Tragedies and problems – dealing and benefiting from them

Tragedies and problems are finding us time to time and people basically have no idea what can somebody benefit from them? Regular people only seeing the personal loss or anything which is casued by some kind of bad event or maybe a car accident, a death of a loved one, or just a really bad grade in school etc. But smaller tragedies can happen too.

Over my researches I found an interesting viewpoint about how to deal with personal tragedies and how can we benefit from those experiences. It seems very very simple from the subjective non-physical side, which includes a basic thing – our personal spiritual development in this aspect. Of course it is harder than said but it worths the try. Keep balance always in your decisions. And remember, our life is only a facade of a bigger play theme – each individual is stepping in their own path with their choices.

Ok, here you go: the only solution is -how you are dealing with tragedies, problems and many negative life experiences. How you deal with it, that’s all, how you make a solution, how you benefit from it, even if it is a huge tragedy, how you make a smart reaction which will benefit your inner growth in a positive way.
Why? Well we are on a training gound where we are learning constantly and developing – I admit it seem like the most are not even developing anywhere as billions are sleepwalking and indoctrinated but everybody does their job in physical life to slowly or faster but gain knowledge and have life experiences.

To get it short, dealing is one thing but dealing on a way that you are crashing yourself down in a personal loop of negativism and tragedy is not a good idea. The problem solving here means that you let go of bad things in your life, let go the negativity, bad people and bad relationships. Let go and close down those episodes in your life. This way you will only live in the famous present moment and don’t give away any energy towards a past which you can’t change (only your thinking) and also stop worrying on the future which is probable and you will only cause trouble of your thinking. Worry doesn’t solve anything, right?

Even if a relative died or somebody had broken up a connection with us, maybe our car crashed, it is sad and could make people broken in spirit. Don’t let it smash you down. Life is going forward even if people tend to cling on a moment which causing them degrade over years and decades for no reason. We need to let go those bad events in our life, acknowledge them as they happened, we can’t change them, look into the present moment and try to be yourself. You are unique and this way nobody can of course tell you how to live and what to like/dislike, which this society also forgot.

Benefiting: we can gain knowledge from anything, it is only a matter of perception on every sides. You may ask, ok how a handicapped somebody could deal with or benefit from his/her position in a wheelchair for example. How can his/her mother/father/any relative who takes care of him/her benefit and grow from this situation. The only thing here is the viewpoint, how we deal with it, how we accept the situation and do our best. The handicapped person is in his/her little Universe and dealing with his/her bad situation as best as he/she can and when his/her life is finished for this physical life time, this knowledge will be added to the non-physical, to share this circumstance with others. Those who were dealing with him/her, they will also grow from their perspective and learn some understanding of these situations which they – in normal life where people have perfect health condition – may not encounter with such a “trap” for their loved ones. It may be for a reason. Look at the non-physical side: entities (ok we can call them “people”) are constantly gaining knowledge from those who were brave enough to jump in a physical life and deal with the consequences of their choices. Most people won’t ever accept the consequences of their stupid behavour and we all know such people.

Tragedy is only existing in a dualistic world like our physical one here and now and we tend to get it very seriously. But on the other hand/side, we are gaining deeper understanding of these events in our life, which we may not really aware right now or it will be obvious after some years/decades. It is like when spiritual people are spreading that there is no right or wrong. I agree on this but because everything is just experience in a continuous chain of events for consciousness (You, Me, everybody) and we are our source consciousness’ focuses, using a human body right now.
Tragedies are always look like that because our society has categories and attached meaning for just everything. We grew up surely knowing what is what but they are unnecessary limits.

Dealing with problems are like keeping balance, mentioned above. We tend to just make decisions on our feelings but that is the worst thing to do. Thoughts are generating feelings, so we need to check our thoughts first and track back their causes. If we tend to practice mindful reactions, we can surely benefit from our bigger life events in any way, not just crashing off in misery.
Always take into consideration: why that event happened to You? How you will solve this problem or loss and get over to look ahead and stay yourself?

I hope I could help.

Who are You in the Wider Reality?

Most of humans think, we are that human in that kind of body with that given sex and characteristics, which you experience from birth as your own body, identity and many more. People tend to think that they are that, and indentifying themselves with that body and character eventually. Surprise when they arrive to the “Afterlife” they will stay the same and those few who realised that they are not even human or male/female can easily step forward to the wider reality and develop further, because there are relatively no limits.

