Why we lose our friends over time?

Friends are very useful on both sides of a friendship and we are pleased to meet nice people over our decades here on Earth. Some people have best friends or many many pals, but friends are only guides as those non-physical ones are in the NP.

Why you have so much pals?

The answer will be a little bit harsh but because you can’t enjoy yourself alone and don’t want to maybe. You didn’t accept yourself fully ever and can’t give so much love towards others AFTER yourself. People like to defend themselves that they just enjoy being with friends but they are really just pals, maybe you can count on them, but not on their help mostly. And being antisocial is not this one, only a label. Antisocial means, he/she can’t fit in the actual society.

Friends and pals are two categories. We have maybe a few true friends in life, but we could have dozens of pals, who are only for playing with something, going to chat sometimes, do things in crowds, places etc. Pals are like you just can’t stay alone on your butt, like people are running away from themselves. I knew just many many people in my life and never understood this attitude until I realised what this is all about non-physically. You meet people, it is unavoidable here on this planet normally. You make pals and friendships but they are rarely for a lifetime and if it is, it serves a purpose to both parties. Pals are only for having some people in your bubble to feel yourself comfortable. Some people are just highly egoistic and they are shining their egos with the dozens of different pals, so called “friends” and can’t really realise that they are doing this because they just have a huge ego and trying to prove that they are right in just everything – even if they are not. These people are just shaking hands and saying hello to just everybody, which is sucks if you see this first hand. I know and knew many of these too, it was interesting to notice these behavours.

Why you have friends?

Friends are the best connections in life besides of relationships with love. We certainly need them at some point or forever. We need help sometimes, we need to have some fun with somebody, we just need to talk to somebody who will hear our words and may help. Well my friendship were only right on my side after the initial years in many cases, I never understood it in the recent years. Some of them were lasting for 10-15 years, it was good and suddenly they just disappeared, huge blocks came out of nowhere and I just didn’t have any idea what happened to those people that they are acting differently.
So friends are absolutely good, we are guiding each other through life until the connection doesn’t serve the original purpose anymore. That hurts surely but we should leave them alone and vica versa. Don’t forget, we are experiencing here, this is just a seeminly real game.

What causes to lose strong connections?

Well before I started to learn about self-development (before that I did it from birth) in the non-physical and between the two worlds, I had no idea why it is necessary to lose good friends. I mean really really good ones. Some of them are lasted for some weeks for me, but everybody experiences this phenomena. Until later I learnt that friends are only for a certain purpose. If you deeply don’t need them, chances are, you will be very much ok on your own like me. I guess that is a deep spiritual achievement to reach. I was partly always this type and I like it.

So friends and pals are acting here like non-physical guides in the NP. They serve a purpose: learn and grow, plus support. This is given to both sides of course. When you experience an almost sudden block in your relationships, two choices are given. You try to talk that out, or just leave that one alone. No other ways. Don’t try to even force your relationship to heal itself by arguing, you will suffer.
What happened is, you just outgrow that relationship and you are away ahead spiritually/non-physically on your own way. That’s all. You are on another track. The vast majority is just stagnating or slowly moving upwards on their own ladder.

By the way I noticed that the most just can’t really appreciate a friendship. Like no emotions or anything. They don’t even know what it means the verb “friend” means. Very strange, but that is true. People are just deeply in their butt in physical life, trying to work for nothing and chasing materialism.

Love relationships

That is almost the same, but with another strong aspect, love and relying on each other, making compromises/consensus between each other, experiencing the deepest non-physical forces, maybe having kids. We should admit, not every love relationships are lasting until elderly age, just a very very few. True love is not experienced in the vast majority, it is just a fashion to many. But if ture love and your perfect partner is given, you may experience it for only a few years. It was meant only to experience it, enjoy it and don’t try to understand a deeper meaning! One of the best things in life in my opinion to find somebody with whom you will be in the clouds seemingly forever. If it lasts for decades or until death, it’s better for some, but don’t ever try to follow her/him and suffer because the connection is seemingly gone – it is on another level.

Friends like non-physical guides

Some are there for your help, some are there for giving you protection in heavy moments in life indirectly, but they are there for a purpose and moving away on their tasks and interests further when they finished. We are doing the same. In a nutshell. Very similar to physical life friendships.

But keep it in mind, we came alone here to this life simulation, we are going back to the non-physical with a pack of tricks (R.M.) and we need to let other’s go on their own way of course. It was fun and good when those lasted of course, we guard those pretty memories forever and added to our experiences and inner being. Enjoy these connections until they are gone.

The truth about Karma

I guess everybody just hear very frequently that you make karma this way, karma pays this back that way, past lives this and that etc. Isn’t this so boring? You are not just allowing people to control you with a belief construct but you are fueling it further thinking that it is real. Surprise again, another belief construct, which masses are fueling and accepting and a truth – the other one is the “law of attraction” which deserves another post.
I will try to make it clear here what is this karma thing about really.

A natural “law” (?)

Well what mainstream says, which grew out from the leading belief constructs over I guess hundreds of years at the minimum is that whatever you do to others or do in your life, you get it back surely (be afraid lol). The other one is that you are “paying” karma back according to some karmic law to a person or anything whatever we can imagine. Too much flaws here.
One sure thing is needed to mentioned here. If you are a bad person and doing bad things which you feel guilty, it is true that “karma” will follow you. We are not similar as we are many of here right now.

Karma is nothing more than a personal belief. We surely have laws in nature here but it is always up to you, your beliefs and emotions, thoughts about whatever you do in your life, if you felt bad after those events, choices, guess what you could manifest back an answer-like thing from that. It happens to everybody. Tons of funny videos on Youtube also about this, I enjoy laughing on idiot people, doing something which they didn’t even comprehend that it is so stupid, it will end up in crashes and fails.

