The Focus Model from F1 to F4 – part 1 (FOCUS 1 – The Physical World)

This post will be about the physical world for first from the series. Our physical reality frame is NOT the only one, despite the fact that most of humanity from materialism and believing what is told to them still thinks that we are the center of the Universe. Also, humanity thinks we are a body, we are not going anywhere and our thinking restricted to this world only with our ego issues.

You need to first accept this and you can test it. There are countless physical realities (or Universes) like ours, some are similar, some are way different. We made these systems on Focus 4 level to experience limits and learn from these experiences and perspectives of being limited. Furthermore, to understand all the F1-F4 states, we are already on these levels in different constructs, also we are our own god. People just don’t learn about this because religions are telling the most what to believe and keep them in fear. But I have no intention to hurt anybody or discuss religion.

Here it is the most accurate (to date) Focus model of all time from a wise man, whom I don’t want to fully describe and give his whole name. He is F.K., one of the most knowledgeable men on this planet. Who spent many many years to explore and investigate Robert Monroe’s model’s accurateness.

Well, his model is just better with this presentation. He passed away since a while with a great chance but this model is not about accepting and following everything. Just use your common sense and explore the Wider Reality in your own means. Don’t follow it strictly. The non-physical world is subjective. You can learn enough in your current lifetime to avoid the pitfalls of addictive physical life after you returned back there.

Simplifying the old Monroe model

F.K. is made our job as NP explorer far more easier and I’m using up his model in my life. I repeat it, don’t try to exactly replicate it. This is a pointer, a foundation to build on. Also, I would like to share here, to make it straight how our Wider Reality works in the non-physical. To be straight, our physical reality is part of it, a subset, not so different. So, don’t take the model as a strict end-all thing.

I will try my best to make it clear and tell what I know about this and what I learned also. Be aware this knowledge is vast and can’t share all.

If you are a believer, maybe you should stop here. But if you are enough okay to change your thinking, you may change internally after understanding the model. My intention is to open up your eyes.

Be prepared that maybe you should run through a few times to understand the basics of how our reality works. Besides starting with the physical world, it is about our mind as a non-physical pure consciousness operates and experiences through Focuses of consciousness. You are a non-physical entity who uses a primary attention, thinking it is in a body. Because you are not. And I start with our physical world to build up this whole stuff towards our source.

The Consciousness Continuum

Everybody in their deep core is a point of pure consciousness and consciousness needs to experience.  I had once a brief talk with one of my other focuses in the non-physical. He is a parallel self, another version of me. A man who told me that nothing is static and consciousness needs to experience. I can agree with this.

We have a consciousness continuum or scale to use it. We are using a tiny fraction from it. You can use the example of a flashlight instead of an endless spectrum. You project a fraction of yourself into a physical reality.

Everybody on this planet chose to come here and do whatever he/she wanted to. Many times it is a hard thing and suffering in the end, not achieving the original goal. Maybe we just need to define a goal if we don’t have. Many people seemingly fail in life. They continue doing their thing in Focus 3 what other’s call Afterlife. We are free to do it, to ruin our life.

The Focus Model tells you exactly that you don’t cease to exist not just when you fall asleep or have any kind of altered state in your mind. After death, we just continue to exist in a less vibrationally dense environment there. You carry your crap there and you are not guarded by a body anymore with a time delay after your mindset and actions.

Consciousness can’t die and it was always existing, as everybody on a deep level. Deep means non-physical, the source. As I spoke about it already, time and space is an illusion and there is no real beginning nor end. Time is ONLY part of the physical reality constraint setup. Not even after living in a physical world. “People” just continue existing in the Afterlife in vast amounts and dimensions of cities, regions etc.

This is a game of entries and exits to become more advanced. This what physical life is about.

The effect of not releasing your emotional baggage after the transition

The main problem comes when people are believing anything and carrying their crap there.  Because it is an almost instant thought responsive “environment”, you will be at a place or circumstance, which still resonates with you. This is true too on serial killers and every emotionally damage persons and both on religious people. I’m talking about anybody else, starting with normal people who never learned a useful thing about this or cancer sufferers with their cause of emotional baggage.

They will gravitate towards every kind of heavens and hells until they just stop believing in an illusion and they can grow and learn further. If not a believer, then it doesn’t matter, your mindset and the emotional charge will do the job. I’m talking about facts, you can test and prove it.

Post-humans are just bored about their beliefs later and let helpers (guides) to help them take the next step. Same for people with various deaths and accidents. They need to stop concentrating on their illusionary problems.

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Focus 1 – The Physical World, our world here on Planet Earth, right now

It is our main stage because our primary focus is here and now, on this planet and in this actual life. We came here for a reason, most of us can’t really figure out why are they here. We did NOT appear from just out of anywhere, it is part of the game. If you would remember who you are, you would instantly ruin your physical experience.

You need to understand that physical Universes are end-results of consciousness. We made it, we play it. It doesn’t seem to be a happy game because this civilization is a control system.

If you look back on your life and what was it mainly about, you may find out your true aim. You don’t need to always find a big answer about this. Maybe you are here just to experience. Or for the joy of your consciousness’s expansion. Other’s are here to just be a big somebody or learn certain things. It is up to you. The most are still learning the basics about themselves and how to behave.

Focus 1 is our main intensive focus in the physical world and the illusion seems to be so real. Most of the humans here just can’t imagine there is anything else beyond this little world. These physical realities are stemming out as subparts of the bigger setup. They are immeasurably intertwined, just like the Focus states.

We made every “little” physical worlds to learn, grow, experience, play, enjoy what we could. We built the Universes, the Focus structures, we built galaxies, solar systems etc. There is no limit in the bigger scale. Our physical world or Universe here, this one is only just one with certain rulesets and characteristics from the many.

Most of our world have no capacity to understand this. We are not there yet. But a big expansion in awakening started to happen since a while.

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Being You, here

We come here and we have a certain time interval to do our thing. Some people don’t survive their childhood and die in certain “diseases” and most of us are living up decades. And some people are living until their 80-100’s.

Now, I need to make it clear, NOBODY is like YOU! You are unique and don’t ever try to look at yourself as a match with others. Yeah hard to do but we can try it. You have your inner characteristics from which you choose throughout your life. Becoming a certain person along with your choices, likes and dislikes. Every choice is up to you, nobody forces you. But we also have life tests to deal with, same in our dreams.

Well, I admit our families and certain given life situations do force us to do whatever we don’t want to. We suffer from family members, life situations, idiot people, bad habits too. We have the power to imagine our life differently and act on getting out from misery. But blaming is always there, most people’s best weapon, instead of making changes deep inside. Our problem is that we are so addicted to physical realities that we tend to search for everything from the outside world.

