency starts to tune up to higher levels and this way more NP abilities are opening up, especially self-healing.
In the end, you get good mood, no stress, happiness from the repeated effect. Just try it and keep it up mostly if you can.

Maybe laugh is your favourite

Laughing is diminishing stress naturally and keeping you in the joy of life. My best method is to make friends laugh and known people or maybe strangers too to laugh. Maybe I didn’t say a good joke or just told some funny thing, maybe only a gesture. My perspective is not for myself to laugh, but both parties from a natural ability so to speak. I enjoy doing this to others if the effect is positive! It can help if you managed to laugh on yourself too. Don’t give a damn to people and don’t take life so seriously, enjoy it in the moment, learn to laugh it off.

Play a game!

If you like PC games or any other non-electronic solutions, try to imagine right now, what kind of game was your favourite when you felt yourself in joy. That is the one which you need. You can play any kinds of games.

Make a trip to a favourite place or just enjoy a chat with a friend

Maybe you have places to visit when you have time for them – time for yourself. Nice places may make good times also as friends. They are both for detach from the crap we experience almost daily and just not pay any attention, appreciate them!
Friends are coming and going in our life but if it is a useful friendship on both sides, it can make miracles when we (and they) need some help. Friends, good family members and loved ones are there to help each other to get rid of bad events too and guide themselves. Well not every family is actually supporting or containing positive members.

Eat some sweet or whatever you enjoy

Here I’m just mentioning sweets and chocolates which are proven to release endorphin and you may feel a little bit happiness only from eating a chocolate bar alone. It could help a lot. Don’t feel guilty eating it in moderation, the effect here is beneficial!

Enjoy nature

If you are that type who can enjoy nature outside, just go for a ride on your bike, take a jog nearby, walk an hour and listen to nature. Look around you, how the sunshine reflects on water or dances in colors, look around if you are at places of trees with nice vibrant colors, any plants nearby. If you can spot natural animals around, watch them. Detach from negativism and notice what we have. The daily sunshine in itself can change us in many ways, starting from absorbing Vitamin D and healing rays, also maybe you are that type who enjoys nightly walks/jogging. Silence in itself in suburban areas can make a good effect too.

Good mood elevation for higher frequency

Well this one comes from various methods like above. Those are just tools, but any tools are given to not get into a negative spiral in your life. If you lost your actual plan to do something in your life, get find one. It just don’t need to be a big aim and our time here and now is seemingly endless when we live in the now, but also it seems like running away many times.

The whole issue here is that your actual vibrating rate – the non-physical one – is pretty low and you need to raise it by doing something or changing your thinking throughout your day. Many people who are mentally ill or have various physical diseases are caused by their own repeated negative thoughts and destroying their physical body, which is the vehicle to experience their life here and now. Don’t try to understand ever why people are hurting themselves, just don’t, you don’t want to let you dragged down! I know for sure it could be very struggling to shake ourselves back to the positive side after some negative life events and situations, but nobody may do it for us.

Life is a game. Ok not for all but we can enjoy it if we really would like to. Find your positive side and enjoy it fully. Don’t give any attention to the negative ones. It could be very hard not to but energy goes where our thoughts are flowing and becomes our reality over “time”. Do you want to remember your negative life or the positive one at the end?

Alien abduction by night? OBE!

Many people experienced this strange phenomena and it grew into a religion too – people just want to experience this one somehow. Basically, they don’t know what they are experiencing, here comes the lack of knowledge about the basics. If one of these people could understand what is the non-physical and how your thoughts and emotions are working out when you are in another dimension which responds instantly to your thoughts people could already understand that they are scaring themselves only.

About aliens, extraterrestials

Well it is a big topic in itself and I can surely tell everybody that indeed there are countless other races in different dimensions and physical like Universes and they could develop vehicles on the principles of the NP to change realities according to their plans, and they can appear and disappear on Earth. That is surely known, nothing special about this. They are only switching channels between dimensions and living their lives like us on a different civilisational level. We are just on a different evolutionary AND vibratiory level and that’s all.
Maybe there are “bad” and “good” races or types, that is only an objective viewpoint and all of us (them and humans) are coming from originally the same source non-physically. Like an animal or a plant – consciousness experiences in every form.

