Backdrop, backfill people – what’s wrong with humans on this planet?

This topic is really mind blowing indeed and as many, I encountered with this issue in Dolores Cannon‘s work, in her videos through the web about a year ago. I found it fascinating when she and G.S.N. told people. I guess I needed to dig in deeper recently because this issue is I feel strongly connected to what the vast majority globally are doing and how they are behaving. Mainly this is just one element to better understand the masses.

First of all, I need to discuss some aspects of this issue, which leads people to false assumptions. Just make to it clear. That is not “thinking” when we just accept an idea and use it on everything which fits in and do it like a parrot.

Channeling as the source is not coming mostly from real entities!

I researched this phenomena and just all the times it turned out – and some well experienced NP explorers found out too on their own, that how the so called “subconscious” works – just ALL people, who are channeling “somebody” is channeling his/her own mind (mostly)! They are channeling belief constructs and constructs from their own “inner” mind (SC), where actual concepts and beliefs are well implemented throught this human life, whatever you learnt. Some people are capable of doing it, because they are strong believers, also too naive and that is almost always dangerous. So mostly, it turned out that people are talking with their non-physical parts and these materials are always sounding very faithful, nice or maybe rude and arrogant. Maybe you hear truths from channeled materials which are pretty new or maybe (I mean pretty sure from my findings) 4 out of 5 sources will be very similar and 1 will say you an opposite statement from a given subject like 4 times Atlantis WAS there… and the 5th one says it is a human utopistic idea and WILL BE! Partly these people are sceptical too, but they just don’t know from where these infos came from truely.

I would say maybe, just maybe you may speak telepathically to real entities, who may be a complete stranger, maybe a part of your complete self, who knows. You will be never sure until you “died” or you managed to travel to Focus 3 region (see Focus model) and actually make contact with one of them. Only then you can be sure, the source is real and reliable. Don’t ever trust just anybody in both worlds because you are not even an intelligent somebody this way and nothing more than a naive religious believer which won’t bring you anywhere ever. Exploring in the NP is required intelligence and passive observation. And to tell the truth most humans are just incapable of this task. If somebody is capable of receive channeled material, their ego may distort the whole stuff because in the NP, entities are communicating with telepathy, it transfers big data packages mind to mind. Our world, language and concepts are really limited.

What Cannon did is this. She spoke with the given subject’s constructs and beliefs, OR she spoke with her own NP self through her clients and she just didn’t realise it. That is why it is dangerous to teach about what she listened back from her tapes and write books, but just everybody does this, that is a new fashion. She was intelligent but had no idea how undreal is what those entities or subconscious sources told her, these theories are many times against the real non-physical laws. She is passed since a while and even if she didn’t know what she said again and again until nose bleed, she had a good intention which I admire. Even if the most could be a made up theory, told as a fact, she gave many many people hope and good feelings, so her intention was very great.

Channeled materials are always too religious, too good to be true and contain too much of the given person’s religion or beliefs – if not, then the actual entity group’s beliefs!

This is a fact. The material is almost always dependent on the actual person’s belief distortions and actual willingness to be open and not twist the whole telepathic package. If he/she spoke to a real entity or group (I won’t call it human because WE ARE NOT HUMAN NEITHER), maybe this side may be too condensed into a nutshell which is also not the same as what is spoken. People try to understand a vastly subjective viewpoint with objectivity.
Channeled materials are never make sense in the long run and even if two given materials are coming from two different persons, they always sound the same way. Also there are various entity groups on the other side with own agendas and understandings about what is happening on the planet and there are as many theories about ET’s, Earth shifts etc. as many groups.

The most amazing thing is people are writing endless books, ebooks about many topics after these, even the greatest ones, who still have reliable words and highly intelligent people like F.DM. But when you read those materials or pay attention of what these people say, finally always get the idea (ok I am, but who knows how long people can believe in a false belief) that many many aspects of what the channeler said is clearly wrong according to my knowledge about the non-physical or according to what the biggest NP explorers could find out over decades. For example, if you see reincarnation or past life, just leave it alone immadiatelly, only our local timeframe is linear!

I don’t say, these people are lieing! No, I say, their information about anything could be wrong or distorted and goes against basic principles of the endless NP world. I need to add up that maybe NP entities are barely have no idea what are they talking about many times, that is why it is too strange that people are actually channeling their own aspects from the “other side” which is here plus a thought. Ok back to the subject, I needed to make this clear.