How it begins and goes in a physical world

We start the physical life from initial given circumstances and we just start the game like a Sims game simulation. Our life is very similar. The future is never ever set in stone, no matter people try to tell this themselves and others. This is free will, You are free to choose. Our free will, on the other hand, is not so free, seeing how we need to fit into this world and accept the rules.

The physical time is there because you are mostly in situations and habits from which you chose badly. And you chose maybe for years until you finally chose well and the test is over. You are here to learn to stay yourself, grow up on every level also. Keep your emotions in check and play your part in your game the best you can. You don’t need to search for huge world changing things to understand yourself in my opinion. What game? Yours. Enjoy it. We should take it as a game. Hard to do many times but we can try it.

I was asking myself for decades why the heck am I here and now, and every answer is truly inside of you. You should search for your habits, likes, your enjoyment in certain things. Don’t expect to know everything at once, it takes decades to unfold. Look at your abilities, interests and you may find your answer. Everybody is storing enough informations from the NP on Focus 2 level to know what to do or have given informations from the “other side” to bare with certain problems. Habits are not necessarily things you born here to solve but they may be the case. They must be also badly programmed behaviors in many cases.

Focus 1, the Physical World is an end-result!

People tend to think there is nothing more than the physical world. Waiting for science and religion to give them answers which are nothing really. Science is just scratching an illusionary surface but they have good insights many times in core. Some of them. In general, they look into the opposite way of the solution and trying to measure consciousness in a body. Like you try to catch the driver under the car’s hood, that is very similar.

But the truth is, which I guess hundreds and thousands of NP explorers could prove that the physical world is a tiny little fraction of the Wider Reality and everything comes from the non-physical world.

Meaning every building, object, music song, belief construct ever dreamt up is coming from there and always came. In the physical world, everything is made up from energy and quantum mechanics could prove it already in a certain way. Focus 1 is an end-result and consciousness does the creation.

Every manifestations here come from your intent, beliefs, and thoughts, which you constantly build for days, weeks, years. Here we take many times the physical action, with our body and NP mind. We are manipulating matter through matter. But it is not so easy and takes time and effort.

Your physical body and appearance

They are both for a certain purpose for which you chose it. The physical body is for a certain projection of your inner being. It is an end result, your inner picture about yourself in this life. No surprise why people try everything in diet and don’t change. Because the mental image is the same. Many are obsessed and addicted to their body, mentioning endless sex and body-building too.

This body is made mostly on genetics in the given family (you chose the family and maybe the body type too). It is for doing your job here and now. You have physical attributes and abilities and certain things are just seemingly impossible for you. Until you believe that you can be a body builder or maybe much more in other interests and nothing is static. The DNA is projecting out the physical body and appearance and you can modify it.

But with certain rulesets. You can’t be for example 3 meters high mostly, but you can gain some centimeters growth if you really want it in certain conditions. But of course, you can’t grow back a lost body part. I guess you get it.

Most people are indentifying themselves with their physical body and no surprise again how many people are damaging their skin tissue with solarium, damaging their teeth with unnecessary dental surgeries to look “better”. Showing yourself somebody who you are not and declining yourself non-physically completely.

Besides talking about our biological vehicle, life is not so easy these decades. Never were in this civilization. But we can change our life for the better. There is plenty of food, clean water, don’t hung up on fake news and brainwash.

We tend to blame big dark powers controlling us, but who cares? Can you change it? We can blame always the outside world or find our way out. The outside world is like that because people’s low level of consciousness does the job.

Nobody will interfere with the happenings. It is up to people globally. If people continue to give power to money, economy crashes, dictators, big companies to poison people, this will be like this forever I guess. And this never changed since 100.000s years, looking back on the Sumerian era.

Reality becomes real where thought energy flows

We hurt animals, thinking that those ones don’t have that kind of “huge” consciousness as we have. Animals and plants also have consciousness but they are not caught up by their egos and doing simpler tasks here for lesser-bigger time periods. Remember if you hurt an animal, you hurt yourself because we are interconnected non-physically. Same source, different tasks with a limited physical vehicle. This could go on and on until your head starts to hurt. I edited back the whole article a few times.

So mainly Focus 1 is only for the game in these physical worlds. It is seemingly real, solid and you can’t escape. Well, you would be surprised, how MUCH real the non-physical is. I’ve experienced it many many times, I assure you, this is just an illusion. Our physical body is configured to interpret it automatically in normal cases and we got used to it.

If you try to learn how to project, phase, have an OBE (which is a belief construct again), you are relatively switching your focus to another mind-.reality. The Focus Model explains it well, I will try my best.

Edited on 27th of March in 2019.

Where Dreams are taking place?

Everybody have dreams each night or whenever they are asleep physically. The vast majority – because of the lack of knowledge – don’t even know what they are doing. Many of them are just sleeping and have no dreams really. I mean they have without any recall.

But what dreams are and where are they really taking place? You will see, the word “dream” is only a label again and people don’t know what are they doing when they act in the non-physical. This post is about the place and mechanics.

I should point out that forget the materialistic BS, that you are in your head. You were never will be! Dreams are “elsewhere”. The physical body is a vehicle for using our primary focus and we are switching over to the next channel to continue our tasks. The body is only needed here to keep it functioning for our physical life. You are always tuning into other altered states on your consciousness’ continuum.

We are multidimensional in our basic nature and our physical life is also a dream. Dreams or non-physical experiences can be much more “real” with practice. Check the Workshop for more to learn.


Dreaming is switching your primary focus to another mind state on another reality level

When we fall asleep regularly at night, we tend to mostly blackout for some “time”. It is not known surely even in the circle of the oldest NP projectors what happens between falling asleep and gaining back awareness to a certain degree.

It is maybe some kind of repair time for our consciousness and physical body, maybe download time. And plus processing up our previous activities and storing them, not 100% sure but maybe close enough. Mostly, we are transported to a scenery or place via guidance.

I will try to explain the Focus Model about the Wider Reality (not the messy and fragmented Monroe’s model, which is inaccurate by now). But let’s call Focus 2 the “Dreamworld” and Focus 3 is the “Afterlife” world. Now mainly the vast majority is dreaming in the Focus 2, which is an empty thought responsive environment, your own mind’s place. That IS still you in another sense. Your personal area.

There is no time and space and an individual restricted mind area for everybody. Focus model is telling you, you are already in those areas with your mind. That IS your mind, a portion of your self! We can call it your multidimensional being too, just words.


The uncontrolled thought responsive life in dreams

Most people tend to black out and acting out their fears, problems and uncontrolled emotions at night. Those are developing to images, scenes, whole stories, which people can’t and DON’T want to understand, what are those about. People are scaring themselves.

The most are just trying to understand or being curious in their life but that is just guessing without non-physical observation and will. They just decline the fact that they are causing it and they have a deeper meaning about their physical life. But the main thing is that they DON’T want to know it… it is too hard. Easier to believe in something (alien abduction lol).

