What are non-physical guides in reality?

Non-physical guides are as a label is huge topic in these decades, especially by what are they doing between worlds and in the non-physical. So much misleading stuffs are on the web and mystics are just copying themselves over and over again, just every people says the same and doesn’t care that it is only partly true and guides or helpers are just not what they are. Well humans don’t care, they like to fool themselves from weakness with them and guides may appear as angels (a belief construct again), animals (called totems lol), regular or ET people and much more, according to our expectations. Let me tell here, maybe you just don’t know what form are you using over night… not always your human form!

Now let’s see who they are and what are they doing really. My observations are in line with what the most experienced older NP explorers could find out about them too.

Who are they?

For first, the words like “guide”, “helper” are just labels but their job is mainly represented in these words, sort of. They don’t care about names and labels, WE as humans are doing it, categorizing everything in a box to understand how things work out. They don’t mind if we give them names like Jack or Anna, but for them it is just for our benefit to make the contact easier. Sometimes they choose names like mines and tell me first which was a surprise and later that they are from the same source as me.

So who are they? Well WHO knows you better than yourself (this character on Earth plane)? YOU! Your original wider essence knows you only. Your primary essence which is very badly termed as “higher self” is what I am talking about here. There is no higher of lower self like lower or higher planes, this is an old mystical crap. You have who knows how many other selves (characters just like you, just as alive as you) roaming in endless Universes and worlds. Some of them are with you watching you, helping you. Their time which is spent on you is just nothing, for their perspective, you just jumped in this world for experience or do your task.

Real people like real guides are resident in Focus 3 (Afterlife, Transition Area) and beyond, around. They are like you if you are “dead” and have a desire to help.

Types of helpers

What I found out after 2 years of exploring is that there are some main types:

  1. Your own other selves, who are very similar to you in main characteristics and telepathically they know everything about your daily life if they take a look into your mind there
  2. The second type is teachers and watchers who are in a hierarchical way maintaining your tasks and tossing you in different ways if it is needed by daytime and in the NP when you are asleep – who asked them for? You originally.
  3. the third one is not really guides, just regular strangers from the NP who may encounter with you or vica versa and you are both exchanging information
  4. There is still a 4th, those are dumb aspects in Focus 2, in your so called subconscious (own personal restricted mind area), representing different attitudes but have no real personality, you created them unconsciously mainly, They can act like a probe to do certain tasks but they are not as real as you. The difference is evident when you experience F2 and F3 and talking to “people”. In NP life (dreams) you can meet them but they are seemingly stupid or just too simple, you feel that they always lack of something which makes up a complete entity. They are constructs like beliefs.

Physical world helpers

They are friends, family, love connections, every known people in your life, who you know. Guides are not really different from this issue. It is just anybody who may help you in a certain way or just with a told sentence on a street which resonates with you. We are so many at one place, seemingly in separation but together, everybody just busy to do their life. If a friendship or any connection have blocks and seemingly over, DO NOT force to make it better! It is over for a reason, maybe both party is done.

What about your “essence”?

You are an eternal non-physical being, this is not a new age BS I swear. We are constantly jumping in and out of physical world type simulations with certain tasks to learn, experience etc. Physical worlds are supplying experiences which we can’t ever experience in the NP. Every time a new personality is generated in my best understanding (somewhere in what F.DM. said is maybe true), so reincarnation is in itself a false assumption. Reincarnation says that it happens in linear time frame (wow surprise limited brains…) but it is a BS if in the non-physical, there is no time and space. It is just a stupid idea that there is this Earth and you are in linear timeframe coming back again and again… there are vast varieties of “Earths” there (not just one planet lol). You are already living parallel lives, who knows how many as an essence’s part. Your essence’s focus is splitted into probe-like entities, who are just enjoying this game as we. Ok I admit for most people it is a suffer really but everybody will eventually learn to walk after taking baby steps and not everybody can learn all in one lifetime.

Your essence wouldn’t be so happy if it won’t experience through different probes and stay static. Consciousness needs to just experience. We all created different worlds, universes in both structures and rulesets to play the game. Not some kind of humanly thought up God… but our human perspective is limited if it is founded on this tiny little world full of brainwashing.

