Now there are many many theories and rulesets which people are made and thought out over the years mostly in spiritual forums and also we can hear this and that in personal life, chatting with people.
Your physical life is for a reason. You came here to this reality to play a game on your own. Now I know for many, it is not a good game and they suffer. But it is meant to be a good experience chain, well eventually we leave from here and coming back to the non-physical to do whatever we would like to. Don’t take the game too seriously.
I won’t share any mystical and religious concepts, I rather decline all and will. Now what I say in my blogs are coming from personal observations, experiences and from making up the bigger picture of the truth, maybe personal truth mostly about the wider reality and it’s mechanics.
So what I say here is that the most accurate thing here is that you were the one who planned your initial life here and started up. Now many people just can’t figure out why did they select a certain family or life circumstances, body type, etc. To learn and grow from them! Not the learning itself is the most required thing here, but that you are acting and experiencing here and making decisions from your heart.
You are forced to use your creative power and learning to create your reality on your own.
Right or wrong decisions
There is no right or wrong. We only learnt that in this duality world you need to make distinctions between those two, but really, it doesn’t matter. The main issue is that did you learn or gain something about a certain decision or life experience?
Did you make decision based on your fears or from your heart without fear?
Everybody have a certain compass against good and bad, we just developed our sense from birth. The other side is what your Inner non-physical self thinks is right or wrong, but that doesn’t matter. Your non-physical counterpart doesn’t judge or punish you ever, just helping you indirectly mostly – it depends on the individual and how ready to hear the helping “words”.
Your developing personality here and now, which you bring “back” to the NP is the one what counts and you are becoming it by choosing and making decisions.
Your choices are only like you are choosing another path and another one continously, as jumping to the next reality and the next, all the endless possible realities are there and you are just seemingly without any effect, going in and out of those. Now we can call it physical time, but time is really an illusion. It has a function: do you make the wrong decision over and over again for decades? You have plenty time to do it.
When you make a wrong decision, you may feel bad after that and facing it’s effects but, this reality is about one thing for sure: You are in a slowed down environment, concentrating your awareness to one certain life, to make choose and choose and choose until you learn really that you chose well finally. That’s all! Decide from your heart and on what feels good for YOU! Not anybody else!
This is Your life, and you are worthy to live it in full joy!
We can surely get life situations when people are just stepping in our personal area of life and decisions really, like our family or partners. Egoist people are everywhere, who just can’t make correct decisions and suffer from their weakness. They even start to blame you or just telling you how should you live your life. Even comes the next stage what is good or bad for you etc. Now… who the hack cares about what others are thinking about you? We do care but we should stop it.
And the sad thing, they have an effect on you, because you just subconsciously processing what they said and will have negative outcome many times. You can’t help it, you can’t help them! You need to leave them where they are and stop giving them energy. Most of the people are just stucked in a loop of endless suffering, blames and egoism with stupidism. Let them alone fast.
You can be kind to anybody and just do it, that’s ok but eventually you need to keep up a passive barrier to not get caught up on others. Just don’t let yourself influence, your life and choices are yours. You can’t live other’s lives.
You should develop a passive personality, who can maintain a balance in any part of your life, starting with your emotions.
Influence on people and Your life
Here is a personal story from me. I many times had struggle with people who just didn’t stay with their own thoughts and forcing their views and beliefs on me or on others. I guess I saw this from my birth and observed people’s behavour. Most of them are like that – they try to influence you and you can’t escape (and the worst, they don’t care). The other side is true, even in family or just with people in your life, you CAN give advices to people if they need help, need information, your knowledge, your heart BUT you can’t force them do what they should. You can’t ever live other’s life. I got many messages from the non-physical over some nights because I couldn’t understand why people just want to suffer or doesn’t want to be their own help. Like they wasting their life. And got the message that you can’t live other’s life and let them alone. I felt negativism in my feelings because I think mostly from my good heart and seeing people like that is sad. But I had self-judgement that if I don’t help, I will be somebody who is frozen against these people, because I’m good and have a certain configuration deep inside. But that is not the case. From the non-physical perspective, everybody is responsible only for their life. Another case is of course if you are with somebody or going alone is not a good thing. That is right, don’t think this over further.
No respect towards your decisions, your life and your personality?
Just don’t give a damn to those people who can accept who you are, trying to influence you, or laughing at you, not giving even a tiny respect which you deserve. Everybody encounters with these people but it is sometimes really hard to get lost from them. The worst is close relationships like mostly our family members. Your life worths more than idiot people’s influence – let them tell their opinion to themselves and let them alone.
Why should you let people blame you or let them humiliate and influence you? Your self-esteem will lower and you lose your creating power. Just stay yourself, stay strong and remember, what counts is only You, your life experiences, joy and memories, your interactions from your side towards people and nothing else. You may did your best and that’s all. This is what you are bringing further, what makes you, YOU. But eventually you are here and now a limited character so don’t make the false assumption that this is only just you. We are much more than this limited character, but our added experiences from here are what counts really. You are becoming and developing.
Once more, your character here, this body, personality is just a construct from the beginning for various purposes, and you “become” eventually.
The main thing here is that you should always make decisions on your own, even if you need secondary support from your family or friends about what decision could maybe bad, but base your thoughts on what feels good or right for you. The other side of the game’s coin here is that we live with consequences always. Starting with our thoughts which build up in our subconscious as a running program and makes effect in the physical life later. That is manifestation, a so misunderstood aspect of everybody these days. Many people are just in fear to make correct decisions, and they are just stuck. Like regular job work.
So, if you want to suffer, here you go, do it.
If you want to be happy, that’s cool, do it. That’s all, nothing complicated.
The only barrier is the one which you pull up against yourself. Your limits, mental blocks.
It is up to you to live a good life in what you feel yourself good and it is not recommended that you need to swim in money or suffer in mental pain : )