So it exists but to a certain degree until you fuel that belief with your thoughts because everybody believes in it to a certain degree! Some actions are well honored with bad responses for sure.

Karma is like you are afraid about your choices in your life

Well that’s all really. You are afraid of your creative power or making mistakes. Without taking mistakes, you can’t grow or develop. You believe in karma, you don’t believe in your goodness and power.

People are talking so much about karma on websites, various spiritual forums, I know well too surely what people are thinking about it. Even the most experienced non-physical travelers who have the technic to detach their mind and explore in the endless NP, have thoughts about this, but they are lead by their beliefs also, very sad.

Karma is like you are blaming a made-up law about your actions. If you made something bad to a person and feel bad yourself about it, that is enough really and it is not a necessary after effect to get something back. You are growing from your mistakes.

Karma vs. “past lives”

Now past lives deserving a big topic later but some issues are need to noticed here. Past lives are not existing, but partly real (so eventually they are, but in another sense). Because you are jumping in and out from physical world simulations (Earth is not the only one existing), you already had other lives, which are still existing and playing out simultaneously in the non-phyical. If you can imagine that you could be like another character, you could bet, you “were” already! Understanding the mechanics of illusional time, right? If you know that you have talent in certain aspects of your life, you are using various personalites from your essence. Surprise, what is schizophrenia (wow hard word for a label)?…

Past lives are NOT this YOU. Never were. They are other focuses of your primary self, your essence. Nothing more. They are other real persons, living their lives right now in other realities. You have a great opportunity to experience and know that you are not the only one from your own source.
From their viewpoint, you are the probable self and they are the primary ones in their physical world. I know I used their body’s focus a few times there, it was pretty cool. You are acting in their world, walking and interacting for days or hours and it feels so real, you could think they were you. But it is a false assumption that they are me or you. In the wider perspective they are of course, but every “me”s are from the same source. A little bit complicated topic and I will try to explain this further later in other posts. Some of the biggest knowledges, which is hard to understand for first with a limited physical thinking as we humans are thinking.
So don’t blame past lives about your choices.

One thing is sure here, understanding the mechanics, mystics trying to SELL you fear, based on past “life readings” – well everybody needs to earn money in this world, I admit. If you have a bad habit, chances are you will be told that you did that in a “past” life. Well yeah… and you believe it, pay for it and problems are solved. They fail to realise that time and the non-physical is not working like that. Linear time is only in physical worlds for play. You can experience those selves for a certain amounts of time from your own will, but they are not you. Not this “you” right now and here in this context. But you realise after this I hope, that your primary essence lives in just endless realities simultaneously. They are like probes to learn, grow and play. You never die and never cease to exist, just switching channels. But it feels very real also, the process.

So don’t hung up on karma. It is just a label and you are giving power to that instead of accepting your thoughts and actions. If you did something bad, forgive, let it go and be positive! : ) It is hard sometimes but we can do it. Blaming always the other side is not leading us anywhere.
Don’t misunderstand me when I talk about mystics. It is many times beneficial what they are doing but they simply doesn’t have a clue what they are seeing or experiencing like “dead people and relatives” and they just accepted some belief constructs and acting on those “laws”. People don’t really like if they are fooled in the long run. So mystics are not 100% responsible, but one thing is sure here, I can’t feel sorry for those people who never question what belief did they sign up for.

Regressions and hypnosis is the other one, you are only experiencing mostly your mind’s belief constructs or if the practicioner is better, you just merge with other focuses of your primary essence and believe that you were them.

Where are my memories? What about my Past?

Interesting questions.
Well many people believe from various materialist beliefs that your memories are in the brain. The brain is nothing more, than a translating device to properly let you function through this physical vehicle, but it is NOT you! You are a point of consciousness, using a physical focus for a given amount of decades in most cases. If people fail to understand that this physical illusion world is the only one, well main stream and sciences did a good job, as they are also belief systems to various degrees.

Your Past is already done

As stated above, you already chose many things and your path in your life, which was not some kind of predestined something. If you never chose, maybe it would be like that and consciousness needs to grow. But you had and will have free will and you are just doing your life. Wherever you are right now, you created that life. If other’s did that to you, it is up to your willpower to move, I admit it could be very hard to change.

Now, the past is like when we think back it is like it happened in some seconds only. No matter if you are 20 years old, or 75. You may feel some bigger things in your “past” happened since maybe a day or “just yesterday”. Maybe some are just faint something and didn’t have any mean at all looking back.
You can’t go back change it but you can absolutely learn from it and did you make a bad mistake, how should you do it otherwise if you had the chance to repeat the situation.
There is no time travel in the sense of going back with a Time Machine or with a Delorean. But in the non-physical perspective, time is nothing, lives are played out simultaneously and it is just an illusion, because you are also in the NOW.

Your memories are stored in a non-physical mind region, which is your own. We can use an analogy here as a computer – the unused memory banks are there in the cloud save and every unused resources. When you die, you have them instantly, you are what you did in this life, you became it. Nothing complicated. You are what you chose, your decisions and how you used up your various aspects of yourself.

Lost memories

Nothing is lost ever, it is just a mental block or something which happened, that you just can’t reach that data stream in your mind’s endless “space” (which is spaceless). Maybe your brain – the translating device is damaged to a degree that the connection is damaged also.
When somebody has brain damage or trauma or something similar which blocks out his/her abilities, it is NOT in the brain. What happened is, there are blocks between the two worlds and simply this person is unable to reach what was already known. Two options are here: try to relearn what you knew once and/or try to dig up your memories after an extended amount of time. Well anything could happen.