Helpers are for help

Guides or helpers – and because many of them are you in a wider sense – won’t force anything on you ever and don’t give you tasks which you can’t handle sooner or later. They chose to help you but as I saw those who are mainly try to solve their problems in life as me, won’t show up just like that. The best teacher won’t give you the answers for nothing self work, some of us need to work for it mentally. If you don’t do the job or you are an unexperienced spirit seemingly, you may get much more help than somebody who is enough mature already. It depends on the person’s development here and now and it doesn’t mean that the most is somewhere on low level. No, everybody is on their own level, nothing overcomplicated.

What help? Well while everybody lives their physical life, there is much more called the non-physical. The physical world is a tiny little dumb world… the NP is just ENDLESS! We are coming from there not the other way. But media and brainwashing is so effective in this world that people are just have no idea what is what, confused and it is bad really. And here are the mystics (sorry but they just don’t know what they are speaking or doing for money) who are telling so much non-sense things in readings and telling you who and what is standing next to you in a room, not knowing that they are seeing reality overlays with existing “people”. Not knowing something and only just thinking that you are right is nothing but fooling yourself and others too.
But many of them are selling you fear based services like “past life regression” (what PAST life??? what is past in a timeless structure?) and making you know and feel that  horrible or certain person was you, not even knowing that you are you, not those characters who are part of your essence. You see no idea about simultaneous time frame… If you can experience their perspective and feel that they are you as it is real, they are from the primary source as you, and it proves that you are already existing in other realities too. People who could experience this as me many times may have realised that they are not the only one.

So back to help. They are helping, rather these words like help and guide is too box minded ones. They are doing their job, making sure your original path is ok. But there are many options what can they do. If you don’t get the messages, they can use up other people to capture your attention with said words or sentences. Many people just don’t listen. Well that is their choose, free will is really real.

You are NOT alone ever

We are seemingly in separation to experience an outsider perspective here but I admit it is very hard many times, to feel alone. But the two worlds are in contact and stuffs are coming from there, not from here. The physical is an end-result in every ways as your physical body and focus. Many entities, uhm “people” are helping you in unknown ways and it is very interesting, but there are so much crap through the web that after some investigation, people could make themselves very confused about what is what and how it works.
From the guides’ perspective, if we were them, we can guide others if we choose to. No forcing there. Everybody chooses what he/she wants to do further. We can go on retrievals by nights to help out stucked spirits too, not even knowing we did that job. You can help people out from their misery which they continue after physical “death”. Nobody changes so much after finishing this “life” because they were exposed to brainwash and limiting. They continue with that same crap and maybe it is very hard to help them out from their own energy bubble. But help is always there if you need it.

If you ask for them by night or in your dreams and nobody shows up, it is for a reason! Maybe your NP development could be hindered sooner if they just show up like kind angels, fooling you. Remember, baby steps! Now not they are the ones of fooling but you! Your beliefs about what is what. A passive observation is needed to be mature in the NP with curiosity and closed emotions but the vast majority is just too immature for this task or just unable to do it.

If you managed to maybe after some years of observation meet with some other selves of you, it will be evident that you have other intelligent focuses and if they are constantly help you out, it is just showing that you need more help than somebody who learnt his/her lessons in my opinion. There is nothing wrong with help but it is like a baby constantly crying out for it’s mom to do this or that and finally she says, no! Eventually everybody needs to grow up multidimensionally to go further out the interdimensional state.

How to raise your vibration with various tools!

Are you in bad mood, or having bad days since a while? Or maybe you were always in a negative loop, wandering how to get out to feel better? The tools are there.

Good mood elevating methods are everywhere, but you need to know what is natural for yourself. If your average vibration is too low, your physical body suffers from a potential negative thinking deep inside on an ongoing basis. Nothing complicated, everything is vibrating in the Universe starting from atoms.