Here is a post about fear tests as nightmares also.

So back to the place issue here. You are in a thought responsive environment. You are at the same time in your own mind which is non-physical, as your primary focus in the physical life is also non-physical. So, you weren’t in your brain ever, that is pure scientific BS. You are consciousness of an endless mind spectrum. The mind is a tool to let you focus your attention and function with limits.

The “subconscious” and mechanics

I guess most of the dreamers are in Focus 2, where we are storing every belief about us, every bad and good thought, memories, manifestations, everything which is needed to play our part in the physical.

People call it “subconscious” but I realized later that this is a completely dumb thing. I still have doubts but it seems like it is another belief construct and I just have an urge to look behind them. People in our world don’t really question told “facts”. It is an old Freudian model, based on dumb tests. Our society still building upon it.

Hundreds of years passed by with this belief construct, blaming something which is outside of us (or inside sorry). People just don’t want to accept their thoughts, actions and blaming something else is much better. It is much easier to just don’t accept, which is hard to understand in the first place.

Overlays between Focus levels

So when we are “out” by sleep, we continue existing and acting there. Overlays are very common. Consciousness has a continuum and it doesn’t cease to exist ever. To me, I have some initial Focus 2 scenes and without realization, Focus 3 places (real places of course and people) are coming in a scene. Maybe they are twisted together, it all depends on my intent, mindset and mind noise. Focus levels are intertwined immeasurably. You simply hardly notice it.

This is how the non-physical world works. You think about it and it is an instant reality! You don’t realize without a high enough degree of awareness what happens if you are not well-prepared and experienced. So maybe you are in the RTZ which is the next parallel buffer “zone” next to the physical (Focus 1). And now you see a door, going through and you are maybe in a Focus 3 city. You never traveled anywhere, you are there already.

Nothing is happening as a big hocus pocus. It happens without any change. You are there and acting in existing NP cities, talking to real people, who are living there. Don’t expect a huge cinematic change always but it can happen.

So what about dreams and their purpose?

Dreams are about developing your NP personality and at the same time keeping contact with the “source” from where we came from. You are tested all the time if you are ready for the Wider Reality.

That is why partly sleep is needed and for recharge. But as I see the vast majority is not enough mature to understand and be conscious of this fact.

Dream interpreting websites are all over the web. It could be helpful to understand the symbols which you got overnight. But later it will be meaningless and confusing.

Dreaming, on the other hand, could be very cool and non-physical people may give you good hours of NP life to shake you back in your positive mood indeed. You may see wonderful places too, realizing later that you are starting to doubt everything. In the worst case, people doubt mainly that was that real? Everything is real! Enjoy it.

Edited on 24th of March in 2019.

Why do we lose our friends in our life?

Friends are very useful on both sides of a friendship and we are pleased to meet nice people over our decades here on Earth. Some people have best friends or many many pals but friends are only guides as those non-physical ones are in the NP. All relationships are for a certain purpose in life.

Many people can’t stay alone to enjoy themselves, or they have a huge ego, maybe a huge void in their “soul”. They have many pals but not true friends. No matter how we see this issue, friends are there for a certain purpose.

We are all doing this teaching-learning thing to each other. Same for love relationships and marriages. Once the task is over, the connection is over too. Even if it is painful. The problem comes when the most are emotionally attached to the other one and can’t let go.

Why do you have so many pals?

The answer will be a little bit harsh but because you can’t enjoy yourself alone and don’t want to, maybe. You didn’t accept yourself fully ever and can’t give so much love towards others AFTER yourself.

People like to defend themselves that they just enjoy being with friends but they are really just pals. Meaning that maybe you can count on them, their help at hard times. And being antisocial is not this one, only a label. Antisocial means, he/she can’t fit in the actual society. Forget this word.

It is also a normal thing. Once somebody learned how our world works and how people behave, being antisocial is a good thing. People who can’t let go others will label you like that. Or because you don’t want to follow the same nonsense rules just like the masses.


Friends and pals are two different categories in my opinion. We have maybe a few true friends in life but we could have dozens of pals, who are kept only for some issues. Playing with something together, going to chat sometimes, do things in crowds, places etc. Pals are, like you just can’t stay alone on your butt like people are running away from themselves.

I knew just many many people in my life and never understood this attitude until I realized what this is all about from a subjective perspective. You meet people, it is unavoidable here on this planet normally.

You make pals and friendships but they are rarely for a lifetime. And if it is, it serves a purpose to both parties. Pals are only for having some people in your bubble to feel comfortable. The most won’t ever admit that they are addicted to others.

Some people are just highly egoistic and they are shining their egos with the dozens of different pals, so-called “friends”. They can’t really realize that they are doing this because they just have a huge ego and trying to prove that they are right in just everything – even if they are not. No problem, we are all learning on our own from these, I don’t judge.

Some pals are highly egoistic, self-promoting people

These people are just shaking hands and saying hello to just everybody, which is sucks if you see this on first hand. I know and knew many of these too, it was interesting to notice these behaviors. But it is so fake and self-fooling. And I’m not labeling anybody, it is not my job here.


People who are trying to be pals with everybody and knowing the whole local city is I think not a good thing in the long run. Some may defend themselves that they “like” people. Sure, we can like each other.

Why do you have friends?

Friends are the best connections in life besides relationships with love. We certainly need them at some point or almost forever. We need help sometimes, we need to have some fun with somebody, we just need to talk to somebody who will hear our words and may help.

Well, my friendships were only okay on my side after the initial years in many cases, I never understood it in recent years. Some of them were lasting for 10-15 years, it was good and suddenly they just disappeared. Huge blocks (towards them) came out of nowhere and I just didn’t have any idea what happened to those people that they are acting differently. I outgrew them! That is the hard truth.

They didn’t change even a bit, doing the same BS over and over again in their life. They became the toxic part. If you try to force them, reestablishing a friendship, you will get hurt.

So friends are absolutely good, we are guiding each other through life until the connection doesn’t serve the original purpose anymore. That hurts surely but we should leave them alone and vice versa.

Don’t forget, we are experiencing here, this is just a seemingly “real” game. But many people are still attached to an “ex” or a friend. It is toxic. People can’t let go of the other one because the most are emotionally immature.

What causes to lose strong connections?

Well before I started to learn about multidimensional self-development (before that I did it from birth) in the non-physical and between the two worlds, I had no idea why it is necessary to lose good friends. I mean really really good ones. But it goes as a plan for your own safety behind the scenes.

Some of them have lasted for some weeks for me also but everybody experiences this phenomenon. Until later I learned that friends are only for a certain purpose. If you deeply don’t need them, chances are, you will be very much ok on your own, like me. I guess that is a deep “spiritual” achievement to reach. I was partly always this type and I like it. That’s the main core of me.

