When You are in a negative spiral in life

Shit happens let’s be straight, with almost everybody. We are living a human life simulation, with other humans interacting with each other. Most of the time it is embarassing and stressful to just swallow other people’s controlling opinions and their blames all the time. Job life does it’s “job” to pull you down, also toxic family members are doing well their job.

How can you get out of the neg spiral?

The best way is to just get as far away as you can as soon as possible from the source of negativism and bad people. The vast majority are just blaming, sucking your energy and don’t let you think about your positive thoughts in your personal life and they just doesn’t care. People are just what they are and everybody is on their own steps of evolution. They won’t stop their misery – why should they stop their way of thinking, which they are constantly giving thought since maybe years or decades, huh?

If you are a work/job type, it is fine, you can switch to another job anytime if you wish. That is a huge fake thing when people are complaining, you can’t. Like you can’t find another one, there isn’t any… well their thoughts are creating their reality if they give enough energy, but You are not them! You have the options to switch to something which may serve your life better than the previous crap, which just slowly kills you emotionally. People are just dragging in their little box world all the way.
There is the saying that you can’t make people change in their behavour or whatever they should in our viewpoint. They won’t and don’t want to change – we should leave them alone fast.

The first step is given, start to work your way out of the crap and remember that your thoughts are building your probable future. Believe in yourself and know that you are not alone and many people could do it in similar situations.
The same goes on relationships and family issues.
If your friend or love is not a friendship or love anymore, just stop pulling yourself down constantly to their level. You have better things to do. New potential friends are always there on your actual level and you can find somebody in love later too if you wish for. The main key here is intention. Energy goes where your thoughts are.

Intention – the main energy flow

If you have the intention about getting out a negative spiral or out from negative people’s crowd like workmates, friends, family etc… than you should focus on whatever you want and not what you don’t want. That is the main difference. Your probable future goes wherever your thought energy is given, keep it in mind, test it, play with it.

It takes time I admit (a real pain in the butt), I had a mentally and emotionally toxic job experience too not so long ago, which went on months until I made (with some friendly help) make myself KNOW and believe that nobody could keep me there and I can go away. I just hated it and it went against my own rules about making a passive income somehow, but family issues went against my plans “again”. My collagues were always in misery, blaming, complaining – forgetting that they chose their job, not me and they also accepted the rules. This is a classical sign of working people and the number of people who are actually ok with their jobs is much less, like 1 out of 20. You don’t need to suffer in your life because this. Maybe it was a bad decision, but the world is always giving you better opportunities. By the way who the hack needs all of this?

Start in Yourself, deep inside first!

For first, just close your eyes, and close out any distractions (called meditation) and try to observe your thoughts. You may realise that your thoughts are based on fear and suffering from situations on which you don’t have any influence and can’t do anything. If you don’t have influence on people or similars, STOP giving thought energy on them. I know this issue too sure from various aspects of my life.
If you found your problems deep inside, you will have the solution soon. You must get away far from negative aspects of your life, rather convert them into positive feelings and formulate a little plan to solve the problem. This is not escapism, this is changing your life for better!

If it is work, there will be other opportunities, trust yourself.
Changing work life to independency is also a process, it takes time and effort to step from one into another smoothly.
If it is relationship, they are toxic and not serving the original purpose for both sides anymore, stop fueling them. You hurt yourself!
If it is family, well it could be harder because of the stronger relationship – stop fueling them either. We can’t make people change, don’t try it! Get away after you made sure yourself, you tried your best. An action plan is needed only for quit.

Remember back whenever you felt yourself well, in joy. Search back of those feelings and what caused them. You must learn to enjoy yourself on your own, not depending on other people. This is not egoism, this is being your true being and giving out your joy, making people better around you, better in looking with their heart.
You should learn to not depend on other’s love and kindness. You can give it too! Practice with it.

Trust yourself, stay in balance and don’t let other’s to influence you ever. They are just regular people, they will pull in their types.
You are here to live your life in joy, not in self-destruction!

The illusion of Birth and Death

For the game here and in every physical-like worlds, we on a higher perspective, made a construct to enter to a given world at a certain timescale and exit, when the game is ended. Now we can’t happen to just exist on a physical planet, it would ruin the whole game, just as we can’t just live forever, it would have no use and also could ruin the game. This is the illusion of life.

You are born here at certain race, certain body, characteristics and form initial possibilities, you are free to chose your path and whatever you believe. Nobody forces you, and your circumstances are what you may chose for grow. You can blame other’s about your misery, but you are there for a reason and you need to understand it – not anybody else’s job.
From birth, we need to develop physically and learn to function in this world, so we can become according our beliefs and choices. Social conditioning does the job really, developing brainwashed people and building up unnecessary mental blocks, which later serves the purpose of billions of people’s struggling.

You are living always in the moment and while you are living a seemingly real life, you are closer to the end game. At death you are exiting, or rather switching focus to go back where you came from and everybody else. There you got back your full awareness of your inner being and you are free to do whatever you want to.

Why older people are just always have some diseases? Even young people?