Music, the frequency elevater and natural healer

If you enjoy some kind of music, like pop, rock, classical etc. then you can just plug in your headphones or your speaker and enjoy it. Take time for yourself daily a few times to get rid of negative thoughts and behavour. Music in itself is a natural healer. If you try to experiment with various volume strengths, you may dive into the songs/tracks and melt in the feeling. It is very useful if you are very emphatic and feel the singer’s feelings and the melody’s effects like me and you may start to vibrate slightly.

Music can help in healing from illnesses or mental stress. What it does is, when you are flowing with your most beautiful tracks, your body’s frequency starts to tune up to higher levels and this way more NP abilities are opening up, especially self-healing.
In the end, you get good mood, no stress, happiness from the repeated effect. Just try it and keep it up mostly if you can.

Maybe laugh is your favourite

Laughing is diminishing stress naturally and keeping you in the joy of life. My best method is to make friends laugh and known people or maybe strangers too to laugh. Maybe I didn’t say a good joke or just told some funny thing, maybe only a gesture. My perspective is not for myself to laugh, but both parties from a natural ability so to speak. I enjoy doing this to others if the effect is positive! It can help if you managed to laugh on yourself too. Don’t give a damn to people and don’t take life so seriously, enjoy it in the moment, learn to laugh it off.

Play a game!

If you like PC games or any other non-electronic solutions, try to imagine right now, what kind of game was your favourite when you felt yourself in joy. That is the one which you need. You can play any kinds of games.

Make a trip to a favourite place or just enjoy a chat with a friend

Maybe you have places to visit when you have time for them – time for yourself. Nice places may make good times also as friends. They are both for detach from the crap we experience almost daily and just not pay any attention, appreciate them!
Friends are coming and going in our life but if it is a useful friendship on both sides, it can make miracles when we (and they) need some help. Friends, good family members and loved ones are there to help each other to get rid of bad events too and guide themselves. Well not every family is actually supporting or containing positive members.

Eat some sweet or whatever you enjoy

Here I’m just mentioning sweets and chocolates which are proven to release endorphin and you may feel a little bit happiness only from eating a chocolate bar alone. It could help a lot. Don’t feel guilty eating it in moderation, the effect here is beneficial!

Enjoy nature

If you are that type who can enjoy nature outside, just go for a ride on your bike, take a jog nearby, walk an hour and listen to nature. Look around you, how the sunshine reflects on water or dances in colors, look around if you are at places of trees with nice vibrant colors, any plants nearby. If you can spot natural animals around, watch them. Detach from negativism and notice what we have. The daily sunshine in itself can change us in many ways, starting from absorbing Vitamin D and healing rays, also maybe you are that type who enjoys nightly walks/jogging. Silence in itself in suburban areas can make a good effect too.

Good mood elevation for higher frequency

Well this one comes from various methods like above. Those are just tools, but any tools are given to not get into a negative spiral in your life. If you lost your actual plan to do something in your life, get find one. It just don’t need to be a big aim and our time here and now is seemingly endless when we live in the now, but also it seems like running away many times.

The whole issue here is that your actual vibrating rate – the non-physical one – is pretty low and you need to raise it by doing something or changing your thinking throughout your day. Many people who are mentally ill or have various physical diseases are caused by their own repeated negative thoughts and destroying their physical body, which is the vehicle to experience their life here and now. Don’t try to understand ever why people are hurting themselves, just don’t, you don’t want to let you dragged down! I know for sure it could be very struggling to shake ourselves back to the positive side after some negative life events and situations, but nobody may do it for us.

Life is a game. Ok not for all but we can enjoy it if we really would like to. Find your positive side and enjoy it fully. Don’t give any attention to the negative ones. It could be very hard not to but energy goes where our thoughts are flowing and becomes our reality over “time”. Do you want to remember your negative life or the positive one at the end?

Why we lose our friends over time?

Friends are very useful on both sides of a friendship and we are pleased to meet nice people over our decades here on Earth. Some people have best friends or many many pals, but friends are only guides as those non-physical ones are in the NP.

Why you have so much pals?