Don’t hang up on media and spreading idiotism who they are and what they want… not on those worldwide ideas about what are they doing on the planet. I won’t discuss this issue further, nobody knows surely are they participating in anything on this planet, but chances are if you meet one by night, you made it up. OR you maybe really met one in the NP or as an overlay for some seconds and interacted with it which is cool, but they won’t interfere with our development. Many other races are aware of our world, we are only (it seems) the dumb race lol here.

What happens when you encounter this phenomena?

Well many authors like W.B. shared his truth about this experience, which people are just having through the nights. There is no such thing as abduction by strange little aliens, if those are occuring on the physical plane, well it is caused by other types of phenomena and it is rare. I try to stop the fear based idea about what it is.

What happens is, you are not aware from lack of useful knowledge, that your physical body is asleep and you are maybe in the buffer dimension (RTZ or other dimensions and Focus states) as your mind is already in a thought responsive world, the NP, and you are releasing thoughts, emotions and expectations. Meaning you create your own fear scene and you will experience aliens surrounding you or doing something “bad”. It could feel 100% real, because IT IS! The NP is not so much different from the physical.
So in a nutshell, you are suddenly aware that you are awake while you are NOT in F1, but experiencing a different parallel dimension, which is very similar to your primary physical one. This in itself alone shows you that the physical world is one of the endless ones and your mind have huge power to remodel your primary world.
You may experience a physical body too, but it is not. Maybe you experience the whole situation lieing in your bed and levitating. It is a classical OBE process and you just have no idea (I repeat because of lack of knowledge) what is taking place, so you manifest your own fear and ideas to your surroundings. As I saw most of newbies are suddenly waking up in the middle of the night realising that this is happening without any previous knowledge and they were unconscious to the NP in their physical materialistic life.

People around you

If you have helpers or curious “people” around you in this parallel dimension, you may see or feel or hear them, but because you are trying to scare yourself without conscious control, you will experience these “people” as bad entities, maybe aliens. Remember, that everybody can experience reality overlays, so maybe you are partly still in the physical but on the other hand partially phased out.

Just stop scare yourself. It is easier said than done, but it takes practice and start it in your physical daily waking life because your personality is the same in the non-physical too. Stop scaring your with nonsense movies, gossips, watching TV, reading BS through the web. The rulesets are different and you could experience an endless loop of fear if you are releasing your emotions and thoughts. That is why so many people are human on Earth partly, to learn control themselves, but they won’t and don’t want to – free will huh?

What you learnt in this life and stored in your non-physical mind’s “hard drive” is used for interpret what you are seeing with your mind. If you encounter something “alien” from you, you may see ETs on the way you learnt in your life, how do they look like possibly (expectation). And because too many people are sharing the same BS like little greys or reptilians, you may encounter them. Meanwhile the other side is watching you that when will you figure out that you are scaring yourself and it is an illusion.

There is no problem is the vast majority is not brave or can’t handle fear, we have plenty of “time” and we are not living just once. Sooner or later everybody should understand that not jist planet Earth is the only one and we are terenal non-physical entities.

Where are my memories? What about my Past?

Interesting questions. Well many people believe from various materialist beliefs that your memories are in the brain and if something happened to it, they are lost memories. The brain is nothing more than a translating device to properly let you function through this physical vehicle  but it is NOT you! The brain is a device to keep your body alive and well functioning. You are a point of consciousness, using a physical focus for a given amount of decades in most cases. If people fail to understand that this physical illusion world is the only one, well main stream and sciences did a good job, as they are also belief systems to various degrees.

Your Past is already done

As stated above, you already chose many things and your path in your life, which was not some kind of predestined something. If you never chose, maybe it would be like that and consciousness needs to grow. But you had and will have free will and you are just doing your life. Wherever you are right now, you created that life. If other’s did that to you, it is up to your willpower to move, I admit it could be very hard to change.

