This topic is just for the sake of understanding what happens to someone who “passes away”. My understanding and some personal explorations comes from a bigger picture of my own and verifications.
Those, who know how the Wider Reality works maybe experienced some kind of non-physical stuffs in their life (OBE, NDE, dreaming, etc). If somebody tries to investigate the simplified Focus model from 1-4 will see on his/her own, that everybody is relatively on his/her own journey and everybody is alone in physical viewpoint and interconnected from non-physical viewpoint. One of the big physical world lessons is changing viewpoint from objective to subjective like a movie camera, maybe from first person to third person. People are experienced any kinds of NP phenomena already while they are sleep. The angle of view is a useful tool to understand non-physical messages really, mainly in dreams.
So the point is when somebody is experiencing “death”, nothing huge happens, JUST they shred down their physical focus of his/her consciousness and return “back” to Focus 3, where he/she will be just fine. The vast majority needs “time” to adjust back to the non-physical world, where we came from and they will need to shake off every belief systems to plan another game for their experience. The most selects to live a really physical like life there in the belief system territories, others are suffering from their own emotions and beliefs. While you had time to stop your emotions and deal with consequences in the physical slowly, there it is instant and if you don’t stop it, somebody will come over and help you, which is very hard for the most. People are in huge energy bubbles in which they replay their death or emotions infinite times (the worst cases).
So the question is that what happens?
They switch primary focus back there. The dumb and intense physical focus is no longer needed, and the body also dies off because the energetic connection is over through the whole system, no need any further “body”. That is the worst thing when people think they were that body, that person, because they will continue to behave that way there later – they are limiting down to a narrow band their potential. It is an illusion!
The “where” is interesting here. Where is Focus 3? On a different reality level, right here around us, but we are not aware, only some few. Consciousness doesn’t occupy space and time, so everything, every infinite realities are existing at the exact same spot.
Which means YOU are the observer in every realities, you are the point of view so to speak. It is like an energy bubble is your little Universe any time, so it is tricky. Dead people often don’t realize they are “dead” – well nobody dies in this sense – and many continue act like they are dieing, replaying the death scenarios infinite amounts of times etc. But no problem, “people” (ok, entities rather) are dedicated to help many. Our society and history doesn’t give even a true fact about what is life about and what is after death, only lies and distorted infos. We can investigate this from here alone with various non-physical traveling methods. Dreaming is just one!
So here is a given relative, for example: aunt Karl.
Karl is passed away and he is changing back to Focus 3 as his primary focus world or level. He will be soon at his death leaded through a dimensional wormhole as his mind (the concepts which normal people learn over their physical life, a big white portal, the famous white light) interprets it and other’s are helping him go “there”. Those who help, could be other versions of his primary essence which is callled very badly and stupidly “Higher Self”, or maybe some other friends from the NP, it varies personally.
Where is he? He is done here, he has a footprint after physical life, added his knowledge to his Essence in Focus 4 and he continues in the BST regions, where he is mostly resonated after his beliefs and emotions. What happens next is up to every individual (emotional loops, healing centers, nice places, heavens etc). But don’t try to estimate time frames there because it is meaningless. Maybe he is already left Focus 3 and adopted his primary focus back to Focus 4 or maybe he learns many more stuffs already. It is meaningless to think over physical time frame terms. He is just fine.
And don’t try to think anything about heavens and hells. ALL are created by humans, to make them understand that after they literally had enough of those places, they can move further in their journey. They are personal traps of beliefs.
Remember, we are here just acting characters for various purposes which our own Essence chosen. We are not this body, not this person, we are formless energy entities. It is like a movie actor, they can behave like themselves, but in civil life they are not that played character. Or maybe Sims simulation games for another example.
If somebody can communicate with a dead relative, chances are, this “relative” can’t get one step further and attached to a previous dimensional life and can’t get lost F1 members, which is very hard to get lost for some. So he is stuck and can’t realize, he is much more than what he was and what he THOUGHT he was. Physical existence is addictive, look at the vast majority on this planet only… vast scale of addictions.
We came alone seemingly because it is a test to become, we choose whatever we would like to do later. Forget those BS fear based false assumptions that you are forced to come back… Back where? It was just one dimension from the vast scale. In a timeless and spaceless Multiverse, the idea of sequential reincarnation is as dumb as that you had past life (partly true).