So friends and pals are acting here just like non-physical guides in the NP. They serve a purpose: learn and grow, plus support. This is given to both sides of course. When you experience an almost sudden block in your relationships, two choices are given. You try to talk that out or just leave that one alone. No other ways.

Don’t try to even force your relationship to heal itself by arguing, you will suffer. It is over since a while, you just didn’t notice it. You try to emotionally attach yourself.

What happened is, you just outgrew that relationship and you are away ahead spiritually/non-physically on your own way. That’s all. You are on another track. The vast majority is just stagnating or slowly moving upwards on their own ladder. That is not a problem until people drag down other people with life goals. If you are pulled back, you will suffer.

People appreciate materialism and lies. Well, most of the people are underdeveloped in emotions and compassion.

Love relationships

That is almost the same but with another strong aspect, love and rely on each other, making compromises/consensus between each other. Experiencing the deepest non-physical forces, maybe having kids as a bonus (or curse lol).

We should admit, not every love relationships are lasting until elderly age, just a very very few. In today’s world, it is all about safety, money, carrier and being afraid. True love is not experienced in the vast majority, it is just a fashion to many. Marriages also don’t contain true love, it is a fact. It’s all about the money and facade.

But if true love and your perfect partner is given, you may experience it for only a few years, some decades. It was meant only to experience it, enjoy it and don’t try to understand a deeper meaning! One of the best things in life, in my opinion, is to find somebody with whom you will be in the clouds seemingly forever.

If it lasts for decades or until death, it’s better for some but don’t ever try to follow her/him and suffer because the connection is seemingly gone – it is on another level. I mean, don’t torment yourself, it doesn’t worth it. Don’t believe me, see it for yourself.

Friends, like non-physical guides

Some are there for your help, some are there for giving you protection in heavy moments in life indirectly. They are there for a purpose and moving away on their tasks and interests further when they finished. We are doing the same in a nutshell. Very similar to physical life friendships. Or even to physical life.

But keep it in mind, we came alone here to this life simulation, we are going back to the non-physical with a pack of tricks (Robert A. Monroe). We need to let other’s go on their own way of course. It was fun and good when those lasted.

We guard those pretty memories forever and added to our experiences and inner being. Enjoy these connections until they are gone. Eventually, we return back to our true home and to our non-physical friends.

Edited on 24th of March in 2019.

The truth about Karma

I guess everybody just hears very frequently about karma. Karma pays this back for you, past lives this and that etc. Isn’t that so boring? You are not just allowing people to control you with a belief construct but you are fueling it further thinking that it is real.

Nobody can help with a deeply planted belief if somebody is coming from a religious place. I admit. It takes time and effort to question what was told to you.

Surprise again, another belief construct, which masses are fueling and accepting as truth. The other one is the “law of attraction” which deserves another post here. I will try to make it clear here what is this karma thing about really.

A natural “law” (?)

Well, what mainstream and religion say, which grew out from the leading belief constructs over I guess hundreds of years at the minimum is that whatever you do to others or do in your life, you get it back surely (be afraid lol). The other one is that you are “paying” karma back according to some karmic law to a person or anything whatever we can imagine. Maybe non-existent “past life”. Just blame it, huh?

Too many flaws in the concept. One sure thing is needed to mentioned here. If you are a bad person and doing bad things which you feel guilty, it is true that “karma” will follow you. Life lesson needs to be learned. We are not similar as we are many of here in numbers right now. But beliefs are playing the biggest part in this according to ethics.

Karma is nothing more than a personal belief. We surely have laws in nature here but it is always up to you, your beliefs and emotions, thoughts about whatever you do in your life. If you felt bad after those events, choices, guess what you could manifest back an answer-like thing from that. It happens to everybody.

So it exists but to a certain degree until you fuel that belief with your thoughts. Because everybody believes in it to a certain degree! Some actions are well honored with bad responses for sure, this is about consequences.

Karma is like you are afraid about your choices in your life

Well, that’s all, really. You are afraid of your creative power or making mistakes. Without making mistakes, you can’t grow or develop. You believe in karma, you don’t believe in your goodness and power. Some people or sources are made you feel bad at experiencing life. Another thing is when we hurt each other on purpose.

People are talking so much about karma on websites, various spiritual forums, I know well too sure what people are thinking about it. Even the most experienced non-physical travelers with technics to detach their mind and explore in the endless NP have thoughts about this. But they are led by their beliefs also, very sad.

Karma is like you are blaming a made-up law about your actions. If you made something bad to a person and feel bad yourself about it, that is enough really and it is not a necessity after effect to get something back. You are growing from your mistakes. Don’t be afraid to do anything which is inside morality of course.


Karma vs “past lives”

Now, the past lives topic deserves a big topic later but some issues are needed to notice here. Past lives are not existing but partly real (so eventually they are, but in another sense). Because you are jumping in and out from physical world simulations (Earth is not the only one which is there), you already had other lives and will have. They are already existing and playing out simultaneously in the non-physical.

If you can imagine that you could be like another character, you can bet that you “are” already! Understanding the mechanics of illusional time, right? If you know that you have talent in certain aspects of your life, you are using various personalities from your essence. Surprise, what is schizophrenia (wow hard word for a label)?

Past lives are NOT this YOU. Never were. They are other focuses of your primary self, your essence. Nothing more. The Focus Model articles will help in this. They are other real persons, living their lives right now in other realities. From their viewpoint, you are the probable self and they are the primary ones in their physical world. I won’t discuss this further here but it is misunderstood. So don’t blame past lives about your choices.

The big issue here is, belief spreaders fail to realize that time and the non-physical is not working like that. Linear time is only in physical worlds for play. Your primary essence lives in just endless realities simultaneously in a nutshell. You are a portion of yourself, a representation.

Conclusions about believing in karma

So don’t hang up on karma. It is just a label and you are giving power to that instead of accepting your thoughts and actions. If you did something bad, forgive, let it go and be positive! : ) It is hard sometimes but we can do it. Blaming always the other side is not leading us anywhere.

Don’t misunderstand me when I talk about mystics. It is many times beneficial what they are doing. But they simply don’t have a clue what they are seeing or experiencing like “dead people and relatives”. They just accepted some belief constructs and acting on those “laws”. People don’t really like if they are fooled in the long run. So mystics are not 100% responsible but one thing is sure here, I can’t feel sorry for those people who never question what belief did they sign up for. From childhood.

Don’t believe anything which is said by many sources. Karma is just a fear machine but has basic foundations.

Edited on 24th of March in 2019.

Where are my memories? What about my Past?

Interesting questions about memories and their source. Many people believe from various materialist beliefs (science) that your memories are in the brain and if something happened to it, they are lost forever. Explaining further with various brain traumas and physical issues of course to make a solid objective base.