I need to add an straight thought to this. Channeling is always distorted because human mind is distorting the end result. The source of information may be true but beings who try to give us accurate informations can only rely on the concepts and communication channels which is available in the actual person’s mind.

Backdrop, backfill people – who are they?

Basically, they are those who are just too empty humans. I won’t say the same as people are discussing in big forums and making asusmptions about the worst things like they don’t have soul etc. I will make it clear and try to fit the idea to the wider reality and it’s mechanics.

They ARE here, but as I always felt about humans, something is never right. Like when you feel that you are somehow different than just most of the people who you met over decades in your physical life. Something is always wrong. The most are fooling themselves, being religious, no brains, arguing about politics and fueling them, being slaves on a vast scale globally in jobs instead of being free, copying others, if they have intelligence they always use it the worst way on non-sense stuffs, materialistic, suffering without doing something about it etc… I could make it further. If I try to measure the unmeasurable, maybe 1 out of 10000 or 100000 humans are actually somehow advanced in many aspects to see the difference.

The topic and idea in itself is – in my opinion as a highly intelligent man – seems true but partly. Look at this way: I was many times in the non-physical, talking to people, teaching them (both worlds), just having fun, walking with them in many many different parallel lives (NO PAST life, that is an idiot concept in parallel time frame), or just other human dimensions. While I’m there, it could be minutes, hours, days, even maybe more for actual BD people to exist, but when I phase out to another place or to my actual primary focus world here, now here I am “real” in backdrop terms and where I was there I will be the backdrop, like I left another focus, maybe underdeveloped one there. In my opinion of we see this situation as here on this planet maybe most of the people are NPC’s (non-player characters in MMORPG terms), than they have a primary task, to keep us, well advanced entities learn and grow. But I admit that relatively young souls may look like them. Number doesn’t matter, spirits are just endless in numbers in the NP.

They are not soulless or empty, I guess who says this tries to make big boundaries between them and his/her huge ego. They are just for a short time are here for our movie, because this whole world is an illusion, others are calling it hologram. We can call it whatever but the fact is, who is the one who EVER met all the 7,5+ billions of people on Earth? Nobody! You may encounter a very few. This in itself makes a solid foundation on this. You just can’t even imagine where the hack those billions are. Maybe if you go to Asia, you may meet much more people, but the whole game is founded on the fact that if you are willing to meet more people, they will be generated for you with real rules, behavours, life situations and seemingly real personalities.

To get back meeting with “NP” people, you can just any time, any night meet seemingly backdrop people in your own mind in Focus 2 or for real in Focus 3. You talk to them, interact with them but you soon realise that they are somehow empty or they just don’t get the idea. Not the emptiness in itself, but that they look dumb. those are aspects of you and now mostly. Aspects are meaning you are always changing it: argue, love, sad, playfulness, researcher etc. Aspects from your whole personality.

So what is the importance of this concept?

Well this alone tells us that this whole Earth life is more or less a big game, a big movie which needs that famous director as You, and as you go along you meet friends, people – eventually they are disappearing really. Everybody in our life can serve a purpose for us. But this alone doesn’t mean that religious crap that you have karma and contracts with others, that is BS.

Take it from the Focus 3 perspective. You plan a life carefully, make a character (this “you”), wait for an accurate timeline on a given alternative planet and jump in with given starting circumstances. Now you would like to be sure that your task is fulfilled in the end, meanwhile you have no idea about who you are. If you fight with yourself and force everything, you will be sure that you should let your inner NP self do the job. That is what spiritual and manifestation teachings are about mostly. You should enjoy life and don’t give a damn those masses who are seemingly falling into the same traps over and over again. Let them alone, you are not those dumb people who are dragging you down.

In my opinion this concept partly shows the big issue too what is going on on this planet. The planet is fine, humans are underdeveloped to understand basic things about the wider reality, and understand that following somebody or a concept (religion) won’t take you closer to anything. It causes troubles, wars, people starts to argue and defend their ideas which is only a sheep concept. Eventually people stay stupid as a kid. The vast majority falls into the same trap always until they have enough.

Can you tell who are those NPC’s?