Now, the past is like when we think back it is like it happened in some seconds only. No matter if you are 20 years old, or 75. You may feel some bigger things in your “past” happened since maybe a day or “just yesterday”. Maybe some are just faint something and didn’t have any mean at all looking back.
You can’t go back change it but you can absolutely learn from it and did you make a bad mistake, how should you do it otherwise if you had the chance to repeat the situation.

There is no time travel in the sense of going back with a Time Machine or with a Delorean. But in the non-physical perspective, time is nothing, lives are played out simultaneously and it is just an illusion, because you are also in the NOW.

Your memories are stored in a non-physical mind region, which is your own. We can use an analogy here as a computer – the unused memory banks are there in the cloud save and every unused resources. When you die, you have them instantly, you are what you did in this life, you became it. Nothing complicated. You are what you chose, your decisions and how you used up your various aspects of yourself.

Lost memories

Nothing is lost ever, it is just a mental block or something which happened, that you just can’t reach that data stream in your mind’s endless “space” (which is spaceless). Maybe your brain – the translating device is damaged to a degree that the connection is damaged also.
When somebody has brain damage or trauma or something similar which blocks out his/her abilities, it is NOT in the brain. What happened is, there are blocks between the two worlds and simply this person is unable to reach what was already known. Two options are here: try to relearn what you knew once and/or try to dig up your memories after an extended amount of time. Well anything could happen.

Dementia and other mind related issues

Well it could be a complicated thing but in my observations and on the basis what I know, people mainly in elder age just try to close out their primary focus from this physical world and not so consciously trying to get in touch with their true self from the non-physical. The other common issue is that people who don’t want to listen to the world (the worst type) is just slowly closing out everything in a bubble and just don’t really hear you neither. Well eventually they return back, but they are like in a forcefield or energy bubble, they try to exist in both worlds at the same time. The cause could be many, maybe a bad marriage from decades, maybe wanting to die, maybe just can’t deal with life here.

So the Past is really just what you already done here. It could be bad or good, doesn’t matter, that is you and those are your choices. Ethical dilemma always comes to the surface if somebody made really bad things but it is up to the person to solve them and let them go. Everybody do mistakes, without them it would be impossible to experience the other side like doing something the good way.

Focus 2 – the personal mind area, dreaming

Ok here we go, I will later make clear that there are certain levels of focus of our consciousness or attention. Now, there is a very accurate model, you don’t need to understand it right now, but I will write a post later on that model, which I learnt also from a great man who disappeared from spiritual sites after he done so much with his investigations in the NP for decades.
This mind area is nothing more but a channel for your mind, focus of attention, nothing more. You are already occupying that area with your mind. We can call it one of a level of your existence.

Here you are using your beliefs, manifesting your life and desires, dreaming up your fears and emotions every night. This is a subjective Focus of your mind, where we are using this “place” to function properly in the physical world, which is our primary focus as called Focus 1.
When people dream, they are mostly and most of them are unconscious what happens, they are not even aware really of what are they doing and releasing the most craps of their daily lives. Thought here is instant, so whatever you think, it becomes real. Everything is real, non-physical dimensions are as real as your physical one, maybe more real. This shows people with relatively big awareness that the physical world is not the only one and they won’t cease to exist after death. You are keeping contact with the non-physical the whole time, just don’t realise it.

The worst here is that the vast majority because of lack of useful knowledge shaking off their dreams and don’t really want to know what are they acting out by sleeps. They just think, dreams are insane “subconscious” crap – well why should they think otherwise, that is what they learnt from birth from people who also just don’t know a thing.

Memories, beliefs, concepts, likes and dislikes, manifestations are all stored in this level of your mind. But your mind is much more, much powerful. This is just for the game here. And as I saw most of people are playing very in a very bad way. Well suprise, they don’t even know they are originally just consciousness from a thought responsive world.

