Tragedies and problems – dealing and benefiting from them

Tragedies and problems are finding us time to time and people basically have no idea what can somebody benefit from them? Regular people only seeing the personal loss or anything which is casued by some kind of bad event or maybe a car accident, a death of a loved one, or just a really bad grade in school etc. But smaller tragedies can happen too.

Over my researches I found an interesting viewpoint about how to deal with personal tragedies and how can we benefit from those experiences. It seems very very simple from the subjective non-physical side, which includes a basic thing – our personal spiritual development in this aspect. Of course it is harder than said but it worths the try. Keep balance always in your decisions. And remember, our life is only a facade of a bigger play theme – each individual is stepping in their own path with their choices.

Ok, here you go: the only solution is -how you are dealing with tragedies, problems and many negative life experiences. How you deal with it, that’s all, how you make a solution, how you benefit from it, even if it is a huge tragedy, how you make a smart reaction which will benefit your inner growth in a positive way.
Why? Well we are on a training gound where we are learning constantly and developing – I admit it seem like the most are not even developing anywhere as billions are sleepwalking and indoctrinated but everybody does their job in physical life to slowly or faster but gain knowledge and have life experiences.

To get it short, dealing is one thing but dealing on a way that you are crashing yourself down in a personal loop of negativism and tragedy is not a good idea. The problem solving here means that you let go of bad things in your life, let go the negativity, bad people and bad relationships. Let go and close down those episodes in your life. This way you will only live in the famous present moment and don’t give away any energy towards a past which you can’t change (only your thinking) and also stop worrying on the future which is probable and you will only cause trouble of your thinking. Worry doesn’t solve anything, right?

Even if a relative died or somebody had broken up a connection with us, maybe our car crashed, it is sad and could make people broken in spirit. Don’t let it smash you down. Life is going forward even if people tend to cling on a moment which causing them degrade over years and decades for no reason. We need to let go those bad events in our life, acknowledge them as they happened, we can’t change them, look into the present moment and try to be yourself. You are unique and this way nobody can of course tell you how to live and what to like/dislike, which this society also forgot.

Benefiting: we can gain knowledge from anything, it is only a matter of perception on every sides. You may ask, ok how a handicapped somebody could deal with or benefit from his/her position in a wheelchair for example. How can his/her mother/father/any relative who takes care of him/her benefit and grow from this situation. The only thing here is the viewpoint, how we deal with it, how we accept the situation and do our best. The handicapped person is in his/her little Universe and dealing with his/her bad situation as best as he/she can and when his/her life is finished for this physical life time, this knowledge will be added to the non-physical, to share this circumstance with others. Those who were dealing with him/her, they will also grow from their perspective and learn some understanding of these situations which they – in normal life where people have perfect health condition – may not encounter with such a “trap” for their loved ones. It may be for a reason. Look at the non-physical side: entities (ok we can call them “people”) are constantly gaining knowledge from those who were brave enough to jump in a physical life and deal with the consequences of their choices. Most people won’t ever accept the consequences of their stupid behavour and we all know such people.

Tragedy is only existing in a dualistic world like our physical one here and now and we tend to get it very seriously. But on the other hand/side, we are gaining deeper understanding of these events in our life, which we may not really aware right now or it will be obvious after some years/decades. It is like when spiritual people are spreading that there is no right or wrong. I agree on this but because everything is just experience in a continuous chain of events for consciousness (You, Me, everybody) and we are our source consciousness’ focuses, using a human body right now.
Tragedies are always look like that because our society has categories and attached meaning for just everything. We grew up surely knowing what is what but they are unnecessary limits.

Dealing with problems are like keeping balance, mentioned above. We tend to just make decisions on our feelings but that is the worst thing to do. Thoughts are generating feelings, so we need to check our thoughts first and track back their causes. If we tend to practice mindful reactions, we can surely benefit from our bigger life events in any way, not just crashing off in misery.
Always take into consideration: why that event happened to You? How you will solve this problem or loss and get over to look ahead and stay yourself?

I hope I could help.

Why do people lie all the time?

Recently I made a big research about making a living about blogging and found out something which did not surprise me at all – ok just partly. I knew already and it is a big life lesson for just anybody, that people are lieing to you – just anybody. You can only trust yourself and don’t give credit to just anybody. Even if you have a good friend, years may pass by until you have relatively full trust in him/her. This whole issue is experienced by just anybody in real life so I guess it is not really new.

Why just everybody lie to you?

I mostly try to gather the actual main sources of lies in our society to show that it is not just one issue and I guess many encounter this phenomena and don’t understand people.