I guess we won’t be so sure really, it is just a feeling, an experience when you talk to regular people and after maybe even some months or years you are still not sure about how real that person is – I’ve met just too many of them. I guess this whole game is designed by this way to not cheat and demolishing the whole consensus reality of illusion. I had many friends and pals, people in my life and almost just with everybody I felt they are somehow hollow or not “ready” for anything. As I constantly grew in understanding and gaining back my full inner self, they just got lost from my life and that’s all. In my previous post about friends and losing them, it seems very true that they served a purpose.

I find a little bit funny that humanity makes PC and console games all the time since a while as virtual entertainment and it seems like we are unconsciously copying our true nature through various designs. We are doing also the same with movies in where actors/actresses are taking roles and doing their part to make stories, fake romances and dramas with action. And everybody is attracted to them because I feel mainly that it is our NP nature, to play and understand ourselves from a limited perspective.

Multidimensionally we are doing the same to each other as the human race acts, maybe you realise over your sleep cycles or not. Here maybe you are stopping on a street to check your car and suddenly somebody appears to help you and as soon as you both done, he/she just disappears to nowhere – that is what I’m saying. But I guess this phenomena goes into much more details like various NPC types. Maybe some are existing here for some minutes, maybe some or for decades for various reasons. They are indeed real but as long as we are existing as humans right now, we are all a limited character and this way the backdrop people are also real, but for limited tasks and purposes. From their perspective, we are teaching them maybe.

If you go to vastly populated countries, you may spot out the advanced souls, but the game is maybe more real there because the same kinds are pulling in each other and we know how people are dragging in themselves from vast indoctrinations from birth and national standards. Maybe this theory finally solves the question that what is wrong with people? And because this world seems so real, we can’t be sure for 100% who is like you or me. If we were in the non-physical, we can spot out anybody instantly from telepathy and energies, but here it is covered with illusion.

One thing is sure here also. People in less evolved countries and where there are too much people like on the far east in Asia (for example) are there for a reason. Everybody is at a certain place for a reason. Limited tasks and much less complicated tasks. The human life is not designed to be like a set-in-stone thing because the future in linear timeline is probable always. The issue here is that there is a given bunch of characters and let’s see how they play out their role or tasks. Who plays? Your bigger non-physical self – you are a portion of that. And because every individuals are what they are inside, this place is what it is, because people are acting from free will mostly (I’m not sure on the vast majority about that) and the most are just didn’t wake up to see that what is wrong with this world. The actual worldwide situation is happening because people are underdeveloped to realise what is going on and/or they are part of a bigger game, which seems cruel and bad.

Finally on the other hand there is nothing wrong with this world! I mean really. This is a dualistic Universe and without bad, you can’t see the good. Without masses of suffer you can’t appreciate well being and deep inner connection. Without seeing that billions are working like a slave since a long while (seemingly, who knows how real they are), you can’t appreciate being self-reliable in anything. If we won’t overcomplicate this issue, it turns out that this is a big game and according to our inner compass and values, we can find our way to get back to our real ourselves. Materialistic things, beliefs/religion and anything earthly is not important. The only importance is what you became here and how you chose, because that is what you bring back to the non-physical. Earth is a school out of many.

One thing is sure again about life. I learnt it already and got the ability to “be” it from childhood: you NEED to learn to be on your own. Every connections, family, friends, even love connections are for the same, to help each of us grow up. And because we are in an illusional separation as individual units here, we are all connected to a degree. BUT! The idea of learning to be alone is to LOVE yourself, to accept your inner self. This way if you are radiating out your kindness and help others from no reason, you can affect people and may help them grow too. This is not egoism or antisocial label BS. This is what you are and TREATING others as you would like to receive kindness and help, a mirror. But it needs some boundaries. Not every people can tolerate kindness and love. Most of humans are uncapable (backdrop?) of doing this and receiving it. You need to leave them alone, they are toxic maybe. If you see resistance in people, leave them alone or you will got burnt.

Life is about balance, treat this as it is also. Be kind, but don’t be stupid. I’m saying these thoughts to not let people jump into some conclusions that I try to say that you should be jealous and closed. Btw I didn’t even say a word about this. Behave with people as how you would like to receive the same the same kindness from others. According to our behavour people may be mirrors of our thoughts because of the nature of our reality. If you fool somebody it is like you fooled yourself, like lies. The most just never learn or are in the beginning of becoming better.
The game always needs people for certain roles. If some pass away or change, others will do the same.