The answer will be a little bit harsh but because you can’t enjoy yourself alone and don’t want to maybe. You didn’t accept yourself fully ever and can’t give so much love towards others AFTER yourself. People like to defend themselves that they just enjoy being with friends but they are really just pals, maybe you can count on them, but not on their help mostly. And being antisocial is not this one, only a label. Antisocial means, he/she can’t fit in the actual society.

Friends and pals are two categories. We have maybe a few true friends in life, but we could have dozens of pals, who are only for playing with something, going to chat sometimes, do things in crowds, places etc. Pals are like you just can’t stay alone on your butt, like people are running away from themselves. I knew just many many people in my life and never understood this attitude until I realised what this is all about non-physically. You meet people, it is unavoidable here on this planet normally. You make pals and friendships but they are rarely for a lifetime and if it is, it serves a purpose to both parties. Pals are only for having some people in your bubble to feel yourself comfortable. Some people are just highly egoistic and they are shining their egos with the dozens of different pals, so called “friends” and can’t really realise that they are doing this because they just have a huge ego and trying to prove that they are right in just everything – even if they are not. These people are just shaking hands and saying hello to just everybody, which is sucks if you see this first hand. I know and knew many of these too, it was interesting to notice these behavours.

Why you have friends?

Friends are the best connections in life besides of relationships with love. We certainly need them at some point or forever. We need help sometimes, we need to have some fun with somebody, we just need to talk to somebody who will hear our words and may help. Well my friendship were only right on my side after the initial years in many cases, I never understood it in the recent years. Some of them were lasting for 10-15 years, it was good and suddenly they just disappeared, huge blocks came out of nowhere and I just didn’t have any idea what happened to those people that they are acting differently.
So friends are absolutely good, we are guiding each other through life until the connection doesn’t serve the original purpose anymore. That hurts surely but we should leave them alone and vica versa. Don’t forget, we are experiencing here, this is just a seeminly real game.

What causes to lose strong connections?

Well before I started to learn about self-development (before that I did it from birth) in the non-physical and between the two worlds, I had no idea why it is necessary to lose good friends. I mean really really good ones. Some of them are lasted for some weeks for me, but everybody experiences this phenomena. Until later I learnt that friends are only for a certain purpose. If you deeply don’t need them, chances are, you will be very much ok on your own like me. I guess that is a deep spiritual achievement to reach. I was partly always this type and I like it.

So friends and pals are acting here like non-physical guides in the NP. They serve a purpose: learn and grow, plus support. This is given to both sides of course. When you experience an almost sudden block in your relationships, two choices are given. You try to talk that out, or just leave that one alone. No other ways. Don’t try to even force your relationship to heal itself by arguing, you will suffer.
What happened is, you just outgrow that relationship and you are away ahead spiritually/non-physically on your own way. That’s all. You are on another track. The vast majority is just stagnating or slowly moving upwards on their own ladder.

By the way I noticed that the most just can’t really appreciate a friendship. Like no emotions or anything. They don’t even know what it means the verb “friend” means. Very strange, but that is true. People are just deeply in their butt in physical life, trying to work for nothing and chasing materialism.

Love relationships

That is almost the same, but with another strong aspect, love and relying on each other, making compromises/consensus between each other, experiencing the deepest non-physical forces, maybe having kids. We should admit, not every love relationships are lasting until elderly age, just a very very few. True love is not experienced in the vast majority, it is just a fashion to many. But if ture love and your perfect partner is given, you may experience it for only a few years. It was meant only to experience it, enjoy it and don’t try to understand a deeper meaning! One of the best things in life in my opinion to find somebody with whom you will be in the clouds seemingly forever. If it lasts for decades or until death, it’s better for some, but don’t ever try to follow her/him and suffer because the connection is seemingly gone – it is on another level.

Friends like non-physical guides

Some are there for your help, some are there for giving you protection in heavy moments in life indirectly, but they are there for a purpose and moving away on their tasks and interests further when they finished. We are doing the same. In a nutshell. Very similar to physical life friendships.

But keep it in mind, we came alone here to this life simulation, we are going back to the non-physical with a pack of tricks (R.M.) and we need to let other’s go on their own way of course. It was fun and good when those lasted of course, we guard those pretty memories forever and added to our experiences and inner being. Enjoy these connections until they are gone.