People are and will always lie to you because of their nature and fears, which the actual society indoctrinated in them. Many are doing it for money, to get more out of people surely, but some are only doing it from defending themselves and their ego. The other part comes. We can’t really judge others of course according to this nature but I realized that third world countries are doing this in a vast scale: anybody anywhere try to fool you in just anything. Money is a central “god” to the most and they can’t let it go. Why should they? If you can’t beat it, join it right?

I’ve been always disappointed in humanity. Almost everybody is blinded by materialism and do everything from personal gain, like no empathy and good feelings towards others from their own being would be an issue. They lie from fear, they lie from the lack of money and fooling others to make personal gain from naive people. If you need a real help in life from friends and family, you will be declined and forced to think about that this sibject is something which people are afraid of highly. If you need money because you have financial issues, it is two-folded: you are forced to ask a friend, a family member, they may help but mostly they won’t and many people face this. If money is the subject, everybody fears their butt and friends are showing their real faces! OR you will get money for once in a while but this whole thing teaches you something in life: first you don’t understand how you create your own reality and how your problems came from the lack of money and secondly, you are facing towards the worst solution. Don’t ever depend on other’s.

The list goes on and on from basic lies from the biggest scams all around the world. The basic thing comes down to this: people lie because they don’t want to solve their problems, fears and don’t want to develop deeply to become better in any ways. They lie mostly themselves and just don’t even realize it. People fall in scam traps (one party fools the naive one), in fear machines, they try to get by with money, a non-existent paying something. Almost everybody tries to think in money terms and they are slaves of it. It is relatively the same as working for others. People are just selling their soul. And because humans are doing this on an endless scale, big crowds of course, the other side who own companies and give jobs have the power to work people for almost nothing in return. The most are so weak, that not just they don’t understand their own reality, nature and the world around them but they don’t want to do anything useful. They lack of personal skills or don’t want to use them. How should this world turn around to a better place if billions are just don’t give damn? People are ignorant, lack of emotions and empathy and following each other or a religion.

When you read seemingly useful blogs and sites about seemingly helpful ideas, datas and “facts”

This topic is only just one from the vast but nothing new here, only the tools and facade is different and people are lieing you in creative ways. Relatively, you just run through with excitement and while you try to catch the main infos out of the actual context, you just can’t find any useful information from the big textwalls. There is nothing really useful in what people are making for the masses to “help”. That is really frustrating. You kill in time to read about something which will answer your questions and you run through and really… nothing interesting. This is not about me, it is about others. I know what I’m doing.
People are doing this all the time. Writing big text walls about nothing, speaking hours and hours on youtube about NOTHING! I’m still amazed about this. And why? Because people need it, they need empty discussions and entertainment in every form and they are so bored and unable to function in this world that they are willing to pay also for these types of time kicking things. People need empty words, like religions (wow this word again, huh? No surprise!).

The smarter side takes advantage of this. People are ignorant and selfish if they look at others like payment machines. Most of humans are way underdeveloped spiritually, they even don’t have any empathy towards others or even animals and plants, which also have souls. They don’t care about what they did to others but they are not so smart to see the gathering end results of their actions. Everybody pays from their mistakes, somebody a small price because he/she was fooling others, some are paying bigger. If they won’t they are paying with their underdevelopment. In other words, you are not developing anywhere. We are here and now to experience as pure consciousness from a 100% subjective world and this alone what people are doing not really useful to anybody. But we can learn from other’s mistakes surely, that is the good side of this.

People are irresponsible about their acts and the consequencies

So people will do just anything to get your money, they will show facts and numbers. Ok this alone is true for some certain industries and groups but there is nothing new under the Sun. I had fooled also with a popular internet domain scam so I had my share about this – the funny side is that it was so logical that I was fooled, amazing. These people have just no conscience deep inside. Everybody thinks this life is the only, we should fast make money and don’t care about others. And you know what? Always the naive, newbie, good hearted people sucks with this eventually (to just say some categories). This is the same like a car crash, always the idiot insane somebody causes the problem who is irresponsible towards others and while he/she survives without injury, others are dead.
The main issue is that the most is brainwashed and believes what the few says them through media, education (useless) and various sources like religions (which made by man also) and think that we are living now (relatively true but not in this way) and we need to do no matter what to achieve our soulless materialistic meaningless goals, from which people are also unhappy. Big car, big house, millions in your bank account? That’s is so human. Nobody will ever carry their unnecessary material shit to the non-physical back – ALSO they will continue act like this and stuck in huge loops of self-created hells there. Both the physical and ENDLESS non-physical multiverse are training grounds for the spirit to learn the biggest lessons, that this WHOLE stuff, everything is an illusion, a tool to develop.