Bonus

Btw I wonder how stupid people are when they everywhere stands up for hypothesises like densities and vibrations if the Multiverse is endless non-physically. I wonder who the hack started this BS load when densities and 3D, 4D, 5D came into “existence” and people are also saying the same as their own beliefs, they just believe in them, those are so true, right??? No wonder how many religions came into place – if it fits into your thinking, you follow it and still think you are intelligent. The next idiotism was the Mandela Effect at this topic, but people are just imagining too much non-sense things, escaping their primary reality. If you can’t explain something you start to form a theory or follow one. Multidimensional existence is not like you are suddenly have modified memories about certain things, you just forgot something or people are lieing – well they are. I saw issues about this one too and was just amazed how people are actually believing what they are saying, how certain issues over the last decades are changed. Comeon this is the human mind, you start to think that something is “there”, but really not.

The worst is this. People think like a real physical being which is a facade. EVERYBODY comes from the non-physical and uses a primary focus as a physical body and life. Why is this so complicated to understand? The Sims simulation game is very real. Actually, bodies are not just going to come to exist, it is well orchestrated mechanism and needs an actual entity to inhabit it. It’s energy source is well beyond Focus 3 and while the energy connection is there, after death everybody just switch their main focus back to where we came from to play here and there.
But people are addicted of human life, they keep jumping in to experience because they still didn’t see or experience certain things. We see it daily what effects those are causing worldwide who are addicted from human life OR they just barely learn a thing over even a dozens of lives. They are vastly concentrating on materialistic nature and can’t be helped.

The Focus Model from F1 to F4 – part 1 (FOCUS 1)

Here it is the most accurate Focus model of all time from a wise man, whom I don’t want to fully describe and give his whole name, but he is F.K. He is one of the most knowledgable men on this planet, who spent many many years to explore and investigate how Robert Monroe’s model is accurate or not and found out many things that the model is just better with this presentation. F.K. is made our job as NP explorer far more easier and I’m using up his model in my life and also would like to share here, to make it straight how our Wider Reality works non-physically mostly. Most experienced explorers could agree that his knowledge is for everybody and many of us are learning by it. He used to be a member on an actual spiritual site, which I won’t share, if anybody knows this man and some of the biggest sites and the Focus model from him, could find more infos there. But I will try my best to make it clear a day and tell what I know about this and what I learnt also.

F.K. is not known where he is since years, does he still alive or not, but I guess it doesn’t matter, he was one of the big ones, who just disappeared after he told to the big reading crowd on that spiritual forum site, what he could – even if as I saw seemingly not so much people gave him so much acceptance according to the fact that the vast majority is rather diving his/her head into religions and belief systems and rather believe in, what is more comfortable instead searching for evidences. If you are a believer, maybe you should stop here, or if you are enough elastic so to speak, you may change internally after understanding the model.

Be prepared that maybe you should run through a few times to understand the basics about how our reality works and how our mind as a non-physical pure consciousness operates and experiences through Focuses of consciousness.

The consciousness continuum

Everybody in their deep core is a point of pure consciousness and consciousness needs to experience.  I had once a brief talk with one of my other focuses in the NP, a man, who told me that nothing is static and it was like he told me consciousness needs to experience. Well I agree. Everybody on this planet chose to come here and do whatever he/she wanted to. Many times it is a hard thing and suffering in the end, not achieving the original goal. Many people seemingly fail according to their original plans and they continue doing their thing in Focus 3 what other’s call Afterlife.

The Focus model tells you exactly that you don’t cease to exist not just when you fall asleep or have any kind of altered state in your mind, but after death we just continue to exist in a less vibrationally dense environment there. Consciousness can’t die and never been born, it was always existing, as everybody in a deep level and as I spoke about it already, time and space is an illusion and there is no real beginning and end. People are just continue existing in the Afterlife in vast amounts and dimensions of cities, regions etc. The main problem comes when people are believing and carrying their crap there, and because it is an instant thought responsive “environment”, you will be at a place or circumstance, which still resonates with you. This is true too on serial killers and every emotionally damage persons and both on religious people, who will gravitate towards every kinds of heavens and hells until they just stop believing in an illusion and they can grow and learn further. They just bored about their beliefs later and let helpers to help them take the next step.