Dementia and other mind related issues

Well it could be a complicated thing but in my observations and on the basis what I know, people mainly in elder age just try to close out their primary focus from this physical world and not so consciously trying to get in touch with their true self from the non-physical. The other common issue is that people who don’t want to listen to the world (the worst type) is just slowly closing out everything in a bubble and just don’t really hear you neither. Well eventually they return back, but they are like in a forcefield or energy bubble, they try to exist in both worlds at the same time. The cause could be many, maybe a bad marriage from decades, maybe wanting to die, maybe just can’t deal with life here.

So the Past is really just what you already done here. It could be bad or good, doesn’t matter, that is you and those are your choices. Ethical dilemma always comes to the surface if somebody made really bad things but it is up to the person to solve them and let them go. Everybody do mistakes, without them it would be impossible to experience the other side like doing something the good way.

Focus 2 – the personal mind area, dreaming

Ok here we go, I will later make clear that there are certain levels of focus of our consciousness or attention. Now, there is a very accurate model, you don’t need to understand it right now, but I will write a post later on that model, which I learnt also from a great man who disappeared from spiritual sites after he done so much with his investigations in the NP for decades.
This mind area is nothing more but a channel for your mind, focus of attention, nothing more. You are already occupying that area with your mind. We can call it one of a level of your existence.

Here you are using your beliefs, manifesting your life and desires, dreaming up your fears and emotions every night. This is a subjective Focus of your mind, where we are using this “place” to function properly in the physical world, which is our primary focus as called Focus 1.
When people dream, they are mostly and most of them are unconscious what happens, they are not even aware really of what are they doing and releasing the most craps of their daily lives. Thought here is instant, so whatever you think, it becomes real. Everything is real, non-physical dimensions are as real as your physical one, maybe more real. This shows people with relatively big awareness that the physical world is not the only one and they won’t cease to exist after death. You are keeping contact with the non-physical the whole time, just don’t realise it.

The worst here is that the vast majority because of lack of useful knowledge shaking off their dreams and don’t really want to know what are they acting out by sleeps. They just think, dreams are insane “subconscious” crap – well why should they think otherwise, that is what they learnt from birth from people who also just don’t know a thing.

Memories, beliefs, concepts, likes and dislikes, manifestations are all stored in this level of your mind. But your mind is much more, much powerful. This is just for the game here. And as I saw most of people are playing very in a very bad way. Well suprise, they don’t even know they are originally just consciousness from a thought responsive world.

What is Future in the wider reality?

I wrote about time in one of my first posts but if I try to divide the three timelines, well the future is a nice one and people just can’t really understand it. I admit it took time for me too, to understand how the illusional physical linear time works according to the non-physical, where time and space is not existing.

Future will never be and never was. Future is purely made of probable realities and as you go along your pathline and choose and choose, the future is giving you opportunities and realities according to your path, so relatively you are jumping in and out of different endless dimensions in the physical world illusion. You are not the same person who were one week or a year ago.

Nothing is set in stone and forget that. People are always telling that your life and future is predestined, who just don’t know a thing about the wider reality and at the same time they forgot that their choices made their life. You may have primary missions here and now, but you can always change the plan.

Future is only a label from this civilisation, nothing more. You are in the Eternal Now as in the non-physical, and because “time” is seemingly passing by with events and daytimes, seasons, aging, you think your are going towards the future. Just a label, an illusion.
Humans tend to give labels and objectify just everything. In the non-physical subjective reality there is no past and future, only Now. We objectify everything from birth because that is what our dumb parents did well, and their parents also. It is a self-defensive mechanism, which is needed according to understand this limited box reality.

You are in your past and in your future at the same time and it is up to you, what “future” do you creating along your thoughts beliefs and choices. That’s all.
If you have a certain attitude with characteristics, thoughts, beliefs, your future is going along these attributes. If you are manifested a big disease for yourself like cancer, you will be surely “dead” (return to the NP) sooner than a healthier person, who will maybe survive for more decades. Maybe a person in deadly disease unconsciously chose to exit sooner (you may never know for sure). It was only your choise and you can’t blame others, I’m sorry. Mental illness is another story. It is easier to blame genoms and food than look inside and solve internal problems.

The Future is yours, play with it. Manifesting is like that. And stop focusing on the worst cases throughout the World, just stop giving negative emotion to something which is not your reality.

Any use of crystals and gemstones on chakras? The fake factory…

A new age type selling fever is spreading since a while, mostly on ebay and on private sites too – but I guess at many places – about crystals and gemstones and their various abilities on chakras and which color does what job on your chakra body.
There is nothing new under the Sun, people will try to catch ideas to make money by selling fake promises, and who buy those will believe in them and the belief itself will cause you the effects, not the crystals or gemstones. They are just energy amplifiers.

I’ve bought some more than a year ago and they are pretty nice indeed but nothing more.

Believe in it and you are healed!

Well this isn’t new really. Your own belief systems, rather a new one in those gems will cause any effects, not the stones. This chakra fever spreads since many years through the web and people try to earn money from selling in vast quantities. China is a simple example, selling in big quantities like electronic gadgets and many more and keeping up a warehouse for this one too.
You start to read about chakras and this color is associated with that energy point in your body and you will believe that you need some of those to keep your “energy body” healthy. Well mystics made a good job fooling people. I was just amazed that they went further and there is another subcategory about how those stones are giving you defending ablities about the baaad non-physical (what???) and various healing and protecting effects. Yeah yeah, you believe, you get it. It is called manifestation.