Is money more important for You than the fact that with your attitude, other people are made fool? I’m not asking this directly, sorry for that.

Most of people are just simple

In this world, we try to get by with different tools and methods to live our life freely or whatever we would like to. But many are just copying each other in just everything and trying to do just anything for money which is only in their mind. We can call less developed people “primitive” and we tend to label them but the turth is they are just simple. And there is a saying in my country, poor man cooks with water (something like that in english). Simple spirits will try to think and act in this environment with their tools alone and every world is for various entities, nobody is equal because nobody is on the same development level. We come from a similar source, but we develop individuality here. The main lesson is realize that separation is an illusion and that other worlds are just a thought ahead.

Simple people are grabbing simple tools to survive this world. They follow each other or a main person – no wonder how religions are formed all the time. It is much easier to accept something which seems to be more powerful than them, but this way they just decline and give away power to grab their life.
Intelligent people are almost the same. They use intelligence the worst way many times. If they find a theory or a method in just anything, they will try to turn it into monetary gain. I’m amazed that so called “intelligent” people can find out or make up any theories about how things work in the multiverse or only in this physical plane and they make up so seemingly logical theories that it is just insane. Like a physical like minded somebody creates a theory about something which will explain a mechanic behind something even in a more physical way. Or when there ar einsane theories which are just stupid like hell and eventually people will make them rock solid with their explanations and people will follow it. Religions are not so different, if you catch other’s hearts and fears and keep them, it is done!

This World is about money – for the most!

No surprise, people from childhood were raised to believe that they need to work or they need to gain money no matter from what, with any tools to get money, to get rich, to get big monetary safety net. I accept that we need monetary safety, to have a certain amounts to live our life, but people mostly are just going on nuts doing this. People are fooling people, lieing each other all the time. No matter somebody is a big “teacher”, writes books on conveyor belt like the trend nowadays, or just being a “physchic”, you are always fooled to give money. The most ridiculous, people are acting like they have clients and teaching people in any kinds of industry sectors to get gains on them. And they will always fall into the trap. Not this alone but the fact is the funny that they don’t do any useful to society meanwhile if they believe in service. I won’t label any of these artifical help businesses here.

Money is not an evil thing, especially there is no evil in this world, it is only a belief, a perception. People need to stop acting on beliefs which their idiot parents and this society crashed in them since childhood. Money is a group construct, a value for goods and trust, nothing more. But it just makes people crazy about this. It’s all about the money… but it doesn’t need to be that way. Well money is controlled by fear to carry this issue further. But the desire which everybody may need is behind it, the feeling, the concept of being safe is what is important, don’t forget this ever. Trust is something which is needed towards people but in the end it’s rarely worths it because no matter how nice people try to paint humans on this planet, it is a material turmoil and everybody tries to get by to not die in hunger.

I have a final example here on money. I remember when Bitcoin showed up but only years later I catched up and digged up as many infos as many I could to understand what is it about. I needed a gaining something to live. After I’ve read 2 ebooks, I found out only over one and a half day that it won’t work ever and it is crazy. It is costy, non-sense and another mechanism which will cost many people so much loss in the end… why people never learn? They believe in the idea of decentralised money? And they are causing more trouble with this new religion than before it just began. People buying newer and better mining machines for almost nothing in return according to power cost and changing the machines over time, being in big noise and atomic cloud, and don’t even realize that EVERY market over the world is controlled! If somebody had the curiousness and learnt to trade financial markets and learnt that they are all controlled by algorithms and big hands, the signs are already in the charts. This will be a big bubble and people are always making the same big mistakes. Isn’t it obvious where that big money is flooding into? The only issue is felt on the PC industry. I hate it too. What happened is, the PC graphics cards prices are doubled almost because of this idiot thing, cards are out of stocks over the world and it is much more expensive to buy a good or strong gaming VGA card these days. Prices are now dropping back, but these people just don’t want to learn from stupidism. And here you go, more and more people are junping or jumped in this insane mechanism. The end will be ugly in my opinion. And still, people try to catch more and more people with “proof” vids all over the web to show how this works well and you can gain money.

To close this post, trust yourself and those who you know very well and be sceptical always towards other’s intentions. Normal, nice, very reliable people are RARE who are more advanced towards non-physical understanding, how things work out in life and have bigger inner knowledge. I don’t see people here as bad, I see the reality. We can’t understand other’s fully, it only causes headaches and confusion. People are just what they are.