Focus 1 – The physical world, our world here on Planet Earth, now

It is our main stage, because our primary focus is here and now, on this planet in this actual life. We came here for a reason, most of us can’t really figure out why are they here. If you look back on your life and what was it mainly about, you may find out your true aim. You don’t need to always find a big answer about this, maybe you are here just to experience or for the joy of your consciousness’s expanding. Other’s are here to just be a big somebody or learn certain things.

Focus 1 is our main intensive focus in the physical and it is so real – the illusion seemingly – that most of the humans here just can’t imagine there is anything else beyond this little world. The physical world is just one of the countless other physical-like worlds, stemming from the non-physical, which is made by US! We made every “little” physical worlds to learn, grow, experience, play, enjoy what we could. We built the Universes, the Focus structures, we built galaxies, solar systems etc. There is no limit and our physical universe here, this one is only just one with certain rulesets and characteristics from the many.

Well we come here and we have a certain time interval to do our thing. Some people don’t survive their childhood and die in certain “diseases” and most of us are living up decades, and some people are living until their 80-100’s. Now here I need to make it clear, NOBODY is like YOU! You are unique and don’t ever try to look at yourself as a person like trying to make it a match with others or measuring yourself to others. You have your inner characteristics from which you choose throughout your life and becoming a certain person along your choices, likes and dislikes. Every choice is up to you, nobody forces you. Well I admit our family and certain given life situations do force us to do whatever we don’t want to ever, we suffer from family members, situations, idiot people, bad habits too. We have the power to imagine our life differently and act on getting out from misery. But blaming is always there, most people’s best weapon, instead of making changes deeply.

We start the physical life from initial given circumstances and we just start the game like a Sims game simulation. If you don’t know the computer game, watch some vids on Youtube about it. Our life is very similar. Now, the future is never ever set in stone, no matter people try to tell this themselves and others. This is free will, You are free to choose.
The physical time is there because you are mostly in situations and habits from which you choose badly, and you choose and choose maybe for years until you finally chose well and the test is over. You are here to learn to stay yourself, grow up on every level, keep your emotions in check and play your part in your game the best you can. You don’t need to search for huge world changing things to understand yourself in my opinion. What game? Yours. Enjoy it.

I was asking myself for decades why the hack am I here and now, and every answer is truly inside you. You should search for your habits, likes, your enjoyment in certain things, your abilities, interests and you may find your answer. Everybody is storing enough informations from the NP in the Focus 2 level to know what to do or have given informations from the “other side” to bare with certain problems. Habits are not necessarily things you born here to solve. They must be badly programmed behavours.

 

Focus 1, the physical world is an end-result!

People tend to think there is nothing more than the physical world and waiting for science and religion to give them answers which are nothing really. Science is just scratching an illusionar surface, but they have good insights many times.

But the truth is, which I guess hundreds and thousands of NP explorers could prove that the physical world is a tiny tiny tiny little fraction of the wider reality and everything comes from the non-physical world. Meaning every building, object, music song, belief construct ever dreamt up is coming from there and always came. In the physical everything is made up from energy and quantum mechanics could prove it already in a certain way. Focus 1 is an end-result.

Every manifestation here – a new car, a piece of paper, a new job – everything comes from your beliefs and thoughts, which you constantly build for days, weeks, years. Here we take many times physical action, with our body and NP mind. We are manipulating matter through matter, funny huh?

Your physical body and appearance

They are both for a certain purpose for which you chose it. The physical body is for certain projection of your inner being, an end result, your inner picture about yourself in this life. Mostly an inner image. No surprise why people try everything in diet and can’t be otherwise physically. Your mental image is the same. Body builders are taking hard action to shape their body according to their thoughts too.

This body is made mostly on genetics in the given family (you chose the family and maybe the body type too), to do your job here and now. It is for certain things, you have physical attributes and abilities and certain things are just seemingly impossible for you, until you believe that you can be a body builder or maybe much more in other interests and nothing is static. But with certain rulesets. You can’t be for example 3 meters high mostly, but you can gain some centimeters growth if you really want it in certain conditions. But of course you can’t grow back a lost body part.