The brain is nothing more than a translating device to properly let you function through this physical vehicle. But it is NOT you and your consciousness is elsewhere! The brain is a device to keep your body alive and well functioning in this world, at the end of this channel of our multidimensional game.

You are a point of consciousness, using a physical focus for a given amount of decades in most cases. If people fail to understand that this physical illusion world is NOT the only one, well mainstream and sciences did a good job, as they are also belief systems to various degrees. We try out only one potential physical reality from countless ones right now.

Your Past is already done and stored on a personal, non-physical layer

As stated above, you already chose many things and your path in your life, which was not some kind of predestined something. If you never chose, your consciousness wouldn’t grow. But you had and will have free will and you are just doing your life. Wherever you are right now, you created that life from intent. We can’t control all but we can do our best.

The past is like when we think back it is like it happened in some seconds only. No matter if you are 20 years old, or 75. You may feel some bigger things in your “past” happened since maybe a day or “just yesterday”. Maybe some are just faint something and didn’t have any meanings at all, looking back.

You can’t go back to change it but you can absolutely learn from it. If you made a bad mistake, how should you do it otherwise if you had the chance to repeat the situation? It is all about choices. I mean experiences.

There is no time travel in the sense of going back with a Time Machine or with a Delorean. But in the non-physical perspective, time is nothing. Lives are played out simultaneously and it is just an illusion because you are also in the NOW.

Your memories are stored in a non-physical mind-region, which is your own workspace, called Focus 2. We can use an analogy here as a computer with hardware parts. The unused memory banks are there in the cloud-save and every unused resource. When you die, you have them instantly, you are what you did in this life, you became it. Nothing complicated. You are what you chose, your decisions and how you used up your various aspects of yourself. You are downloading them and adding to your knowledge.

This makes up your current personality or character with a high rate but you are a character. You made this character for the actual life, so bear with it. We are much more.

Lost memories

Nothing is lost ever. It is just a mental block or something which happened, that you just can’t reach that data stream in your mind’s endless “space”. Maybe your brain, the translating device is damaged to a degree that the connection is damaged also. Science can only see and measure brain damage and changes and this is what they only understand. The brain is showing an after-effect of consciousness and its activity.

When somebody has brain damage, trauma or something similar which blocks out his/her abilities, it is NOT in the brain which stores anything. The brain is the end result of a physical vehicle’s coordinating system. It transfers non-physical data and has limited capacity and abilities.

Here is a post about the mind and brain differences.

What happened is, there are blocks between the two worlds and simply this person is unable to reach what was already known. Two options are here: try to relearn what you knew once and/or try to dig up your memories after an extended amount of time. Well, anything could happen.

A missing brain part can’t be an excuse because somebody with missing brain parts can still learn what we normally do with an intact brain. We just don’t believe that we can do it.

If we try to get the materialistic and scientific dumbness of trying to catch memories in the brain, it just appears to be that way. The brain has connections to the Wider Reality and we are not in it. We connect ourselves to the body through the brain and nervous system.


Dementia and other mind related issues

It could be a complicated thing but in my observations and on the basis of what I know, people mainly in elder age just try to close out their primary focus. They try to close out this physical world. Not so consciously trying to get in touch with their true self from the non-physical. But mostly just denying the outer world, being lost.

The other common issue is that people who don’t want to listen to the world (the worst type) are just slowly closing out everything in a bubble and just don’t really hear you neither.

Funny but it can manifest bad hearing also. Well, eventually they return back but they are like in a forcefield or energy bubble. They try to exist in both worlds at the same time. There could be many causes, maybe a bad marriage from decades, maybe wanting to die, maybe just can’t deal with life here.

But let’s get back to Dreamland. And we stay the same there with the same mindset.

Focus 2 – the personal mind area, “Dreamland”

This mind area is nothing more but a channel for your mind. It is You. The focus of your attention. You are already occupying that area with your consciousness. We can call it one of a level of your existence. Some may have difficulties understanding this but we are already in all mind areas. Even in “god” state.

To understand this non-physical place, read the Focus Model series on the site.

When people are dreaming in dreamland, most of them are unconscious of what happens, they are not even aware of anything. Not knowing what are they doing and releasing the most craps of their daily lives. But you will read a lot about all of these on the site.

Memories, beliefs, concepts, likes and dislikes, manifestations are all stored in this level of your mind. But your mind is much more, much powerful.  Some may call it mistakingly “subconscious”. This is just for the game here. And as I saw most of the people are playing in a very bad way. Big surprise, they don’t even know they are originally just consciousness from a thought responsive world.

Edited on 24th of March in 2019.

What is Future in the Wider Reality?

This article is made to help Readers to understand the future concept. I already wrote about time in one of my first posts here. But if I try to divide the three timelines, well the future (also the near future) is a nice one and people just can’t really understand it. They think they do.

I admit it took for a while for me too, to understand how the illusional physical linear time works according to the non-physical mechanics. There time and space are non-existent. Future also just probable. These are concepts until you enter physical realities with limitations to try out physical life. You need to experience them first-hand to get the idea. Right now, as a human being.

Future is something which never happens, it is theoretical. Future is purely made up from probable realities. As you go along your pathline with choices, the Wider Reality is giving you opportunities and realities according to your path. So relatively you are jumping in and out of different endless dimensions in the physical world of illusion. You are not the same person who was one week or a year ago. So nothing is set in stone but certain stuff needs to take place.

Future in the shorter term is more accurate than in longer term

Predictions on the future are always misleading people whatever is the source. Nobody can guess the longer term, not even non-physical entities. As the timescale is bigger, the probable future is less accurate with big loads of variables on the events. Look at it as a big, unfolding game in all physical realities but we only notice our present moment.

In short term, a prediction could be very accurate and many people with precognition skills experienced that. Talented people can predict probable futures for others because they can tap into their information field and see the actual probable outcome. Some may have precognitive dreams. But you can always modify your future path.


But eventually, nothing is set in stone and forget that. People are always telling that your life and future is predestined (religious people), who just don’t know a thing about the nature of the Wider Reality. And at the same time, they forgot that their choices made their life.

The time and space illusion is a necessary distortion in physical Universes, like ours. We need to agree on it upon birth and experience it. We have time to experience with limits. Space is also like that because it takes a chain of events or time to get from point “A” to point “B”. Same about aging. All are needed.

So we truly live in the now. All the mental garbage, fears and worries are trying to attach us to the future and the past. It takes the effort to detach from these and stay ourselves. The past is stored (memories) and the future is unfolding.

So what’s about depending on the future?

You are in your past and in your future at the same time and it is up to you, what “future” do you creating your thoughts beliefs and choices. That’s all. Future will never happen lol. I know it is hard to understand.

If you have a certain attitude with characteristics, thoughts, beliefs, your future is going along these attributes. If you are manifested a big disease for yourself like cancer, you will be surely “dead” (return to the NP) sooner than a healthier person. Time allows us to learn from our experiences.