When You are in a negative spiral in life

Shit happens let’s be straight, with almost everybody. We are living a human life simulations, with other humans interacting with each other. Most of the time it is embarassing and stressful to just swallow other people’s controlling opinions and their blames all the time. Depression can occur and negative thinking. Job life does it’s “job” to pull you down, also toxic family members are doing well their job.

How can you get out of the neg spiral?

The best way is to just get as far away as you can as soon as possible from the source of negativism and bad people. The vast majority are just blaming, sucking your energy and don’t let you think about your positive thoughts in your personal life and they just doesn’t care. People are just what they are and everybody is on their own steps of evolution. They won’t stop their misery – why should they stop their way of thinking, which they are constantly giving thought since maybe years or decades, huh?

If you are a work/job type, it is fine, you can switch to another job anytime if you wish. That is a huge fake thing when people are complaining, you can’t. Like you can’t find another one, there isn’t any… well their thoughts are creating their reality if they give enough energy, but You are not them! You have the options to switch to something which may serve your life better than the previous crap, which just slowly kills you emotionally. People are just dragging in their little box world all the way.
There is the saying that you can’t make people change in their behavour or whatever they should in our viewpoint. They won’t and don’t want to change – we should leave them alone fast.

The first step is given, start to work your way out of the crap and remember that your thoughts are building your probable future. Believe in yourself and know that you are not alone and many people could do it in similar situations.
The same goes on relationships and family issues.
If your friend or love is not a friendship or love anymore, just stop pulling yourself down constantly to their level. You have better things to do. New potential friends are always there on your actual level and you can find somebody in love later too if you wish for. The main key here is intention. Energy goes where your thoughts are.

Intention – the main energy flow

If you have the intention about getting out a negative spiral or out from negative people’s crowd like workmates, friends, family etc… than you should focus on whatever you want and not what you don’t want. That is the main difference. Your probable future goes wherever your thought energy is given, keep it in mind, test it, play with it.

It takes time I admit (a real pain in the butt), I had a mentally and emotionally toxic job experience too not so long ago, which went on months until I made (with some friendly help) make myself KNOW and believe that nobody could keep me there and I can go away. I just hated it and it went against my own rules about making a passive income somehow, but family issues went against my plans “again”. My collagues were always in misery, blaming, complaining – forgetting that they chose their job, not me and they also accepted the rules. This is a classical sign of working people and the number of people who are actually ok with their jobs is much less, like 1 out of 20. You don’t need to suffer in your life because this. Maybe it was a bad decision, but the world is always giving you better opportunities. By the way who the hack needs all of this?

Start in Yourself, deep inside first!

For first, just close your eyes, and close out any distractions (called meditation) and try to observe your thoughts. You may realise that your thoughts are based on fear and suffering from situations on which you don’t have any influence and can’t do anything. If you don’t have influence on people or similars, STOP giving thought energy on them. I know this issue too sure from various aspects of my life.

If you found your problems deep inside, you will have the solution soon. You must get away far from negative aspects of your life, rather convert them into positive feelings and formulate a little plan to solve the problem. This is not escapism, this is changing your life for better! Depression is a signpost for an underlying problem mentally.

If it is work, there will be other opportunities, trust yourself.
Changing work life to independency is also a process, it takes time and effort to step from one into another smoothly.
If it is relationship, they are toxic and not serving the original purpose for both sides anymore, stop fueling them. You hurt yourself!
If it is family, well it could be harder because of the stronger relationship – stop fueling them either. We can’t make people change, don’t try it! Get away after you made sure yourself, you tried your best. An action plan is needed only for quit.

Remember back whenever you felt yourself well, in joy. Search back of those feelings and what caused them. You must learn to enjoy yourself on your own, not depending on other people. This is not egoism, this is being your true being and giving out your joy, making people better around you, better in looking with their heart.
You should learn to not depend on other’s love and kindness. You can give it too! Practice with it.

Trust yourself, stay in balance and don’t let other’s to influence you ever. They are just regular people, they will pull in their types.
You are here to live your life in joy, not in self-destruction!