Most people are indentifying themselves with their physical body and no surprise again how many people are damaging their skin tissue with solarium, damaging their teeth with unnecessary dental surgeries to look “better”, showing yourself somebody who you are not and declining yourself non-physically completely. Many play their brain for others to shine their ego. And you will continue to be a false image even in your own mind after you died. Who do you want to fool?
With this the biggest problem comes from our society, that you think you will be somebody, somebody “more” after you change your appearance, having bigger boobs, more money for unnecessary things etc. Well I agree with the famous saying, not everybody is ready and of course everybody have his/her own path. That is ok.

We are not here for being a slave, puppets of the system, to work for nothing. I accept that certain people just don’t want to do anything more and that is ok for them, I knew to much of this type in my life and we need everybody of course in different levels of the society.
We are neither here to suffer. We can change our life for better. There is plenty food, clean water, don’t hung up on fake news and brainwash.

Big global problems around the planet

Everybody is giving energy to certain tragedies and events – who took part in them even mentally. I won’t discuss this issue here about the migrants in Europe but later I understood slowly that if everybody has free will and because the world is looking like this today, people did this. To themselves, to others. Not some kind of dark powers and something to blame always – they are real but who cares? People’s consciousness (I mean loooow consciousness) does the job.
Nobody will interfere with the happenings. It is up to people globally. If people continue to give power to money, economy crashes, dictators, big companies to poison people, this will be like this forever I guess.

Reality becomes real where thought energy flows.

I know it is still a mistery to me, but natural disasters are may caused by us and some channeling materials like by Seth entity throught J.R. is telling this issue. I can’t agree fully but if we understand how thought and manifestation works, it could be very true.
Even Earth itself is a living consciousness also. We are just fleas on it’s surface.

We hurt animals, cutting off plants, thinking that those ones don’t have that kind of “huge” consciousness as we. From what people think this is the truth? Animals and plants also have consciousness, but they are not caught up by their egos and doing simpler tasks here for lesser-bigger time periods.
Remember if you hurt an animal, you hurt yourself, because we are interconnected non-physically.

This doesn’t mean that we must stop eat meat. Oh crap, I’m sorry about those who follow food and diet religions and stop eating meat and others. We need a wide variety of food to eat, don’t follow idiots. Materialism never ends up in small things. The next one will be like we should suck stones. And that is stupid if you think that if you eat only plants you don’t kill anybody… yes you are lol. But it is necessary to fuel our body.

So mainly Focus 1 is only for the game. It is seemingly real, solid and you can’t escape. Well you would be surprised, how MUCH real the non-physical. I experienced it many many times, I assure you, this is just an illusion.

If you try to learn how to project, phase, have an OBE (which is a belief construct again), you are relatively switching your focus to another mind-.reality.

 

What counts in your physical life?

Now there are many many theories and rulesets which people are made and thought out over the years mostly in spiritual forums and also we can hear this and that in personal life, chatting with people.

Your physical life is for a reason. You came here to this reality to play a game on your own. Now I know for many, it is not a good game and they suffer. But it is meant to be a good experience chain, well eventually we leave from here and coming back to the non-physical to do whatever we would like to. Don’t take the game too seriously.

I won’t share any mystical and religious concepts, I rather decline all and will. Now what I say in my blogs are coming from personal observations, experiences and from making up the bigger picture of the truth, maybe personal truth mostly about the wider reality and it’s mechanics.
So what I say here is that the most accurate thing here is that you were the one who planned your initial life here and started up. Now many people just can’t figure out why did they select a certain family or life circumstances, body type, etc. To learn and grow from them! Not the learning itself is the most required thing here, but that you are acting and experiencing here and making decisions from your heart.
You are forced to use your creative power and learning to create your reality on your own.

Right or wrong decisions

There is no right or wrong. We only learnt that in this duality world you need to make distinctions between those two, but really, it doesn’t matter. The main issue is that did you learn or gain something about a certain decision or life experience?
Did you make decision based on your fears or from your heart without fear?

Everybody have a certain compass against good and bad, we just developed our sense from birth. The other side is what your Inner non-physical self thinks is right or wrong, but that doesn’t matter. Your non-physical counterpart doesn’t judge or punish you ever, just helping you indirectly mostly – it depends on the individual and how ready to hear the helping “words”.
Your developing personality here and now, which you bring “back” to the NP is the one what counts and you are becoming it by choosing and making decisions.