The Future is yours, play with it and don’t get attached. Near future is a probable outcome of your choices, decisions and chosen life path. Some talented people with ESP abilities can tap into this. And stop focusing on the worst cases throughout the World, just stop giving negative emotion to something which don’t want. Those bad effects in the world are real but you don’t need to dive into it. Focus on what you want and it will unfold.

Edited on 26th March of 2019.

Any use of healing crystals and gemstones on Chakras? Don’t believe the lies!

A new age type selling fever is spreading since a while, mostly on eBay and on private sites too, promoting crystals and gemstone for sale. Crystals and gemstones have been promoted by their various abilities on chakras and which color does what job on your energy body.

Healing crystals, cleansers, projection helpers, there are many types but those gems are not doing anything on their own. Maybe in some industries as energy or frequency amplifiers and they are like that.

There is nothing new under the sun, people will try to catch ideas to make money by selling false promises. Who buys those will believe in them and the belief itself will cause you the effects, not the crystals or gemstones (like healing). Crystals are just energy amplifiers. I’ve bought some more than a year ago and they are pretty nice indeed but nothing more.

What I’m telling you here is that these items are acting like an aim for your intent and nothing more. People are doing it via playing to a “god” or using something to pack their intent into. You are doing the job, not a crystal.

Believe in a “healing crystal”  and You are healed!

Well, this isn’t new really, snake oil is already there lol. Your own belief systems, rather a new one in those gems will cause the effects, not the stones alone. This chakra fever spreads for many years through the web and people try to earn money from selling in vast amounts. China and the USA is a simple example, selling in big quantities. Like electronic gadgets and many more and keeping up a warehouse for this one too.

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You start to read about chakras and this color is associated with that energy point in your body. Then you will believe that you need some of those to keep your “energy body” healthy. Well, mystics made a good job fooling people. I was just amazed that they went further and there is another subcategory about another subject. Like how those healing crystals are giving you defending abilities about the baaad non-physical (what???) and various healing and protecting effects.

Yeah yeah, you believe it, you get it. It is called manifestation. The thing is, you create a non-existent problem for yourself and turn your intent into an addiction, depending on a crystal.

So you are maybe buying Lapis Lazuli for the “third eye”, an Emerald for heart center, maybe a Black Obsidian for various places. And you feel yourself okay with that, being safe. You lay down and practice or just asking a friend with certain “abilities” to do the healing work. Newsflash, you can heal yourself.

If you have luck, a practitioner or a friend could do the job well because their beliefs are much stronger. The user is the key to these healing crystals and gemstones. Like a race car: you can be pretty bad or the best and the car will be also the best.

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Various effects?

Now if you are enough lucky or strong-willed, you can feel various effects soon. If you are a strong believer, you certainly could feel something, maybe some energy points are moving your energy stronger. Maybe you feel energy blocks dissolving. The problem here is that you are doing it mostly by yourself if nobody is giving you outside energy. It is a self-fooling thing, belief on your own. I repeat it, these items are just amplifiers of your energy.

Everybody is capable of moving their energies in certain regions of your physical body and able to pass energy blockages. Try it in meditation, focus here or there and breathe deeply. That is all like everybody have certain abilities, you just need to believe you have those. Same for distance healing or healing from a big illness. It starts in your mind.

If you never played with your energy centers and you feel various signs like bad headaches, diarrhea, vibrations, numbness, chances are you had blocks. Energy block here and there and you tried to dissolve them too fast. Just stop it and do it less frequently with less intensity. It will fade away in time. Balance is required in daily life. Don’t panic, you can make it, just concentrate on various bad points and move your energies in mind.

And to note it, blockages are metaphoric points in your body.

Energy Body and Chakras

There are many huge fake theories about those. First, energy body is real but it is only your non-physical counterpart. It stores source energy and supplies you throughout your days with life energy. We can call it an etheric body. It is partly a belief construct and it is real because people believe in it.

Chakras are real as metaphors also but there are no colors and frequencies and rotations on different points, that is all BS in my opinion. People can see them and sense them but it is based on individual interpretation! I had a time period trying these and learning about all of the chakra misteries, crystals, and gemstones, frequencies. They are just working for those who are so deeply religious and believing in something material that they really manifesting a non-physical result. Again, your own interpretation.

Here I have an example here. When I meditate and dive too deeply of relaxation (physically), my body starts to heat up brutally if I continue. Chakras opening up, drinking in source energy from the non-physical. Nothing more other than being in a middle stage of physical and non-physical phase, being totally relaxed. Chakras are metaphors only, I need to repeat it. Like opening a non-existent 3rd eye. You try to force open a metaphor and it is real but not what people think it is.

I experience it when my physical body is asleep at night and while I’m in the NP living that life too. My physical body does the job and I’m in just sweat after that, as many people are also. Nothing spiritual, nothing saint thing, no hocus-pocus. It is your source, filling it up with energy and maybe some blocks are healing.


So eventually those healing crystals and gemstones – or any tools – are essential if you learn to use them. They channel energy or amplify it, they are nice natural pieces of stuff. But in the end, you are the consciousness who does the job.

The stones alone rarely do a thing. You believe it that it does. You buy a belief system. Besides this fact, they are beautiful.

Edited on 24th of March in 2019.

How to Manifest Petting a Cat!

Well, I thought it is time for some fun here and what would it be for other people to manifest like this. It surely works. The trick is to believe that it will happen, nothing magical really. If it is not a belief, then using your imagination. Choose which one does that.

Here is a simple experiment for catching a cat and pet her/him. This is only meant for a little experiment to see, your thoughts are building your “future” and practice it. Forget LOA and other BS, this is the way. Beliefs.

I made a fun experiment with this almost a week ago and before that, I had successes also. But I didn’t know what caused it. Manifesting will be a bigger topic which I share later but it builds up from a few things. Just use your imagination.

The “how to”:

So here it is. If you like cats, they are outside and you can meet some so your chances are good. Especially in a suburban area. For manifest anything like a cat, try to think about you are in that moment, right now. Meeting a nice cat and petting it, purring and meowing. Now this issue says, you will meet one and really pet her/him, if that one is a perfect match with your thoughts (in theory).

If you only imagined that you are actually just encountering a cat, that one may never come close, run away or maybe scratch your fingers when you try to do it. Imagine the whole scene in the present moment or rather it just happened and doing it. Just mind chatting about it won’t do any results, imagine it.


So imagine you pet a cat and you enjoy it. Imagine it visually, not defining anything, only a nice cat. It can help if you don’t give any color or detail. No daytime, no place, no color, nothing. Imagine that you like it, attaching positive feelings and you may add some affirmations that you are doing it, that’s all. You can practice it a few times a day but in my experiment, I did only twice at the maximum and under 30 hours, it happened, when I didn’t even expect it and was walking with a friend, chatting at the evening.