Diesases are nothing more than a byproduct, or rather a projection of your mental state and beliefs.

Just ask everybody, your family members (you rather already know it, the cause), friends, known people, why are they ill, have cancer, certain types of diseases?
Now, many people don’t select various illnesses consciously. Most of diseases and illnesses coming from subconscious programming. Many people try to end their lives but in decades (well I never understood this, why so slow…). Most of them are from the circle of people thinking, when they reached pension around 60+, they lost their life, their purpose and it is over, a slowly degrading life, feeling they are unworthy. Their body is already old and unhealthy. They heat this issue further with more subconscious thinking in the background, giving negative thinking more power. Or just believe in what others saying about illnesses and “you can’t cure it” stuffs. BS, people could heal themselves many times from their misery, like cancer, too – the only needed issue here is changing your thinking and solving mental issues. The physical body should be in perfect health any time. You just need to observe your beliefs and find the best diet for your body.

Illnesses and diseases are also tools for the physical game.
It would be just boring, dying in oldness without anything for many. Most of the people are experiencing the exit in this way, as their NP counterpart experiences it too. Not a tragedy, just experience and growing from it. Ok I admit, I guess many people are not learning even a thing from their own self-created mind acts. I know too many people about this issue. They don’t care, they don’t even know what will come. Surprise what religion does? People don’t know a thing from brainwashing and just don’t want to, that’s sad!

What happens in the “Afterlife”?

I have bad news and good ones too here. Your willingness to be open and don’t accept just religions, group constructs like a vastly naive human, could make your way easier.

The good news are, if you are relatively free from beliefs, you end up in the non-physical with much less struggle and if you are also intelligent, you could navigate easily there, and not stucked in any wrong places. Forget the Hell construct, if you’re not believing in it, it won’t happen.

The Afterlife (human) is full of regions, which are since a while had a label, the so called Belief System Territories (BST). They exist, I saw many NP cities, people are just living physical like life there too, don’t even have the slightest idea that they are “dead”, or on other words non-physical. People just die and end up in different regions, according to their beliefs and likes. You are relatively free to go, but you are addicted, most of us are. You are not experienced eating enough sugar, having kids, having a soul mate, having business, seeing a country, trying out certain hobbies… surprise, you will soon plan another life to jump back to a certain Earth simulation and do whatever you wish. YOU are deciding your next physical life, nobody else. Now this is much hard to understand because you are a community of personalities and you are already living your other lives simultaneously, I will make another post on this.
But it is obvious, the vast majority just losing their conscious connection to their source.

The bad thing is that most of the humanity is attached to beliefs and religions. They are just not ready to experience everything else. They end up on the most resonating “places” and staying there for who knows how much time. Now time is nothing there, but there are in scale vast problems what people could continue to experience after they exit from here.
Let me take an example here. There are people in this world, who believe, there is nothing after death, you are just in the nothingness, you cease to exist – why should you cease to exist? And some of them end up floating in the transition zone of 3D Void and just wait, and still blaming themselves, “I told myself, I knew it”. And NP people can help you get out, but it is up to you. But on the other hand some of them end up in different healing facilities. Beliefs, beliefs, beliefs + emotions. That’s it!
Others are teleporting out to a different dimensions which is still simulating their last known life situation when they were killed or had some other life threatening issue, and they are in an energy bubble, repeating the same situation for eternity until somebody blows up their energy block and help him/her get out and realise, they are creating their own problem.

Transition Zone

We made a construct in a wider reality to experience the return to our true home to the NP world. We made human constructs to enter certain places, facilities and there you are healed emotionally, mentally, whatever. It is for traumas and repeating issues in yourself to help you get over your non-existent problems and stop taking Earth life previously seriously.

After the Transition, you are leaded to these places and they are real, so much people noted back and made diaries about these places that they saw people are getting there. Now age here is not important, many people are having an age image around their 30’s but others just using a child’s image. Your physical appearance is only just a self image, nothing more. But humans are just hung upon their physical body and can’t let it go, sad really. They think they are that person, that body!
There is the old saying, which older people are used to say, if I was old, and will die, I will be the wise. Why should a completely idiot man/woman should be wise if he never was? Comeon, self trickery again. I knew to much people in my life already who thought that they are wise, one of them is around 70. Who do you want to fool?

People are so there to shake off bad emotions, and mostly beliefs. It is a hard one, beliefs are creating our reality in both sides. Emotions are the other ones, people when they dream just release all the emotions in the next Focus state called Dreamworld and just living up all their likes or bad emotions, fears and having bad dreams.

If You can’t control your motions and beliefs in your waking life, chances are, you will have struggling in the non-physical too and never get further than the massive amount of people there. I mean maybe quadrillions of them, just many, nobody knows the number and this is only our local system of humans. Non-physical exploring needs a certain type of emotional balance, passive but curious mindstate and no fear. Fear is just coming from yourself, the unknown which you don’t want to face or solve.

There is nothing to fear, especially of death. You will be cared of by other spirits, saying this without any religious BS. But eventually there, You are the only one who judges yourself – in any perspective. Love yourself more day by day.