Your choices are only like you are choosing another path and another one continously, as jumping to the next reality and the next, all the endless possible realities are there and you are just seemingly without any effect, going in and out of those. Now we can call it physical time, but time is really an illusion. It has a function: do you make the wrong decision over and over again for decades? You have plenty time to do it.
When you make a wrong decision, you may feel bad after that and facing it’s effects but, this reality is about one thing for sure: You are in a slowed down environment, concentrating your awareness to one certain life, to make choose and choose and choose until you learn really that you chose well finally. That’s all! Decide from your heart and on what feels good for YOU! Not anybody else!

This is Your life, and you are worthy to live it in full joy!

We can surely get life situations when people are just stepping in our personal area of life and decisions really, like our family or partners. Egoist people are everywhere, who just can’t make correct decisions and suffer from their weakness. They even start to blame you or just telling you how should you live your life. Even comes the next stage what is good or bad for you etc. Now… who the hack cares about what others are thinking about you? We do care but we should stop it.
And the sad thing, they have an effect on you, because you just subconsciously processing what they said and will have negative outcome many times. You can’t help it, you can’t help them! You need to leave them where they are and stop giving them energy. Most of the people are just stucked in a loop of endless suffering, blames and egoism with stupidism. Let them alone fast.
You can be kind to anybody and just do it, that’s ok but eventually you need to keep up a passive barrier to not get caught up on others. Just don’t let yourself influence, your life and choices are yours. You can’t live other’s lives.
You should develop a passive personality, who can maintain a balance in any part of your life, starting with your emotions.

Influence on people and Your life

Here is a personal story from me. I many times had struggle with people who just didn’t stay with their own thoughts and forcing their views and beliefs on me or on others. I guess I saw this from my birth and observed people’s behavour. Most of them are like that – they try to influence you and you can’t escape (and the worst, they don’t care). The other side is true, even in family or just with people in your life, you CAN give advices to people if they need help, need information, your knowledge, your heart BUT you can’t force them do what they should. You can’t ever live other’s life. I got many messages from the non-physical over some nights because I couldn’t understand why people just want to suffer or doesn’t want to be their own help. Like they wasting their life. And got the message that you can’t live other’s life and let them alone. I felt negativism in my feelings because I think mostly from my good heart and seeing people like that is sad. But I had self-judgement that if I don’t help, I will be somebody who is frozen against these people, because I’m good and have a certain configuration deep inside. But that is not the case. From the non-physical perspective, everybody is responsible only for their life. Another case is of course if you are with somebody or going alone is not a good thing. That is right, don’t think this over further.

No respect towards your decisions, your life and your personality?

Just don’t give a damn to those people who can accept who you are, trying to influence you, or laughing at you, not giving even a tiny respect which you deserve. Everybody encounters with these people but it is sometimes really hard to get lost from them. The worst is close relationships like mostly our family members. Your life worths more than idiot people’s influence – let them tell their opinion to themselves and let them alone.
Why should you let people blame you or let them humiliate and influence you? Your self-esteem will lower and you lose your creating power. Just stay yourself, stay strong and remember, what counts is only You, your life experiences, joy and memories, your interactions from your side towards people and nothing else. You may did your best and that’s all. This is what you are bringing further, what makes you, YOU. But eventually you are here and now a limited character so don’t make the false assumption that this is only just you. We are much more than this limited character, but our added experiences from here are what counts really. You are becoming and developing.
Once more, your character here, this body, personality is just a construct from the beginning for various purposes, and you “become” eventually.

The main thing here is that you should always make decisions on your own, even if you need secondary support from your family or friends about what decision could maybe bad, but base your thoughts on what feels good or right for you. The other side of the game’s coin here is that we live with consequences always. Starting with our thoughts which build up in our subconscious as a running program and makes effect in the physical life later. That is manifestation, a so misunderstood aspect of everybody these days. Many people are just in fear to make correct decisions, and they are just stuck. Like regular job work.

So, if you want to suffer, here you go, do it.
If you want to be happy, that’s cool, do it. That’s all, nothing complicated.
The only barrier is the one which you pull up against yourself. Your limits, mental blocks.
It is up to you to live a good life in what you feel yourself good and it is not recommended that you need to swim in money or suffer in mental pain : )