So you are maybe buying Lapis Lazuli for third eye, an Emerald for heart center, maybe a Black Obsidian for various places and you feel yourself ok with that. You lay down and practice or just asking a friend with certain “abilities” to do the healing work. If you have luck a practicioner or a friend could do the job well.

Various effects

Now if you are enough lucky, you can feel various effects, if you are a strong believer, you certainly could feel something, maybe some energy points are moving your energy stronger, maybe you feel energy blocks dissolving. The problem here is that you are doing it mostly by yourself if nobody is giving you outside energy. It is a self-fooling thing, belief.
Everybody is capable of moving their energies in certain regions of your physical body, and able to pass enegy blockages. That is all, like everybody have certain ablities, you just need to believe you have those.

If you never played with your energy points and you feel various signs, maybe bad headaches, diarrhea, vibrations, numbness, chances are you had blocks here and there and you tried to dissolve them too fast. Just stop it and do it less frequently with less energy. It will fade away in time. Balance is required really. Don’t panic, you can make it, just concentrate on various bad points and move your energies in mind.

Energy body and chakras

There are many huge fake theories about those. First, energy body is real, but it is only your non-physical counterpart, which stores source energy and supplies you throughout your days with life. We can call it etheric body maybe.

Chakras are real also but there are no colors and frequencies and rotations on different points, that is all BS in my opinion. I had a time period trying these and learning about all of the chakra mistery and gemstones, frequencies and they are just working for who are so deeply religious and believing in something material that they really manifesting a non-physical result.

Here I have an example here. When I meditate and going in too deeply of relaxing (physically), my body starts to heat up brutally if I continue. It is the so called chakras opening up, drinking in source energy from the NP and nothing more other than being in a middle stage of physical and non-physical phase. I experience it when my physical body is asleep at night and while I’m in the NP living that life too, my physical body does the job and I’m in just sweat after that. Nothing spiritual, nothing saint thing, no hocus-pocus, it is your energy system filling it up with energy and maybe some blocks are healing.
Chakras are nothing more than a vastly overcomplicated belief system about your actual energy point in your body – minor and majors – supplying your functioning physical body with life energy to stay alive and representing various energy parts.

Understanding this “truth” you may now see that stones, crystals and various practices are unnecessary and your beliefs are in themselves are causing you every effect. Eventually you are doing the job mostly if not somebody outsider, who knows how to move your energies. Mystical people are trying to SELL their lies and misunderstandings about how the wider reality and your body work.

The body heat in other words is your energy counterpart (body), speading up it’s frequency to a degree when you are starting to be out of phase of the physical focus. Somebody experiences coldness, that is normal too.
But maybe this whole issue proves that you were never physical at the first place, it is an illusion. You are simply experiencing your rest of your being from another perspective.

Trying to open chakras? What about the “Third Eye”?

That is stupid, your chakras are fine if we can call your energy quarters like that. You don’t need to open anything, you will overstimulate some and have trouble in some bad cases. You need a healthy balance in moving your energies and feel your body as a whole. Live a balanced life, eat in balance, act in emotional balance.
The worst new age crap comes from that famous Third Eye opening idiotism. You don’t have to open anything, it is a SYMBOL! Nothing more. You have a mind’s eye of course but that is your thoughts, imagination and communicating with the non-physical as doing daydreaming. You don’t need to open anything, you just need to start using it, after decades of crap social conditioning and after your parents started to tell you just stop using your creative power and grow up! They should rather grow up to the wider reality but they won’t.
Your charkas are just fine, don’t overstimulate them, our you can cause imbalance symptoms for yourself from believing idiots.

To use your mind’s eye, the only thing you should practice is to use your imagination, which people simply don’t have from childhood. Of course you have but forgot to use. I hate it that I stopped using it too in my childhood.

How to manifest petting a cat!

Well, I thought it is time for some fun here and what would it be for other people to manifest like this. It surely works.

Here is a simple experiment for catching a cat and pet her/him. This is only meant for a little experiment to see, your thoughts are building your “future” and practice it.

I made a fun experiment with this almost a week ago and before that I had successes, but I didn’t know what caused it. Manifesting will be a bigger topic which I share later, but builds up from a few things.

So here it is. If you like cats, they are outside and you can meet some. Especially in a suburban area. Try to think about you are in that moment, right now, meeting a nice cat and petting it. Now this issue says, you will meet one and really pet her/him, if that one is perfect match with your thoughts. If you only imagined that you are actually just encountering a cat, that one may never come close, run away or maybe scratch your fingers when you try to do it. Imagine the whole scene in the present moment, or rather it just happened and doing it.

So imagine you pet a cat and you enjoy it. Imagine it visually, not defining anything, only a nice cat. No daytime, no place, no color, nothing. Imagine that you like it, attaching positive feelings and you may add some affirmations that you are doing it, that’s all. You can practice it a few times a day but in my experiment I did only twice at the maximum and under 30 hours, it happened, when I didn’t even expect it and was walking with a friend, chatting at the evening.

Before that I only wished for it for fun, but never thought about how did I do it when I was successful. Many times it was instant inside 5-10 minutes outside. Wishing and hoping never gives you your future, it only tells you, you lack of that thing and it is magnifying itself up. This is a mind work.

Have a nice play! : )

When You are in a negative spiral in life

Shit happens let’s be straight, with almost everybody. We are living a human life simulation, with other humans interacting with each other. Most of the time it is embarassing and stressful to just swallow other people’s controlling opinions and their blames all the time. Job life does it’s “job” to pull you down, also toxic family members are doing well their job.

How can you get out of the neg spiral?