Before that, I only wished for it for fun but never thought about how did I do it when I was successful. Many times it was instant inside 5-10 minutes, outside in nature. Wishing and hoping never gives you your future, it only tells you, you lack that thing and it is magnifying itself up. This is a mind work.

Have a nice play! : )

When You are in a Negative Spiral in Life like depression

Shit happens let’s be straight, with almost everybody as we call it depression. We are living a human life simulation, with other humans interacting with each other.  This is a consensus reality mostly. Most of the time it is embarrassing and stressful to just swallow other people’s controlling opinions and their blames all the time.

Depression can occur and negative thinking, letting the outer world to limit you down. Job life does it’s “effect” to pull you down, also toxic family members are doing well their job. Or anything which can make you have negative thinking and emotions. The hardest part to learn to be passive. This is one big life lesson as a physical character to learn. Emotions are attachments to things, events, memories, and people.

How can you get out of the neg-spiral? Depression is not so real!

The best way is to just get as far away as you can as soon as possible from the source of negativism, bad people. The vast majority are just blaming, sucking your energy out and don’t let you think about your positive thoughts in your personal life and they just don’t care. People are just what they are and everybody is on their own steps of evolution. You should accept these and focus on your goodness.

They won’t stop their misery – why should they stop their way of thinking? They are constantly giving thought to their crap and you will suffer from their idiotism. You are maybe a great someone and you have been limited down from social conditioning. Just don’t give a damn to others and their limited thinking!

If you are a work/job type, it is fine. You can switch to another job anytime if you wish and find a better opportunity. It takes time and planning with patience.

People around you will have a negative effect on you. You are not them! You have options to switch to something which may serve your life better than the previous crap. It will just slowly kill you emotionally. People are just dragging in their little fear box world all the way. Depression is like you try to measure your personality and capabilities to others. Or you try to achieve something and fail all the time which is normal. We learn and grow from mistakes.

Trying to change other people? Just don’t do that…

There is the saying that you can’t make people change their behavior or whatever they should in our viewpoint. They won’t and don’t want to change – we should leave them alone fast. It is your life, your decisions.

The first step is given: start to work your way out of the crap and remember that your thoughts are building your probable future. Believe in yourself and know that you are not alone and many people could do it in similar situations. Many fail indeed but we need to grab the chances. It is the matter of believing in yourself and that a better life comes. Not a false promise, this is how it works by mechanics.

The same goes on relationships and family issues. If your friend or love is not a friendship or love anymore, just stop pulling yourself down constantly to their level. You have better things to do. New potential friends are always there on your actual level. You can find somebody to love later too if you intend it. The main key here is the intention. Energy goes where your thoughts are. Don’t give up but keep balance.

Or look at depression this way. Does abusing yourself mentally worths it? Sure, I know depression, it isn’t easy to look at the shiny side of things. Take it easy.

Intention, the main energy flow of direction

If you have the intention about getting out a negative spiral or out from negative people’s crowd like workmates, friends, family etc… then you should focus on whatever you want and not what you DON’T want. That is the main difference. Your probable future goes wherever your thought energy is given, keep it in mind, test it, play with it. Take is as the manifestation holy grail. The difficulty lies in focusing on what we want.

It takes time I admit (a real pain in the butt), I had a mentally and emotionally toxic job experience too not so long ago. Which went on months until I made (with some friendly help) myself KNOW and believe that nobody could keep me there, that I’m free. I just hated it and it went against my own rules about making a passive income somehow but family issues went against my plans “again”. Eventually, I made my exit.

My colleagues were always in misery, blaming, complaining – forgetting that they chose their job, not me and they also accepted the rules. This is a classic sign of working people and the number of people who are actually ok with their jobs is much less. You don’t need to suffer in your life because of this. Maybe it was a bad decision, but the world is always giving you better opportunities. By the way who the heck needs all of this? Focus on your instincts.

Start clearing up within Yourself!

For first, just close your eyes, and close out any distractions (meditation) and try to observe your thoughts. You may realize that your thoughts are based on fear and suffering from situations on which you don’t have any influence and can’t do anything. Go with the flow and keep balance.

Depression most of the time comes from the lack of direction in life. You don’t have the influence on people or similars, STOP giving thought energy on them. I know this issue too sure from various aspects of my life.

If you found your problems deep inside, you will have the solution soon.  Reinforcement could help from any external source also. You must get away far from negative aspects of your life, rather convert them into positive feelings and formulate a little plan to solve the problem. This is not escapism, this is changing your life for better! Depression is a signpost for an underlying problem mentally, that you are just not seeing the light. You are totally fine and have no nonsense disorders.


Which one?

If it is a job, there will be other opportunities, trust yourself. Changing work life to independence is also a process, it takes time and effort to step from one into another smoothly. I’m still working on it.

If it is a relationship, they are toxic and not serving the original purpose for both sides anymore, stop fueling them. You hurt yourself! Leave these people alone.

If it is family, well it could be harder because of the stronger relationship – stop fueling them either. We can’t make people change, don’t try that! Get away after you made yourself sure, you tried your best. An action plan is needed only to quit and believing in yourself. Your beliefs will determine your life later.

If it is life goals or impatience, many tries and fails, take a step back and relax. Give yourself time and don’t overdo it.

Remember back whenever you felt well, in joy. Search back of those feelings and what caused them. You must learn to enjoy yourself on your own, not depending on other people. This is not egoism, this is being your true being and being in joy, making people better around you, better in looking with their heart. You should learn to not depend on other’s love and kindness. You can give love too! Practice it. Most people are childish and never grew up, attaching themselves to everybody and everything emotionally.

Trust yourself, stay in balance and don’t let other’s to influence you ever. They are just regular people, they will pull in their circles of misery and depression. You are here to live your life in joy, not in self-destruction! Be playful. Everything is experience, the bad, the good and we can stand up and walk again. I hope I could help with these insights.

Edited on 26th of March in 2019.

What counts in your Physical Life?

There are many many theories and rulesets about what physical life is about. There are many made-up and reliable theories with common sense about what physical life. That is just guessing. The truth is that no matter how smart people try to be with their wise words Your life is only yours. Your decisions and desires are yours and you need to deal with them.

You are living your physical life and you are walking your path, not those who criticize you all the time. Not even the media and society who tries to pull you into the mud.

Your physical life is there for a reason. You came here to this reality to play a game on your own. I know for many, it is not a good game and they suffer. But it is meant to be a good play, a game. Well, eventually we leave from here and returning back to the non-physical to do whatever we would like to. Don’t take the game too seriously. Yeah I know, easier than done.