When You are in a negative spiral in life

Shit happens let’s be straight, with almost everybody. We are living a human life simulation, with other humans interacting with each other. Most of the time it is embarassing and stressful to just swallow other people’s controlling opinions and their blames all the time. Job life does it’s “job” to pull you down, also toxic family members are doing well their job.

How can you get out of the neg spiral?

The best way is to just get as far away as you can as soon as possible from the source of negativism and bad people. The vast majority are just blaming, sucking your energy and don’t let you think about your positive thoughts in your personal life and they just doesn’t care. People are just what they are and everybody is on their own steps of evolution. They won’t stop their misery – why should they stop their way of thinking, which they are constantly giving thought since maybe years or decades, huh?

If you are a work/job type, it is fine, you can switch to another job anytime if you wish. That is a huge fake thing when people are complaining, you can’t. Like you can’t find another one, there isn’t any… well their thoughts are creating their reality if they give enough energy, but You are not them! You have the options to switch to something which may serve your life better than the previous crap, which just slowly kills you emotionally. People are just dragging in their little box world all the way.
There is the saying that you can’t make people change in their behavour or whatever they should in our viewpoint. They won’t and don’t want to change – we should leave them alone fast.

The first step is given, start to work your way out of the crap and remember that your thoughts are building your probable future. Believe in yourself and know that you are not alone and many people could do it in similar situations.
The same goes on relationships and family issues.
If your friend or love is not a friendship or love anymore, just stop pulling yourself down constantly to their level. You have better things to do. New potential friends are always there on your actual level and you can find somebody in love later too if you wish for. The main key here is intention. Energy goes where your thoughts are.

Intention – the main energy flow

If you have the intention about getting out a negative spiral or out from negative people’s crowd like workmates, friends, family etc… than you should focus on whatever you want and not what you don’t want. That is the main difference. Your probable future goes wherever your thought energy is given, keep it in mind, test it, play with it.

It takes time I admit (a real pain in the butt), I had a mentally and emotionally toxic job experience too not so long ago, which went on months until I made (with some friendly help) make myself KNOW and believe that nobody could keep me there and I can go away. I just hated it and it went against my own rules about making a passive income somehow, but family issues went against my plans “again”. My collagues were always in misery, blaming, complaining – forgetting that they chose their job, not me and they also accepted the rules. This is a classical sign of working people and the number of people who are actually ok with their jobs is much less, like 1 out of 20. You don’t need to suffer in your life because this. Maybe it was a bad decision, but the world is always giving you better opportunities. By the way who the hack needs all of this?

Start in Yourself, deep inside first!

For first, just close your eyes, and close out any distractions (called meditation) and try to observe your thoughts. You may realise that your thoughts are based on fear and suffering from situations on which you don’t have any influence and can’t do anything. If you don’t have influence on people or similars, STOP giving thought energy on them. I know this issue too sure from various aspects of my life.
If you found your problems deep inside, you will have the solution soon. You must get away far from negative aspects of your life, rather convert them into positive feelings and formulate a little plan to solve the problem. This is not escapism, this is changing your life for better!

If it is work, there will be other opportunities, trust yourself.
Changing work life to independency is also a process, it takes time and effort to step from one into another smoothly.
If it is relationship, they are toxic and not serving the original purpose for both sides anymore, stop fueling them. You hurt yourself!
If it is family, well it could be harder because of the stronger relationship – stop fueling them either. We can’t make people change, don’t try it! Get away after you made sure yourself, you tried your best. An action plan is needed only for quit.

Remember back whenever you felt yourself well, in joy. Search back of those feelings and what caused them. You must learn to enjoy yourself on your own, not depending on other people. This is not egoism, this is being your true being and giving out your joy, making people better around you, better in looking with their heart.
You should learn to not depend on other’s love and kindness. You can give it too! Practice with it.

Trust yourself, stay in balance and don’t let other’s to influence you ever. They are just regular people, they will pull in their types.
You are here to live your life in joy, not in self-destruction!