The best way is to just get as far away as you can as soon as possible from the source of negativism and bad people. The vast majority are just blaming, sucking your energy and don’t let you think about your positive thoughts in your personal life and they just doesn’t care. People are just what they are and everybody is on their own steps of evolution. They won’t stop their misery – why should they stop their way of thinking, which they are constantly giving thought since maybe years or decades, huh?

If you are a work/job type, it is fine, you can switch to another job anytime if you wish. That is a huge fake thing when people are complaining, you can’t. Like you can’t find another one, there isn’t any… well their thoughts are creating their reality if they give enough energy, but You are not them! You have the options to switch to something which may serve your life better than the previous crap, which just slowly kills you emotionally. People are just dragging in their little box world all the way.
There is the saying that you can’t make people change in their behavour or whatever they should in our viewpoint. They won’t and don’t want to change – we should leave them alone fast.

The first step is given, start to work your way out of the crap and remember that your thoughts are building your probable future. Believe in yourself and know that you are not alone and many people could do it in similar situations.
The same goes on relationships and family issues.
If your friend or love is not a friendship or love anymore, just stop pulling yourself down constantly to their level. You have better things to do. New potential friends are always there on your actual level and you can find somebody in love later too if you wish for. The main key here is intention. Energy goes where your thoughts are.

Intention – the main energy flow

If you have the intention about getting out a negative spiral or out from negative people’s crowd like workmates, friends, family etc… than you should focus on whatever you want and not what you don’t want. That is the main difference. Your probable future goes wherever your thought energy is given, keep it in mind, test it, play with it.

It takes time I admit (a real pain in the butt), I had a mentally and emotionally toxic job experience too not so long ago, which went on months until I made (with some friendly help) make myself KNOW and believe that nobody could keep me there and I can go away. I just hated it and it went against my own rules about making a passive income somehow, but family issues went against my plans “again”. My collagues were always in misery, blaming, complaining – forgetting that they chose their job, not me and they also accepted the rules. This is a classical sign of working people and the number of people who are actually ok with their jobs is much less, like 1 out of 20. You don’t need to suffer in your life because this. Maybe it was a bad decision, but the world is always giving you better opportunities. By the way who the hack needs all of this?

Start in Yourself, deep inside first!

For first, just close your eyes, and close out any distractions (called meditation) and try to observe your thoughts. You may realise that your thoughts are based on fear and suffering from situations on which you don’t have any influence and can’t do anything. If you don’t have influence on people or similars, STOP giving thought energy on them. I know this issue too sure from various aspects of my life.
If you found your problems deep inside, you will have the solution soon. You must get away far from negative aspects of your life, rather convert them into positive feelings and formulate a little plan to solve the problem. This is not escapism, this is changing your life for better!

If it is work, there will be other opportunities, trust yourself.
Changing work life to independency is also a process, it takes time and effort to step from one into another smoothly.
If it is relationship, they are toxic and not serving the original purpose for both sides anymore, stop fueling them. You hurt yourself!
If it is family, well it could be harder because of the stronger relationship – stop fueling them either. We can’t make people change, don’t try it! Get away after you made sure yourself, you tried your best. An action plan is needed only for quit.

Remember back whenever you felt yourself well, in joy. Search back of those feelings and what caused them. You must learn to enjoy yourself on your own, not depending on other people. This is not egoism, this is being your true being and giving out your joy, making people better around you, better in looking with their heart.
You should learn to not depend on other’s love and kindness. You can give it too! Practice with it.

Trust yourself, stay in balance and don’t let other’s to influence you ever. They are just regular people, they will pull in their types.
You are here to live your life in joy, not in self-destruction!

What counts in your physical life?

Now there are many many theories and rulesets which people are made and thought out over the years mostly in spiritual forums and also we can hear this and that in personal life, chatting with people.

Your physical life is for a reason. You came here to this reality to play a game on your own. Now I know for many, it is not a good game and they suffer. But it is meant to be a good experience chain, well eventually we leave from here and coming back to the non-physical to do whatever we would like to. Don’t take the game too seriously.

I won’t share any mystical and religious concepts, I rather decline all and will. Now what I say in my blogs are coming from personal observations, experiences and from making up the bigger picture of the truth, maybe personal truth mostly about the wider reality and it’s mechanics.
So what I say here is that the most accurate thing here is that you were the one who planned your initial life here and started up. Now many people just can’t figure out why did they select a certain family or life circumstances, body type, etc. To learn and grow from them! Not the learning itself is the most required thing here, but that you are acting and experiencing here and making decisions from your heart.
You are forced to use your creative power and learning to create your reality on your own.

Right or wrong decisions

There is no right or wrong. We only learnt that in this duality world you need to make distinctions between those two, but really, it doesn’t matter. The main issue is that did you learn or gain something about a certain decision or life experience?
Did you make decision based on your fears or from your heart without fear?

Everybody have a certain compass against good and bad, we just developed our sense from birth. The other side is what your Inner non-physical self thinks is right or wrong, but that doesn’t matter. Your non-physical counterpart doesn’t judge or punish you ever, just helping you indirectly mostly – it depends on the individual and how ready to hear the helping “words”.
Your developing personality here and now, which you bring “back” to the NP is the one what counts and you are becoming it by choosing and making decisions.

Your choices are only like you are choosing another path and another one continously, as jumping to the next reality and the next, all the endless possible realities are there and you are just seemingly without any effect, going in and out of those. Now we can call it physical time, but time is really an illusion. It has a function: do you make the wrong decision over and over again for decades? You have plenty time to do it.
When you make a wrong decision, you may feel bad after that and facing it’s effects but, this reality is about one thing for sure: You are in a slowed down environment, concentrating your awareness to one certain life, to make choose and choose and choose until you learn really that you chose well finally. That’s all! Decide from your heart and on what feels good for YOU! Not anybody else!