I won’t share any mystical and religious concepts, I rather decline all and always will. Now what I say in my blog posts are coming from personal observations, experiences and from making up the bigger picture of the truth. Maybe personal truth mostly about the Wider Reality and its mechanics. But it gives the foundation and mechanics about how our multidimensional life works.

So what I say here is that the most accurate thing here is that you were the one who planned your initial physical life here and started up. No, not ALL. Now, many people just can’t figure out why did they select a certain family or life circumstances, body type, etc. To learn and grow from them, mostly! Not the learning itself is the most required thing here. Rather than you are acting and experiencing here and making decisions from your heart instead of fear and egoism.

Experience is the main key here. Consciousness, you in a raw state, wants to experience in limited systems.

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You are forced to use your creative power and learning to create your reality on your own. Also, you are tested by unseen forces to learn the thinking from your heart as I mentioned above. The vast majority lives from fear, greed, and primitiveness. This is because they are like that in their core and still learning the basics. Our world is like that because the participants are like that.

Right or wrong decisions? Doesn’t matter, they are all Yours!

There is no right or wrong. Even some belief systems are saying this but in truth, it is true lol, We only learned that in this duality world you need to make distinctions between those two but really, it doesn’t matter. The main issue is that did you learn or gain something about a certain decision or physical life experience?

Did you make a decision, based on your fears or from your heart without fear? Did you learn to deal with your own fears? It is all up to you. If you feel good, you did a good job.

Everybody has a certain compass against good and bad, we just developed our sense from birth or carrying from other lives. The other side is what your Inner non-physical self thinks is right or wrong but that doesn’t matter. Your non-physical counterpart doesn’t judge or punish you ever, just helping you indirectly mostly. It depends on the individual and how ready to hear the helping “words”. Don’t take your “inner self” as an individual, it is still you, the bigger portion of yourself.

Your developing personality here and now, which you bring “back” to the NP is the one what counts. You are becoming it by choosing and making decisions. But don’t take this seriously, we have the eternity to learn and play.

Your physical life choices are just like you are choosing another path and another one continuously, as jumping to the next reality and to the next. Seeing all the endless possible realities, they exist already and you are just seemingly without any effect, going in and out of those. Now we can call it physical time but time is really an illusion. It has a function: do you make the wrong decision over and over again for decades? You have plenty of time to do it.

When you make a wrong decision, you may feel bad after that and face it’s effects but this reality is about one thing for sure. You are in a slowed down environment, concentrating your awareness to one certain life, to make choices until you’ve learned really how to choose wisely. That’s all! Decide from your heart and on what feels good for YOU! Not according to anybody else! Don’t compare yourself to others and their success or capabilities!

This is Your life, and you are worthy to live it in full joy!

We can surely get life situations when people are just stepping in our personal area of life and decisions really. Like our family or partners. Egotist people are everywhere, who just can’t make correct decisions and suffer from their weaknesses. They even start to blame you or just telling you how should you live your life. Then comes the next stage what is good or bad for you etc. Now… who the heck cares about what others are thinking about you? We do care but we should stop it. It only has bad effects. So many people have emotional issues because they let other’s to judge them.

Because you just “subconsciously” processing what they said and will have a negative outcome many times. You can’t help it, you can’t help them! Just leave them where they are and stop giving them energy. Most of the people are just stuck in a loop of endless suffering, blames and egoism with stupidism. Let them alone fast and concentrate on your wants. This is not selfishness.

You can be kind to anybody and just do it, that’s ok. But eventually, you need to keep up a passive barrier to not get caught up on others. Just don’t let yourself be influenced. You can’t live the other’s life. You should develop a passive observational personality, who can maintain a balance in any part of your life, starting with your emotions. Don’t give a chance for these people to get you.

Physical life is taken too seriously from these interactions with people. You deserve a happier life and it starts within you. Don’t expect the same from the external world.

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Influence on people and Your physical life

Here is a personal story from me. I many times had struggled with people who just didn’t stay with their own thoughts and forcing their views and beliefs on me or on others. I’m vomiting about it symbolically. I guess I saw this from my birth and observed people’s behavior, starting with my family. Most of them are like that – they try to influence you and you can’t escape (and the worst, they don’t care).

The other side is true, even in a family or just with people in your daily physical life, you CAN give advice to people if they need help, need information, your knowledge, your heart. BUT you can’t force them to do what they should. You can’t ever live other’s life. They have also no idea about you and your inner being. The body is a facade.

I got many messages from the non-physical over some nights because I couldn’t understand why people just want to suffer or doesn’t want to be their own help. Like they wasting their physical life, being humans. And got the message that you can’t live other’s life and let them alone. Just don’t torture yourself about other’s stupidism. We are in a consensus reality but we are doing it individually.

From the non-physical perspective, everybody is responsible only for their physical life. Another case is, of course, if you are with somebody or going alone is not a good thing. That is right, don’t think this over furthermore.

No respect towards your decisions, your life, and your personality?

Again, just don’t give a damn to those people who can’t accept who you are, trying to influence you. Maybe laughing at you, not giving even a tiny respect which you deserve. Everybody encounters with these people but it is sometimes really hard to get lost from them. The worst is close relationships like mostly our family members. Everybody can find personal examples from above.

Your physical life worths more than idiot people’s influence. Let them tell their opinion to themselves and leave them alone.

Why should you let people blame you or let them humiliate and influence you? Your self-esteem will lower down and you lose your creating power. Just stay yourself, stay strong and remember, what counts is only You, your physical life experiences, joy and memories, your interactions from your side towards people and nothing else.

Play it nicely and play it well without hurting others. They hurt themselves enough.

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Eventually, it is all about You and interacting with others

You may do your best and that’s all. This is what you are bringing further, what makes you, the YOU. But eventually you are here and now as a limited character, so don’t make the false assumption that this is only just you. We are much more than this limited character.

But our added experiences from here are what counts really. You are becoming and developing endlessly. Once more, your character here, this body, personality is just a construct from the beginning for various purposes and you “become” eventually. You need it to experience a limited perspective.

The main thing here is that you should always make decisions on your own. Even if you need secondary reinforcement, your family or friends are there. The other side of the game’s coin here is that we live with consequences always. Every little decision has delayed consequences which people don’t accept.

Starting with our thoughts which build up in our “subconscious” as a running program and takes effect in the physical life later. That is a manifestation, a so misunderstood aspect of everybody’s hidden part these days. Many people are just in fear to make correct decisions and they are just stuck. Like regular jobs and relationships.

So, if you want to suffer, here you go, do it.
If you want to be happy, that’s cool, do it. That’s all, nothing complicated. Our main problem mostly if we took the effort and we are still stuck. Don’t give up.

The only barrier is the one which you pull up against yourself. Your limits, mental blocks. It is up to you to live a good life in what you feel good. It is not recommended that you need to swim in money or suffer in mental pain : )

Edited on 26th of March in 2019.