The social conditioning is very wise when it breaks down to conditioning types. It can come from our parents, the media, other people who also believe in the same false assumption, religions are the worst (but some of them had the core element about the body and indentity as a false image). Everybody is free to believe in something, don’t misunderstand me, but it leads nowhere.
So we are just constantly brainwashed from birth and the most of us are just stucked forever in hard beliefs about who we are really. Just nothing comes close to the real fact.

Everybody in essence is a free non-physical, timeless, ageless, genderless, raceless energy being

Well all above. You are originally an energy being, who splits into individual units and experiencing life, learning to grow, playing, learning certain values, experiencing duality, the illusion of time and space, physicality and many more.

You just don’t want to stay forever in the non-physical if you really want to gain something. You NEED to experience the physical dumb training ground, which could be hard. And the joke here is, it is said that most of the non-human entities were never even physical. I met many on my journes too: they had no idea what is physical linear time for example. I was amazed that I was teaching them about physical things.

We are planning a game for us to jump in and from initial circumstances and given surroundings and family, we just build up our new personality for the sake of the game and learning curve and experiencing physical life, which is important to make value about what is it like to be non-physical. Interesting huh? You are gaining a better, a more valuable insight what it feels to be physical and non-physical at the same time, because we can experience both while we are in physical life, but not otherwise if you are mainly resident in the NP. We create our personality according to our main tasks here. But duality is very important. Light couldn’t be without dark, right?

Your knowledge is benefit for all in the NP

What we learn, experience, achieve, how we played, I agree on this that we will add that information package to benefit others in the non-physical. Well I like to help people here in the physical also.

Remember, you came from the NP and not the other way. That is why physical life is important. You will appreciate it when you realised the value of your role here. The whys, hows etc. Don’t wait till you die and realise what did you lose.

If you’ve suffered through your life, you gain knowledge how not to do it maybe (not everybody learns) and if you could manage to know yourself better and have fun, you also gain knowledge to how to do it right plus realising your true inner self. Don’t underestimate what your life is all about. And don’t be self-judgemental if you couldn’t change your life on the way what you wanted to, maybe you deeply didn’t need that change! You may never now while you are here… but never give up!

You are not just ONE person

Now this issue is very mind-twisting and I needed some months to digest it while I was gathering evidence and tried to understand the basics. R.M. told this issue in his later vids, which I could find on Youtube from 1994. before his death, but later other people could reinforce this theory as truth. Now I don’t give so much value to channeled stuffs but there are some truth behind the distorted stories, we need to seriously investigate if we need the truth, belief is not truth!

The issue is this. Everybody is composed from different personalities. I will later try to discuss this further because it could be life changing for everybody. But people with more personalities are very normal and everybody using them according to their life situations, emotions and addictions. You are composed from various aspects, which gives your eventual indentity and YOU are deciding which ones do you want to use. You may be sometimes happy, sometimes laughing on movies, sometimes mad at certain people, other times you enjoy playing autosport games and other times enjoy pop music. That is all you, and just don’t realise ever that you are switching over certain personalities which you are made of, according to the given circumstances and situations.
That could be why we all maybe find bad persons relatively good deep inside and we can’t let go them so soon. I have this tendency too and getting lost that bad person is very hard in this case…

This whole personified unit thing which is You or Me is also an illusion for the sake of enjoying the physical game and experiencing loneliness as one unit, detached from the big interconnected net of consciousnesses in Focus 3 and Focus 4, from where we came from. It is for the game to know what is it like you are closed out from the network seemingly but you are still connected in the background!

So who you are? Only you may know. Look deep inside and observe your likes/dislikes, your characteristics, attitudes towards people and life situations, your talents, your life purpose which you feel is “that” purpose here and now. You can investigate through advanced and controlled non-physical travels, OBEs, “Lucid Dreams”. That is all you. But don’t make the false assumption that this character is you in a wider sense. Billions does that and don’t escape from themselves after death, meaning stucked in the Afterlife in Belief System Territories and just didn’t went further out in the Multiverse than an inch! Every dimension, world, Focus level is here right now, but your primary focus is here right now in your waking awareness. Consciousness does not occupy space and time!