This is Your life, and you are worthy to live it in full joy!

We can surely get life situations when people are just stepping in our personal area of life and decisions really, like our family or partners. Egoist people are everywhere, who just can’t make correct decisions and suffer from their weakness. They even start to blame you or just telling you how should you live your life. Even comes the next stage what is good or bad for you etc. Now… who the hack cares about what others are thinking about you? We do care but we should stop it.
And the sad thing, they have an effect on you, because you just subconsciously processing what they said and will have negative outcome many times. You can’t help it, you can’t help them! You need to leave them where they are and stop giving them energy. Most of the people are just stucked in a loop of endless suffering, blames and egoism with stupidism. Let them alone fast.
You can be kind to anybody and just do it, that’s ok but eventually you need to keep up a passive barrier to not get caught up on others. Just don’t let yourself influence, your life and choices are yours. You can’t live other’s lives.
You should develop a passive personality, who can maintain a balance in any part of your life, starting with your emotions.

Influence on people and Your life

Here is a personal story from me. I many times had struggle with people who just didn’t stay with their own thoughts and forcing their views and beliefs on me or on others. I guess I saw this from my birth and observed people’s behavour. Most of them are like that – they try to influence you and you can’t escape (and the worst, they don’t care). The other side is true, even in family or just with people in your life, you CAN give advices to people if they need help, need information, your knowledge, your heart BUT you can’t force them do what they should. You can’t ever live other’s life. I got many messages from the non-physical over some nights because I couldn’t understand why people just want to suffer or doesn’t want to be their own help. Like they wasting their life. And got the message that you can’t live other’s life and let them alone. I felt negativism in my feelings because I think mostly from my good heart and seeing people like that is sad. But I had self-judgement that if I don’t help, I will be somebody who is frozen against these people, because I’m good and have a certain configuration deep inside. But that is not the case. From the non-physical perspective, everybody is responsible only for their life. Another case is of course if you are with somebody or going alone is not a good thing. That is right, don’t think this over further.

No respect towards your decisions, your life and your personality?

Just don’t give a damn to those people who can accept who you are, trying to influence you, or laughing at you, not giving even a tiny respect which you deserve. Everybody encounters with these people but it is sometimes really hard to get lost from them. The worst is close relationships like mostly our family members. Your life worths more than idiot people’s influence – let them tell their opinion to themselves and let them alone.
Why should you let people blame you or let them humiliate and influence you? Your self-esteem will lower and you lose your creating power. Just stay yourself, stay strong and remember, what counts is only You, your life experiences, joy and memories, your interactions from your side towards people and nothing else. You may did your best and that’s all. This is what you are bringing further, what makes you, YOU. But eventually you are here and now a limited character so don’t make the false assumption that this is only just you. We are much more than this limited character, but our added experiences from here are what counts really. You are becoming and developing.
Once more, your character here, this body, personality is just a construct from the beginning for various purposes, and you “become” eventually.

The main thing here is that you should always make decisions on your own, even if you need secondary support from your family or friends about what decision could maybe bad, but base your thoughts on what feels good or right for you. The other side of the game’s coin here is that we live with consequences always. Starting with our thoughts which build up in our subconscious as a running program and makes effect in the physical life later. That is manifestation, a so misunderstood aspect of everybody these days. Many people are just in fear to make correct decisions, and they are just stuck. Like regular job work.

So, if you want to suffer, here you go, do it.
If you want to be happy, that’s cool, do it. That’s all, nothing complicated.
The only barrier is the one which you pull up against yourself. Your limits, mental blocks.
It is up to you to live a good life in what you feel yourself good and it is not recommended that you need to swim in money or suffer in mental pain : )

Is Sugar bad or good for Your health?

This is an interesting topic and worldwide, full of misconceptions, beliefs and groups, who try to sell other products which are switching you from sugar to much worse like artificial sweateners.
Whole food industry is a religion too and vegetarianism both, with other ones. But no arguement here, it is your choices and if you feel good it is ok, but later after years you may have defficiency problems. You don’t need to follow groups, just your body and lifestyle.

I’m a perfect example here. I’m almost 31 years old, tall, lean but muscular type man in genetics. I’m eating sugary stuffs since my early childhood and never ever had a serious problem with it, if I take into consideration that I should eat it in not massive amounts (lol well many times it is hard to not do it, I admit).
My brain and metabolism using it up as fast as it can, so no real big problems. It is sometimes bad if I make wrong choices and grabbing it too often from the shop’s selves, but maybe I have just some little issue about it like a little brain fog, that’s all, I can accept it. It is up to me to change my diet to a degree that I eat more protein and not more sugar. I don’t take it seriously.
Choices are up to you, what to eat.

What other’s are telling you what is good for you – totally wrong!

Never try to follow other people’s meal plans and diet, but you need to experiment with the food combinations and what is good for your body. Certain people can’t digest certain types of foods. But you can try out what is better for you. Those advices are just for try some aspects and if it works, use it.

If you crave on sugar and being lazy like me, chances are you don’t take in enough protein for your energy levels, muscles to stay strong and for your brain being in balance and not in tiredness. You can consume sugar and eat it in balance with other stuffs. I won’t say you, DON’T eat sugar, it is not fair. You can eat it, but in moderation. Our body is very adaptable, can handle it. But by the time you will lose minerals like Vitamine B’s, Magnesium, Calcium, Vitamine C and some more. You should eat wisely and considering your body’s lifestyle. Fat is the leasts needed one, we are not in the wild, hunting for prey and storing up fat in our body to survive winters.
Useful fats are needed like butter, Olive Oil, Cononut Oil and similars. Don’t cling on Omega 3. You need a good ratio of Omega 6 : Omega 3 = 2:1 or 3:1 and that’s all. Nobody tells you this ratio, mainstream only hungs up on Omega 3. And don’t take it seriously like measuring it daily for your intake, just don’t do it. Just eat it if you want to.

The importance of water

I found out that if I try to drink more water while I’m eating chocolates (some swallows), it can cause a little delay on releasing sugar into my blood vessels. It is a personal observation but it can help you.
Water is very important, pure water. Now I don’t recommend anything other than some mineral spring water, which doesn’t contain fluoride and chloride, but have magnesium, a little calcium and potassium for your muscles, brain, bones etc. You can still use tap water for washing your teeth or rinse a few times, wash hands but it is unsafe, and full of chemicals, byproducts from washing it back like hormones. I guess we can count up almost every countries for unsafe tap water.

There is a myth, people in my world used to say it to me too, that you should rotate your brands of mineral water because of some strange build-up theory of minerals… comeon! This is just BS again. I know my body uses up what I take in, you can’t overload them, until you are making personal powder or capsule intakes more often and too much for months. If you consumes sugary stuffs, you can be sure, some minerals are less than normal, don’t worry. Otherwise, rather protein intake is low.

How to use up sugar?

Exercise almost daily is needed to maintain balance in your muscles and blood flow to various parts of your body, especially to your brain. I know I’m lazy like hell, but I can take a run for some kilometers nearby, or just ride my bike, take dumbbell exercises at home, whenever it is needed.
It is better use up plant sugar (fruits) or just sugary stuffs after workout or jogging. You muscles are weak, use it with protein to regain damaged muscles tissues and store glycogen in it. Eat vegetables with protein.
Daytime? Use sugar rather at the middle of the day. In the mornings you need protein after sleep, and sugar is the less wanted thing before bedtime, it will accumulate as fat and your brain may have a bad bedtime over night without restfull sleep.

Sugar also releases happiness “hormone”. It causes you to feel good after ate some bars. But you can feel yourself weak and hungry if you don’t eat nothing else.

You can mix it with protein once again and try to maintain a balanced diet. You can eat crap too like fast food, but in minimal amounts. Those chemicals are stored in your body and need some time to clean out. Vitamine C is a good thing to use, it cleans you out used with minerals or with protein. I may post another blog about using Vitamine C in a perfect doesage. But never mix sugar with Vitamine C, you don’t want kidney problems, or may not but it is just stupid.

Sugar is bad if…

Well if you are only eating sugar. Or if you THINK it is bad and you fueled this thought for a long time. If you have certain health issues like diabetes, I have a story here, to see it is caused by yourself (mostly!). I knew a man who has it, BUT he can eat sugar, chocolate! I made him believe (ok, tried to liberate his mind) he has no problems and can consume it in little amounts of course, but his problem is caused by himself. He thinks he doesn’t worth his life, he had bad relationships with women, he is just torturing himself directly and he also knows it, and doesn’t want to change his mindset. A certain view of his reality in this life causes the trouble. Well that is his life, if he wish it, it can be reality.
Old people can have diabetes too, full of life problems mentally and beliefs from decades, now imagine how hard to cure them… They can only rely on specialists like “doctors” and can’t help themselves – well why should they if they are as brainwashed and as “intelligent” as their parents from the last century. They BELIEVE in external help. To support elderly, there are highly intelligent people too, I don’t want to label them, I know some personally too.

Don’t listen to others! WHO knows what is good for you? Only you know that. If you don’t know, you should closely observe your thoughts about certain things in your life, how do you feel about them. Change that belief and experiment with it.

Finally, don’t be afraid of sugar, it is spreaded widely how it is bad or your body is in trouble from it. Use it in balance with real foods and don’t overconsume it. That’s all.
If you think you can’t eat sugar, because it is harmful, now that is a belief construct, which you gave power and became your reality. You can reverse it!
Sugar is needed by our brain, simple sugars, but any of them can help it.
If you decline sugar in your life – meaning the sweatness (not just this kind of), like watching a movie, it will cause to decline everything which the mainstrain brainwashing tells you. You are the only one, who feels what do your body need. And if you feel yourself well from it, that is the best!

Eat more protein, less fat and less sugar, but don’t just decline them. Your lifestyle also needs it if you are more active in body, but if you don’t eat more protein than those, your body will degrade much fast, your muscles will weaken, lose muscle mass and your body and brain will suffer.

Sugar doesn’t cause cancer, You are causing it. Not genetics, not sugar. But it can fuel damaged cells and help it. Nothing complicated.
It is like going to the doctor to take a pill for certain problems. You can’t heal yourself, forgot it, this way you are going for external help and giving belief to a pill that it will finally heal your problems. Many times it can’t, your belief is weak again. Surprise : ) But sometimes our beliefs are weak and need that pill, well it is an interesting self-programming game.

The illusion of Birth and Death

For the game here and in every physical-like worlds, we on a higher perspective, made a construct to enter to a given world at a certain timescale and exit, when the game is ended. Now we can’t happen to just exist on a physical planet, it would ruin the whole game, just as we can’t just live forever, it would have no use and also could ruin the game. This is the illusion of life.

You are born here at certain race, certain body, characteristics and form initial possibilities, you are free to chose your path and whatever you believe. Nobody forces you, and your circumstances are what you may chose for grow. You can blame other’s about your misery, but you are there for a reason and you need to understand it – not anybody else’s job.
From birth, we need to develop physically and learn to function in this world, so we can become according our beliefs and choices. Social conditioning does the job really, developing brainwashed people and building up unnecessary mental blocks, which later serves the purpose of billions of people’s struggling.

You are living always in the moment and while you are living a seemingly real life, you are closer to the end game. At death you are exiting, or rather switching focus to go back where you came from and everybody else. There you got back your full awareness of your inner being and you are free to do whatever you want to.

Why older people are just always have some diseases? Even young people?

Diesases are nothing more than a byproduct, or rather a projection of your mental state and beliefs.

Just ask everybody, your family members (you rather already know it, the cause), friends, known people, why are they ill, have cancer, certain types of diseases?
Now, many people don’t select various illnesses consciously. Most of diseases and illnesses coming from subconscious programming. Many people try to end their lives but in decades (well I never understood this, why so slow…). Most of them are from the circle of people thinking, when they reached pension around 60+, they lost their life, their purpose and it is over, a slowly degrading life, feeling they are unworthy. Their body is already old and unhealthy. They heat this issue further with more subconscious thinking in the background, giving negative thinking more power. Or just believe in what others saying about illnesses and “you can’t cure it” stuffs. BS, people could heal themselves many times from their misery, like cancer, too – the only needed issue here is changing your thinking and solving mental issues. The physical body should be in perfect health any time. You just need to observe your beliefs and find the best diet for your body.

Illnesses and diseases are also tools for the physical game.
It would be just boring, dying in oldness without anything for many. Most of the people are experiencing the exit in this way, as their NP counterpart experiences it too. Not a tragedy, just experience and growing from it. Ok I admit, I guess many people are not learning even a thing from their own self-created mind acts. I know too many people about this issue. They don’t care, they don’t even know what will come. Surprise what religion does? People don’t know a thing from brainwashing and just don’t want to, that’s sad!

What happens in the “Afterlife”?

I have bad news and good ones too here. Your willingness to be open and don’t accept just religions, group constructs like a vastly naive human, could make your way easier.

The good news are, if you are relatively free from beliefs, you end up in the non-physical with much less struggle and if you are also intelligent, you could navigate easily there, and not stucked in any wrong places. Forget the Hell construct, if you’re not believing in it, it won’t happen.

The Afterlife (human) is full of regions, which are since a while had a label, the so called Belief System Territories (BST). They exist, I saw many NP cities, people are just living physical like life there too, don’t even have the slightest idea that they are “dead”, or on other words non-physical. People just die and end up in different regions, according to their beliefs and likes. You are relatively free to go, but you are addicted, most of us are. You are not experienced eating enough sugar, having kids, having a soul mate, having business, seeing a country, trying out certain hobbies… surprise, you will soon plan another life to jump back to a certain Earth simulation and do whatever you wish. YOU are deciding your next physical life, nobody else. Now this is much hard to understand because you are a community of personalities and you are already living your other lives simultaneously, I will make another post on this.
But it is obvious, the vast majority just losing their conscious connection to their source.

The bad thing is that most of the humanity is attached to beliefs and religions. They are just not ready to experience everything else. They end up on the most resonating “places” and staying there for who knows how much time. Now time is nothing there, but there are in scale vast problems what people could continue to experience after they exit from here.
Let me take an example here. There are people in this world, who believe, there is nothing after death, you are just in the nothingness, you cease to exist – why should you cease to exist? And some of them end up floating in the transition zone of 3D Void and just wait, and still blaming themselves, “I told myself, I knew it”. And NP people can help you get out, but it is up to you. But on the other hand some of them end up in different healing facilities. Beliefs, beliefs, beliefs + emotions. That’s it!
Others are teleporting out to a different dimensions which is still simulating their last known life situation when they were killed or had some other life threatening issue, and they are in an energy bubble, repeating the same situation for eternity until somebody blows up their energy block and help him/her get out and realise, they are creating their own problem.

Transition Zone

We made a construct in a wider reality to experience the return to our true home to the NP world. We made human constructs to enter certain places, facilities and there you are healed emotionally, mentally, whatever. It is for traumas and repeating issues in yourself to help you get over your non-existent problems and stop taking Earth life previously seriously.

After the Transition, you are leaded to these places and they are real, so much people noted back and made diaries about these places that they saw people are getting there. Now age here is not important, many people are having an age image around their 30’s but others just using a child’s image. Your physical appearance is only just a self image, nothing more. But humans are just hung upon their physical body and can’t let it go, sad really. They think they are that person, that body!
There is the old saying, which older people are used to say, if I was old, and will die, I will be the wise. Why should a completely idiot man/woman should be wise if he never was? Comeon, self trickery again. I knew to much people in my life already who thought that they are wise, one of them is around 70. Who do you want to fool?

People are so there to shake off bad emotions, and mostly beliefs. It is a hard one, beliefs are creating our reality in both sides. Emotions are the other ones, people when they dream just release all the emotions in the next Focus state called Dreamworld and just living up all their likes or bad emotions, fears and having bad dreams.

If You can’t control your motions and beliefs in your waking life, chances are, you will have struggling in the non-physical too and never get further than the massive amount of people there. I mean maybe quadrillions of them, just many, nobody knows the number and this is only our local system of humans. Non-physical exploring needs a certain type of emotional balance, passive but curious mindstate and no fear. Fear is just coming from yourself, the unknown which you don’t want to face or solve.

There is nothing to fear, especially of death. You will be cared of by other spirits, saying this without any religious BS. But eventually there, You are the only one who judges yourself – in any perspective. Love yourself more day by day.